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Are You Leading or Just Reacting?

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“Why does she still feel unsafe—even when I do what she says?”
“Why do I feel attacked when she disagrees?”
“What’s the difference between reacting and actually leading?”

In this episode, we confront a hard truth for many men: doing what your wife says doesn’t build trust—leading with purpose does. If you're feeling unsure, aimless, or overly sensitive to disagreement, this conversation will challenge and equip you.

Inside, you’ll learn:

  • Why following your wife’s words isn’t the same as taking her seriously

  • How to respond with spiritual authority rather than people-pleasing

  • The truth about being “psychologically lazy” at home—and how to fix it

  • Why your wife watches how you adapt your goals, not just whether you complete them

  • How confidence, spiritual purpose, and consistency build emotional safety

We’ll also explore how misinterpreting your wife’s strength leads to confusion—and how embracing your stewardship can restore clarity, direction, and unity.

This episode is a wake-up call for any man who wants to be more than a passive partner. It’s time to lead with wisdom—not just reaction.

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