
What This Work Asks of Therapists: Integration, Not Knowing, and the Capacity to Stay - An Interview with Juliane Taylor Shore, LMFT, LPC, SEP
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What This Work Asks of Therapists: Integration, Not Knowing, and the Capacity to Stay - An Interview with Juliane Taylor Shore, LMFT, LPC, SEP
Juliane Taylor Shore, LMFT, LPC, SEP, on therapist integration, not knowing, and the capacity to stay in the room.
Curt and Katie talk with Juliane Taylor Shore, LMFT, LPC, SEP, about what determines how much a therapist can do in session. Her answer is not which model you reach for, but how integrated you are while you reach for it. Jules wrote Setting Boundaries That Stick and created the STAIR Method.
Jules separates eclectic practice, pulling from whichever training fits the moment, from integrative practice, where one theory of mind and theory of change organizes which tool gets used when. Hers is neurobiological: the brain as an open, dynamic, complex system, most stable and most flexible when its parts stay differentiated and cross-share information.
She also names what she thinks training got wrong. Many therapists learned to read client comfort as the measure of their therapeutic presence, a poor gauge when most clients arrive in a threat state. Her alternative is the therapist's own integration, because that is what creates capacity for connection, bonding, and creativity when a session gets hard.
In this episode, we discuss:
- What separates integrative from eclectic practice
- Why client comfort is an unreliable measure of therapeutic presence
- How adding compassion to empathy keeps a clinician from fatiguing
- What humility and self-kindness predict about client outcomes
- How power with differs from power over and power under
- Why presence and skill have to be trained in the same state
- What grief this job asks therapists to hold
Timestamps:
- 02:32 - Integrative therapy versus eclectic practice
- 05:07 - Theory of mind, theory of change, and integration
- 09:10 - What therapists get wrong about presence
- 16:27 - Why empathy fatigues and compassion does not
- 19:36 - Color shifting and finding felt compassion
- 28:11 - PONS: power, of-courseness, not knowing, and self
- 35:23 - The salience network, presence, and skill
- 38:41 - The grief this work asks you to hold
Guest Bio:
Juliane Taylor Shore, LMFT, LPC, SEP, is a therapist, author, and teacher who translates neurobiology into practices that support brain change. She wrote Setting Boundaries That Stick, created the STAIR Method, and is an associate Instructor with the Coherence Institute and core faculty with Therapy Wisdom. Learn more at julianetaylorshore.com.
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