How to Have Better Conversations with High Performers (Lessons from a Dinner with Business Moguls)

Anyone else terrified to speak on stage? That used to be me, and now as a keynote speaker I had the best conversation with today’s guest about how to push past any fear and learn the business of public speaking! Judi Holler is a master keynote speaker, podcaster, best-selling author and creator of “Speaker School Academy'' helping you find your voice and go from dream to speaking on stages. Whether you want to speak on stages professionally or not, this episode is full of tips to share your message online and connect with your audience (a skill we ALL need to grow personal brands). No matter where you are in your journey, we all have fears - listen in for a few of my fears before stepping on stage, and what I do to move past them and crush it anyways. HIGHLIGHTS 08:00 The mindset shift to reframe and overcome your fears.  10:30 Daily practices that will expand your comfort zone.  14:30 Practical strategies for managing fear before important tasks. 18:45 Finding the sweet spot between fear and faith. 23:30 Keys to help you get super clear and focused to find success. 33:00 Judi shares her rock bottom moment and how it all started on an airplane. 35:00 My embarrassing story pitching Oprah. 38:30 The power of community and mentorship in overcoming fear. 49:00 Behind the scenes of Judi Holler's online course. RESOURCES Learn the business of keynote speaking - use code: LORI at checkout for $500 OFF Speaker School Check out the BONUS CONTENT! Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 15% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness Follow Judi: @judiholler

We are only going to be as good as the thoughts we think and the things we believe. So if you want to change your life, change your thoughts. I was listening to an episode from The Skinny Confidential podcast recently where they had Gary Vee on, and they were talking about things they don’t buy into and it got me thinking about things I personally refuse to buy into and it literally changes how I experience my life and the world around me. From thoughts on “cancel culture” to making sure I’m a critical thinker, I hope this passes on the spark of you reflecting on what you don’t buy into that makes your life better (or maybe something you won’t believe anymore.) HIGHLIGHTS 03:00 The lie people are thinking about being able to grow a following on social media. 05:45 I’m not buying into “cancel culture”. 08:15 Why I want to gather data from many different places and be a critical thinker. 10:00 What I refuse to believe or give any energy to in the chaotic world right now. RESOURCES Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 15% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

I love a good routine, and what Chris and I talk about in this episode has challenged the way I think about my routines, and helped me fully live my life. Traveling and having unique experiences with friends and strangers in other countries that live differently than I do have been some of my life’s biggest teachers. Intentionally traveling outside your normal routine and immersing yourself in new cultures can completely transform your life, and it’s transformed my businesses. Listen in to hear about the table I was sitting at when I knew I needed to go all in on what is now glōci, the biggest lessons I learned from 30 days in Europe, and how you can join us on a once in a lifetime trip to Italy this year. HIGHLIGHTS 03:00 Why is it important to fit in travel when you don’t feel like you have the time? 05:15 How we make sure we have the most unique experiences when we travel. 07:00 The room that inspired Lori to take action on her idea that has become glōci. 09:45 The ideas that become 100 million + dollar companies. 12:15 What I learned about my own health and living my life after spending 30 days in Europe. 15:00 How our marriage has changed by traveling and having bucket list experiences together. 17:30 Ways to create deeper relationships and think on a bigger level. RESOURCES Go to chrisharder.me/italy to fill out an application to join our once in a lifetime trip. Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 15% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Is it possible to have 6 figure days?? YESS, yes it is but sometimes you need to borrow confidence or the belief from someone else who has already paved the way. My guest today will blow your mind sharing with you the quantum leap she took to get to her first 6 figure day. Kat Norton better known as “Miss Excel” is an online educator, content creator with super fun and engaging videos on TikTok and Instagram that led her to reaching 1 million followers. If you know you are called for more, get ready to upgrade your mindset, tap into your inner genius, and unleash the badass within, this episode is a must-listen for optimizing your life, my friend! HIGHLIGHTS 02:00 Kat’s journey from corporate America to influencer. 06:00 Ways to shift your mindset and step into your lane of genius.  16:00 Say goodbye to stuck energy – it's time to bet on yourself! 21:45 Ways you can hold space for yourself to win big and start showing up! 28:30 The first step to take to start scaling in quantum leaps!  33:30 Tools to start living a life that truly lights you up. 42:00 Kat shares the reprogramming she did that allowed herself to truly be seen. 52:45 Unlock Your Potential: Gain the strong body and mind you need to start living your dream life. RESOURCES Bonus Content: How to Leverage Energetics to Better Manage Your Calendar Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 15% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Kat on IG: @miss.excel @miss.optimize Kat on TikTok: miss.excel Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Small things done daily with CHANGE YOUR LIFE! I’m a big podcast listener myself and some of my favorite episodes I’m listening to right now are other people’s routines. I love a good routine and my human design even says I’m meant to help people with their own routines, so my hope is this inspires you to find the morning routine that is best for you and run with it. You can have the life, health, relationships, and happiness you want. It’s your daily routines and habits that will earn them. HIGHLIGHTS 01:15 The old story I used to believe that a happy and abundant life wasn’t for me. 03:00 How to earn the life, relationships, and happiness you want. 07:15 When should I change up my routine? 09:00 The mantra Chris and I say every morning. 10:15 My morning coffee and protein rich breakfast routine. 13:00 What I listen to so I can set my mind right for the day.  17:45 Why I swear by supplementing with probiotics. 20:00 Major benefits of going on walks and why I go on a walk in the morning.  RESOURCES Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 15% off! Products mentioned in this episode ClearStem HYDRAGLO Moisturizer Skinny Confidential Sunscreen Hot Mess Ice Roller Farmer’s Dog Pet Food Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

We just went to the most epic dinner party hosted by our friend Christopher King at the home of makeup mogul Anastasia. After going to this intimate dinner with a group of high performers, Chris and I decided to share some tips we know will help you connect deeper and have better conversations the next time you step into a networking event or dinner like this. Plus we share some of our biggest takeaways from this dinner party on living a truly rich life, pursuing your purpose, and what the best entrepreneurs and brands in the world focus on that have led to global (legacy level) success.  HIGHLIGHTS 03:15 The dinner with Oprah, JLo, the Kardashians, and more celebrities. 05:45 How to be interesting in conversations. 08:00 Questions I asked at the most recent  11:00 What #1 thing the biggest luxury brand focuses on to be successful (and it’s not sales.) 15:15 Why Anastasia (of Anastasia Beverly Hills) says she’ll never retire. 17:30 Finding purpose in parenthood and in other areas in life. 19:30 Our biggest tips for having better conversations. RESOURCES Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 15% off! Text ITALY to 310-421-0416 to be the first to get details on our upcoming once in a lifetime trip.  Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Your purpose and the life that’s meant for you is closer than you think (and getting clear on it is so simple!) Today’s guest, Elaine Glass, is an expert at taking you from stuck and going through the motions in your life, to decluttering your mind, finding peace, and tuning in to your soul's calling. Elaine shares her story of the wake up call realizing she was in an unhealthy marriage and living inauthentically. By facing her fears of the unknown she realized there are 7 simple truths to discover who you really are and live the life that's meant for you. I relate to so much of this conversation, it was like therapy and full of ways to simplify your life that you can apply right away. If you’re ready to reclaim your power and create true wealth in every area of your life - you don’t want to miss this.  HIGHLIGHTS 01:45 Elaine Glass’s 7 simple truths for discovering who you really are. 08:30 Ways to reclaim your power and make big changes with simple steps forward. 12:00 How to recognize your inner voice and allow your soul's calling to guide you. 14:45 The keys to unlocking your ability to truly enjoy Yourself. 22:15 What would it look like to feel the lightest you ever have? 27:00 How to rise above fear and gain ultimate love! 29:45 What happens to your body physically when you live more peacefully? 36:30 Ways to unlock the state of pure rest. RESOURCES Order Elaine's Book - Get Quiet: 7 Simple Paths to the Truth of Who You Are Make sure to tag Elaine and I on Instagram with your biggest takeaway to enter the book giveaway! Get glōci HERE and use code: HAPPY for 15% off Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow Elaine: @elaineglass.author Follow me: @loriharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

I recently got back from a week in Nashville and I feel so inspired by the talent and amazing friends I spent time with. It got me reflecting on one of the biggest things that has grown my career - networking and adding value to others I want to connect with. When you become the great aggregator of the space you’re in, you will always be able to find the support you need down the road from others that are doing big things. In this episode, I share the best way you can grow your network without worrying about wanting anything back in return, and watch the group of people you connect, rise together. HIGHLIGHTS 01:00 Am I buying a house in Nashville now? 05:15 The most common results people are getting with glōci! 08:00 One thing I’ve done to add value and grow my network. 11:00 Exciting things coming to show the results people are getting with glōci. RESOURCES Get glōci HERE and use code: HAPPY at checkout for 15% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

When you are a high performer and have high expectations of course you’re going to shoot for the stars when you set a goal. What happens when you don’t hit that goal you had set? In this episode, we share the power of recognizing your accomplishments while also looking at the data to see tweaks you can make to improve and move forward. If you want to be successful you need to be in the long game, the improvement game, and the examining data game. I’m playing all of these games and learning even more as I get into the product space with Glōci. Listen in for the levers I’m pulling, and the data that will guide you towards success.  HIGHLIGHTS 03:00 We have really high expectations - what do we do when we don’t hit them? 06:30 The data to look at to know what to adjust in your next launch. 08:00 Would you be willing to do 91 webinars to make 5 million? 11:15 How likely is it to get success overnight? RESOURCES Get glōci HERE - Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 15% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness

Grab your go-to beverage (glōci anyone?), settle into your cozy spot, and prepare for an empowering chat like no other! If you’ve been to a living room session or even heard one of these episodes here on the podcast you know Lindsey and I had the best conversation in front of as we spill the secrets to unlocking your true potential and skyrocketing to new heights! Say goodbye to self-sabotage and hello to the unstoppable force within you. It's time to embrace the mindset of success and become the 10x version of yourself you've always dreamed of. These live living room sessions are one of my favorite things I do here on the podcast, and I can’t wait for you to get a glimpse of what it’s like to be in the room with us. HIGHLIGHTS 05:00 Who do I need to become to take myself to the next level? 15:00 Investments we’re making to open up new opportunities.  20:00 The hack to uplevel your identity for 10x growth! 30:00 Ways to amplify your potential to conquer your goals! 40:00 Attract opportunities, abundance, and fulfillment into your life as your winner self. RESOURCES Get glōci HERE Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness Follow Lindsey: @llindseyschwartz