How Building a Business is a Lot Like Dating | Ep. 12

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In this episode we are digging into the fear of making the wrong decision and how to release it by looking firsthand into a recent client call. I walk you through her entire coaching call and how she moved from being overwhelmed by making the potentially “wrong” decision to moving forward powerfully and finally taking action.

In this episode we’re going to dive into being selfish, why you need to be, why you shouldn’t apologize for it, and how being “selfish” can propel you forward in your business and lead to a more meaningful life.  I have a feeling you’re going to relate to today’s episode a lot because even though each of my client’s are unique individuals with different businesses and family lifestyles, they all tend to share the same struggles.  So I want to share this client story with you because of the profound impact that it had on her and how you can learn from her growth and make meaningful shifts in your life and business too. Work with me

I get so many questions from followers and clients alike wanting to hear what it was like starting my coaching business and if I struggled with the same things they did. And the answer is 100% YES. Building a business from nothing but an idea you have one day is hard work, but it’s so worth it. Listen to this episode to hear about the beginning of my journey and how I built my business to six-figures and beyond.

This episode idea came up when I was coaching one of my clients through her experience dating and how that is translating over into her professional life. And I started seeing a ton of similarities in my own experience dating post divorce as well as my experience as a business owner. So in today's episode, I want to share 5 pieces of coaching and tips to allow you to not only show up consistently and authentically for your business but also allow yourself to enjoy the journey and create exactly what you want. We're talking about:  Being willing to put yourself out there and show up as you truly are not how you think you need to be in order to be liked. Know exactly what you want and what you don’t. Letting it be messy and imperfect and not being hard on yourself Feeling all the things that come up on the journey without shaming yourself Recognizing areas where you need to heal/grow (in business areas where you need to work on your mindset and limiting beliefs) Taking the entirety of experience one day at a time, not being attached to the outcome, loving yourself throughout Schedule a free consultation call with me here: Get in touch with Bravely You Coaching (honeybook.com)

Ever just need a boost of encouragement? A reminder that you ARE worthy?  Then this episode is what you need. It’s short and sweet and reminds you why the world needs you to show up and why you deserve all the good things to flow into your life with abundance. Use today’s podcast as encouragement for when you need a reminder that you have a purpose. That people need to learn from you. That you have the power to make a difference in someone’s entire life by just being brave enough to put yourself and your message out there. Enroll in the Resilience Mastery 6-Week Coaching Program here: Resilient Mastermind (kartra.com) Connect with me: @bravely_you_coaching Business Mindset Coach | Linktree

I have a hot take on a popular coaching topic that will probably sound a lot like I'm telling you to feel miserable... And I am kind of. But hear me out... Have you ever been in the middle of a workout and your brain is 100% like ... "Ok this shit is too hard. We’re exhausted. Everything hurts. This is where we quit.” Your brain literally pushes you to give up. But have you ever gone a little farther? Experienced the discomfort but kept pushing? And then realized, wow - I had so much more in me than I realized...I kept going long after my brain told me to give up. That is what I'm talking about on today's episode of the podcast. We're talking about scarcity mindset and why it can actually be a good thing to help you get to where you want to be. It's a different perspective than what you've heard before, and trust me - you don't want to miss it. Because it just might be the thing you need to hear today if you're feeling a lot of discomfort or fear around your business. Work with me here: @bravely_you_coaching Business Mindset Coach | Linktree

When it’s hard to feel the tough shit…  In today's episode, I want to dive into what it looks like to feel and process emotions.  Which is kind of the perfect follow up to last week’s episode.  Because it’s one thing to be able to make powerful decisions in life even when you know it may make people uncomfortable or upset. But it’s another thing to make decisions and then allow for the resulting emotions not just pretend they’re not there. It’s a two part process really.  You work up the courage to be bold and brave.  You take the difficult action to make a hard decision knowing that it may make others feel some type of way.  You witness their discomfort and negative emotions and are on the receiving end of their thoughts and opinions.  And then at the end of the day, it's just you and your brain.  When you finally take the action or speak your mind or hold space for yourself. It’s almost an adrenaline rush. But afterwards, the difficult decisions often come with difficult internal emotions.  So in this episode, I want to walk you through what I teach my clients when they’re navigating difficult emotions or situations.  I’m covering:  How to recognize and name the emotions coming  Allow for them to be there without shaming yourself  Feel them all the way through  And then move past them using curiosity  It’s profoundly simple but it will impact your entire life and allow you to move through difficult emotions faster if you practice it. Work with me here: @bravely_you_coaching Business Mindset Coach | Linktree 

In this episdoe I'm spilling the tea... About quitting building my network marketing business About my divorce And about people being pissed off and hateful about both of those decisions. I know... shock and awe effect is in full force at this point.  BUT it needs to be heard because of how long I felt stuck and like I had no other option. Because I was afraid of the unknown, and I was afraid of other people's reactions. And those are the stigmas that keep so many of us stuck in the wrong places or circumstances that hold us back for too long. So I'm spilling the tea on my own personal life because I get it in a deeply personal way... Life can be super messy and hard. You will be faced with hard decisions in life that you know people are gonna feel some type of way about. And you are going to experience some difficult emotions while it's happening. So on today's episode I'm sharing with you: how to know it's time to make a tough decision how to work through all the emotions that come up throughout that process and what you need to focus on in order to follow through and come out better and stronger on the other side Connect with me for a free call:Get in touch with Bravely You Coaching (honeybook.com)

Today is the last week of the three part series of the crucial pieces to success, and it's all about strategy and marrying the other two pieces together for the ultimate trifecta for your results. I'm sharing two important parts of implementing strategy into your business and why it's necessary to have both aspects included. And I'm also sharing about a process that often gets overlooked and why a lot of the time, the entrepreneurial journey feels so hard and lonely and emotionally exhausting. The key is a combination of taking action and intentional mind-management that create alignment, authenticity, and "hell yes" moments in your business. You need all three pieces - vision, resilience, and strategy -  to work together and continuously be influencing each other to get where you want to go. And when you are intentionally creating awareness and management in these areas your results start shifting. You officially take the driver’s seat instead of feeling helpless in the passenger seat. Which means you are in control of getting where you want to be and how it feels while you’re doing it. It feels like picking the songs on the radio, being in charge of the temperature in the car, choosing the speed that you’re driving at. You are in total control over your journey. Which sounds way better than just hopping in some random passenger seat and hoping you’ll eventually get to where you want to go, right?! On today's episode, I am teaching you practical strategy tips as well as how to combine all three pieces in order to: create what you want, protect it from the obstacles that will try to get in the way and know exactly how you'll get there Get in touch with Bravely You Coaching (honeybook.com)