How to SHIFT FORCE / FEAR to Confident Communication

  What's the difference between social masking vs social confidence? How do you shift your state?   0:00 Social Masking is Universal 2:03 How to be Sociable + Presentable 3:09 How to Master your Expressions 5:13 How to be Sharp/Soft Socially 6:09 How to 'Weave' in Groups 8:05 How to Shift Force/Fear 9:39 'Wanda-Vision' Social Mastery   MORE: Get the Social Flow Blueprint - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiu Social Flow Blueprint (alternative link) - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiuViews Book 1:1 Coaching - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu 1:1 Coaching (alternative link) - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Ariel's Lifestyle Offers - https://bit.ly/niuviewsoffersspreadsheet Sign up for Ariel's Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email Ariel's mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Podcast - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB Partnerships/Media/Inquiries - [email protected]   ABOUT: Ariel Niu, social dynamics thought leader, creator, and coach, explores how we influence each other from the inside out; from our thoughts and emotions, to our expressions and behaviours.   #emotionalintelligence #charisma #lifehack #communicationskills #confidence #energy #magnetism #lifechanging #lifehacks #selfmastery #howto #socialanxiety #podcast #NiuViews #ArielNiu

If you’ve ever left a conversation feeling unseen, unheard, or misunderstood…you likely slipped into Superiority (force) or Inferiority (fear). Balance your sharp and soft—so you can be clear, powerful, and approachable all at once.   MORE: Get the Social Flow Blueprint - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiu Social Flow Blueprint (alternative link) - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiuViews Book 1:1 Coaching - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu 1:1 Coaching (alternative link) - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Ariel's Lifestyle Offers - https://bit.ly/niuviewsoffersspreadsheet Sign up for Ariel's Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email Ariel's mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Podcast - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB Partnerships/Media/Inquiries - [email protected]   ABOUT: Ariel Niu, social dynamics thought leader, creator, and coach, explores how we influence each other from the inside out; from our thoughts and emotions, to our expressions and behaviours.   #communicatewithconfidence #emotionalintelligence #communicationskills #innerconfidence #energy #selfhelp #lifechanging #charisma #lifehack #selfmastery #howto #socialanxiety #podcast #NiuViews #ArielNiu    

  Your energy is what people feel—even before your words. Here's how to shift your energy and practice eye-level balance with others. No more force, no more fear, you're going to flow to glow.   MORE: Get the Social Flow Blueprint - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiu Social Flow Blueprint (alternative link) - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiuViews Book 1:1 Coaching - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu 1:1 Coaching (alternative link) - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Ariel's Lifestyle Offers - https://bit.ly/niuviewsoffersspreadsheet Sign up for Ariel's Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email Ariel's mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Podcast - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB Partnerships/Media/Inquiries - [email protected]   ABOUT: Ariel Niu, social dynamics thought leader, creator, and coach, explores how we influence each other from the inside out; from our thoughts and emotions, to our expressions and behaviours.   #socialskills #confidence #lifechanging #charisma #emotionalintelligence #energy #lifehack #confidencebuilding #relationships #selfmastery #howto #confidencetips #lifehacks #socialanxiety #flowstate #podcast #NiuViews #ArielNiu

The sweet spot. Here are examples, my own stories, and how to be both at once.  Get my Flow Blueprint - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiu YouTube version for visuals: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PzogRkPjqPc   0:00 – What is Alert Nonchalance? 0:25 – Too Nonchalant vs Too 'Chalant' 1:52 – Personal Experiences 5:07 – How to be Unbothered AND Kind 10:52 – Conclusion   MORE: Get Ariel's Flow Blueprint - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiu 1:1 Coaching with Ariel - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Ariel's Lifestyle Offers - https://bit.ly/niuviewsoffersspreadsheet Sign up for Ariel's Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email Try Ariel's mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries/Partnerships/Media - [email protected]   ABOUT: Ariel Niu @niu.views is a creator, coach, and thought leader on self and social dynamics, helping her audience and clients realize self identity and social confidence through understanding how we influence each other from the inside out.   #emotionalintelligence #lifechanging #lifehack #confidencebuilding #relationships #selfmastery #unbothered #howto #confidencetips #lifehacks #socialanxiety #flowstate #podcast #NiuViews #ArielNiu

Create a moment, sensualize yourself in that moment everyday, and be Him / Her / Them Now.   0:00 – Concept of Sensualization 2:00 – Creating a Peak Moment 4:55 – The Deeper Self-Work 6:00 – Honing Natural Expressions 8:30 – Removing Guilt Around Desires 10:30 – Letting the Vision Expand 11:45 – 3 Anchors: Intention, Breath, Balance 12:35 – Final Reflections 13:33 – Closing Mantras   MORE: Get Ariel's Flow Blueprint - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiu Book 1:1 Coaching with Ariel - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Sign up for Ariel's Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email Try Ariel's mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries/Partnerships/Media - [email protected]   ABOUT: Ariel Niu @niu.views is a creator, coach, and thought leader on self and social dynamics, helping her audience and clients realize self identity and social confidence through understanding how we influence each other from the inside out.   #lifechanging #goalsetting #selfmastery #lifehack #emotionalintelligence #howto #confidencetips #lifehacks #selfdiscovery #visionboard #podcast #NiuViews #ArielNiu

Gaslighting isn’t happening to you—it’s happening through you. Let’s break the matrix together.   0:00 — Introduction + Example 0:27 — The Mirror Effect 2:33 — How to Respond to Gaslighting 4:21 — Gaslighting is a Fear-Based Reaction 5:35 — When to Shift vs When to Disengage 7:00 — Matrix of Gaslighting—Breaking the Cycle   MORE: Get the Flow Confidence Blueprint - https://bit.ly/FlowBlueprintArielNiu Book 1:1 Coaching - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Sign up for my Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries/Partnerships/Media - [email protected]   ABOUT: Ariel Niu @niu.views is a creator, coach, and thought leader on self identity and social dynamics, helping people with self expression and social confidence in a way that feels powerful, authentic, and sustainable, through exploring our emotions, expressions, and energy. #EmotionalIntelligence   #HowTo #Lifechanging #Gaslighting #SelfMastery #ToxicRelationships #Manipulation #Energy #ConfidenceTips #Psychology #Lifehacks #SelfMastery #CommunicationTips #BodyLanguage #Podcast #NiuViews #ArielNiu

Masking takes energy. Real confidence gives energy. Stop forcing or fearing confidence and actually BE confident inside and out.   0:00 - Masking vs. True Confidence 1:03 - Being Real while Staying Elusive 2:15 - Sensing Masking from People 3:34 - Tips + Examples 8:31 - The Balance: Owning Your Truth & Staying Open   MORE: Get my Flow Confidence Blueprint - https://bit.ly/EnergyMasteryBlueprint Book 1:1 Coaching - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Workplace Boundaries Scripts - https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Sign up for my Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries/Partnerships/Media - [email protected]   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is interconnected. Since 2018, I have been practicing shifting my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about the nature of our dynamics, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #lifehacks #confidence #charisma #emotionalintelligence #selfmastery #conversationalskills #communicationtips #bodylanguage #socialskills #lifehack #psychology #podcast #niuviews

There’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance—so how do we stay in balance? In this episode, I answered live questions on self-awareness, ego, storytelling, and protecting your energy in a chaotic world.   Get my Flow Blueprint - https://bit.ly/EnergyMasteryBlueprint Book coaching with me - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Listen to my mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Try the Othership Breathwork App - https://bit.ly/niuviewsoffersspreadsheet Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Sign up for my Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries/Partnerships/Media - [email protected]   0:00 – The Fine Line Between Confidence & Arrogance 4:30 – How to Stay Confident Without Overcompensating 9:15 – Confidence in a Chaotic World & Protecting Your Energy 13:45 – Power of Presence & Social Influence 18:10 – How to Master Storytelling & Command Attention 22:00 – Final Thoughts on Confidence & Self-Awareness   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I explore social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is interconnected. Since 2018, I have been practicing shifting my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about the nature of our dynamics, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #confidence #selfawareness #selfmastery #charisma #conversationalskills #bodylanguage #emotionalintelligence #peoplepleaser #magnetism #socialskills #lifehack #lifechanging #psychology #podcast #niuviews

It's not what we want, it's how we be. The being is not easy, but it's so simple.   MORE: Get the Energy Mastery Blueprint - https://bit.ly/EnergyMasteryBlueprint Book a 1:1 session with Ariel - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Access Livestream Replays - https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal Workplace Boundaries Scripts - https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Sign up for my Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries/Partnerships/Media - [email protected]   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #selfmastery #confidence #philosophy #bodylanguage #charisma #emotionalintelligence #peoplepleaser #flow #balance #socialskills #magnetism #energy #socialskills #lifehack #lifechanging #psychology #podcast #niuviews  

Say less, but make it count. Balance your delivery with clarity, precision, and playfulness. See YouTube version for visuals of examples provided: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PjUqnkP1Bj0  Master your energy for true confidence, get the blueprint: https://bit.ly/EnergyMasteryBlueprint Book a 1:1 session with me: https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu   0:00 - Introduction + Examples 0:44 - Try less, but make it precise 1:16 - Get to your point 2:42 - Catch and maintain flow 3:28 - Awareness and breathing 4:00 - Sharp and soft dynamics 6:28 - Facial expressions and body language 7:37 - Infusing playfulness 8:18 - Summary   MORE: Energy Mastery Blueprint (ENGLISH + CHINESE versions) - https://bit.ly/EnergyMasteryBlueprint Book 1:1 Energy Coaching - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu Order an Energy Reading - https://bit.ly/energyreadingarielniu Access ALL Livestream Replays - https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal Workplace Boundaries Scripts - https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Website - https://arielniuviews.bio Sign up for my Emails - https://arielniuviews.bio/email mediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries/Partnerships/Media - [email protected]   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #confidence #publicspeaking #bodylanguage #charisma #emotionalintelligence #peoplepleaser #flow #balance #socialskills #magnetism #energy #socialskills #lifehack #lifechanging #balance #psychology #podcast #niuviews