The Art of Persistence: Navigating Setbacks and Successes on Your Journey to Financial Progress
Google Financial literacy and it's a hot topic all over the world, from millenials worried about college to boomers wondering if they can retire with $ 2 million in assets and investments, and everyone in between. The finance industry itself always seems to on a growth trend, yet it's easy to get hooked on the idea that there is one right way - a set of tactics and strategies for financial security. Just a minute, personal finance is personal just like personal development is personal, and a weight loss journey is personal. Why are we forgetting that, and reaching for the one size fits all solutions dished out by the likes of Dave Ramsey and Fire and YNAB? The David Bach's, Suze Orman's. Have we bought in so deeply to this that the more important 70%, the stuff that isn't in the spreadsheets and budgets and rigid envelopes is ignored? It's vital to the health of your money relationship to remember that the thoughts you think about money, or the absence of it in your life is true financial literacy. Understanding context, the meaning - obvious and invisible, and that backslides, slips, total F-ups, and all the things that appear to be you falling behind are in fact a necessary right of passage on every money journey to a healthy relationship. Overcoming "Keeping Up with the Jones" When you focus solely on making money, on being the best house on the street, having the newest cars, the private schools, the sports teams, dare I say not a dandelion in sight, something has to give. And in the search for that you don't allow for any slipups. It's to the top - or else. The fall from grace is great. Because if you aren't slipping and sliding, taking detours and getting a flat or two fixed on your car on the way, all that is likely going to come in a big package. At your supposed top. Divorce - job loss - accident - illness. It is almost inevitable. Each path is unique, like the morning routine. Or the non existent morning routine. The 70% is something that is created from a melting pot of ideas, beliefs, thoughts, quotes, wisdom from those who came before us, those near to us, and the opener to new perspectives comes mostly from people and things we reach for in those two steps back. To find our footing. The "People LIke Me Don't" Belief Our society has designed personas that we are supposed to fit into. Each generation has it's special ones. The Boomers and the lawyers, accountants and doctors. Gen Z fighting to not be like their parents and create more latch-key kids so there's always one parent home. The Millenials protected in bubble wrap and constantly surveyed by helicopter parents. And those roles have incomes assigned to them, and expectations. We can shake those expectations and focus on creating our own personal finance reality. We can figure out the pieces that empower our financial literacy. We can devote energy to changing the unspoken words, to the feeling inside that is guiding us - that's the 70%. You develop a strong infrastructure that can support the life you are dreaming of. It can withstand the temporary misjudgements, the occasional over-spend, the every once in a while credit card balance that is over 30% of your limit, the impulse of booking that short vacation weekend. Vistas and Beautiful Sunrises Financial peace is so much more than a specific $ figure in your accounts, or a number of houses in your portfolio. And it's definitely not getting up every single day and looking at a rigid spreadsheet or budget and measuring yourself against it, berating yourself with the shoulds, coulds, if onlys, and what ifs. Financial peace, a life free of financial stress, each day void of financial worries, is all yours in the 70%, in the new thinking, in the changing beliefs, and in the attempts to try a new way, a new process,a tweak to a new system. Resources (updated on 1 April 2023): Join my FREE 4 Week Boost Your Money IQ course and see a immediate improvement in your financial anxiety in all areas of life Start now Get on the Waitlist to Work Together in The Breakthrough Navigator - Money Edition or Business & Money Edition