10 things I wish I knew in my twenties

Welcome back to the pod! Today, we dive into a heavier topic as I unpack the topics of trauma and MBTI, featuring questions from Cindy, Jackie and Tully. We explore the links between trauma and MBTI test results, type and treatment, trauma symptoms and healing, as well as some personal stories from myself. Disclaimer: I am not a mental health professional.  Ask me a question for the pod: https://hellodearkristin.com/contact Leave a comment on this video: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpq6dbOAv1f6W2EPpb4OY5A Main YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin Instagram: @dear.kristin Theme music by Restless Mosaic.

Hey everyone, welcome back to the pod! Today I talk about some of the various things I learned about myself as an ESFP during the wedding planning process. Enjoy! If you'd like to leave a comment on this episode, please check out the same episode on the LNS YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 Looking for a crash course on the 8 cognitive functions related to MBTI? Check out the following videos: My video: https://youtu.be/uzNWdRgGdJg Frank James' video on the functions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fUOkMm43hGM LiJo's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ViwFzX5uDWg Aimee Y's: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xf13VRNPp8 Theme music by Restless Mosaic.

Join me today as I unpack the ENTJ personality with a special guest! Allison Ramsey is the best-selling author of the Redefine book (www.empirelifeacademy.com/book) and the Founder of Empire Life, Coaching and Mentoring Company. At Empire Life, Female Founders are Guided in Scaling Their Empires. Allison is also a Mom and Dog Mom to Mars, her doberman. She also hosts the Empire Life Podcast, which broadcasts interviews with mega-successful empire builders from all around the world. With private clients, Empire Life guides clients in business strategy, structure, community building, authentic sales in scaling the technical infrastructure for membership sites, systems, raising prices, confidence, automation, sales funnels and scales momentum with Facebook and Google Ads (textbook ENTJ, amiright?). The Empire Life Blog has tons of exposure and engagement every day as well. Allison is also an international speaker on women in entrepreneurship, business, leadership, and business partnerships. She enjoys spending time with her loved ones, and working out in her free time. Female coaches and female-led businesses who have implemented Empire Life's business strategies have seen an increase in client leads, monthly income (often a 20X increase from when they started with Empire Life’s support), and client retention after having Empire Life Mentorship. Website: www.empirelifeacademy.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/allisonrmy www.instagram.com/empirelifeacademy Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/allisonramseyco/ X: https://twitter.com/Allison__Ramsey Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiJSVhz5kEuLMkbZDMIpBsw Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2dyMUbwo1PG5lHMC3qNUGO?si=3fe6ff477d4641ba My links: YouTube: www.youtube.con/dearkristin https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 Instagram: @dear.kristin Website: www.hellodearkristin.com   Music by Restless Mosaic.

In today's "Dear Kristin" episode, I share some vulnerable thoughts and experiences from my time in Korea, amongst other type-relate questions. Thank you to Chris S, Haleemah, Nicola, Casey, Emaryllis and Ellie for submitting the questions for this one. Grab a cuppa and let's dive in! TIME STAMPS: 1:44 Question from Chris Stockton: What’s your advice for using MBTI as a tool whilst creating characters in creative writing?  5:21 From Haleemah: Do you find yourself constantly typing people in your personal life? 7:32 From Haleemah: What has your experience been like with INFJs?  13:52 From Nicola: What was your experience in Korea like and why did you leave? 30:40 From Casey: What are some questions that you can ask people to get a sense of how they are perceiving and judging information? 34:17 From Emaryllis: I’m pretty sure I’m an ENTP, but why do I get tired from human interaction all the time? 38:25 From Ellie: What is the right thing to say to an Fi dom when they are talking to me about their feelings? (From a Ti dom) PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/dearkristin SUBMIT A QUESTION: https://hellodearkristin.com/contact My YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin My instagram: @dear.kristin   Music by Restless Mosaic.  

Yes, I am engaged and so so happy about it! Today, in an absolute first for the pod, I discuss my romantic relationship with my ENTJ fiancé! Join with a cuppa as I answer your questions about ESFP / ENTJ compatibility, my thoughts on love and relationships, how we resolve conflict, how our functions play out and much more! Note: I received Andrew's permission to discuss our relationship openly. 😊 Links: Subscribe to the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dearkristin Become a YouTube member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5XC9aaEks0YAR2z55C62Og/join Leave a comment on this episode via the pod's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 Instagram: @dear.kristin Main YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@dearkristin ⌛ T I M E S T A M P S : 1:24 How did you two meet? An ENTJ and ESFP meeting must have been fun 3:49 Is your fiance Catholic? 4:15 Does your fiance also partake in the Te tone? Also what are your thoughts on MBTI? 5:45 Do you think if you were still in your prime you would have been more picky? 6:02 Was the ESFP/ENTJ interaction in the speed dating video based off something that happened in real life? 7:02 Where will you go to get married? 7:08 Have you chosen a date for the wedding? 7:22 What role plays faith in your relationship? 8:10 How involved are you in his plan to overtake Greece? 8:22 What other types have you dated before choosing your ultimate winner? 8:52 How and when did the both of you become official/start dating? Also, is it weird that I don't believe in type compatibility, that it all depends on the persons' true selves and how they grow and develop with each other?  9:37 How close is he to the ENTJ you've created on this channel? Was he an inspiration for this character in the last videos? Also, Feeler and Thinker pair - some tips, that help you understand each other better? Also, what helps him to deal with your spontaneity, and what helps you deal with his planning? Also, does he like MBTI? Will he help you in creating content? Will we see him in your videos? 16:45 How has it been introducing your fiancé into your family? 18:02 I can see you two connecting on the Fi-Te axis, but how do you navigate the S-N difference? Has it come up much? 21:58 Will you leave/take a break from Youtube after getting married?  22:33 Will baby shark be playing at the reception? 22:44 What are your enneagram types? 23:02 How did he propose? Did you discuss it beforehand and how? 24:44 Who fell in love first? How did you fall in love with each other? 27:09 Will he appear in any of your skits? 27:25 How did you type him as an ENTJ? 28:59 In what ways are you defying the stereotypes? 30: 54 Do social celebrations such as engagement and marriage mean anything to an ENTJ? 32:21 What does he like about ESFPs? 33:07 Did you introduce him to MBTI, or had he already heard of it? 33:28 Thoughts on free will and moral responsibility? 33:56 Do you think communication is easier because you have the same cognitive functions? 37:02 In what ways does your fiance balance you out? 40:01 Do you stalkers leave you alone now that they know you’re engaged? 40:21 Best and hardest thing about having an ENTJ as a fiance? 45:56 What does the ideal date look like to both of you? 46:57 Do you feel like style preferences re wedding venue/dresses etc have anything to do with personality type? 47:27 What are the scariest parts about engagement? 48:50 What did your siblings say when you announced your engagement? 50:22 Other than therapy, how does one reduce their toxicity? It’s so hard! 52:49 What, if anything, are you to on complete polar opposite sides within a specific issue? 54:17 How similar and in what ways is he similar to your ENTJ dad? 55:15 Has knowing MBTI so well helped your ability to communicate well? Or has it hindered? 47:25 How has knowing MBTI helped you grow in your faith? 57:45 How often do y’all actively use cognitive function language as a tool for resolving conflicts? 57:54 How does your fiance feed/compliment your energy? 58:45 Does MBTI play a role in your compatibility, or is it mostly other factors? 59:31 What’s the most surprising thing that you’ve learned about yourself being in this relationship? 1:01:52 Did you ever try to look for/date someone of a type compatible with yours? 1:02:11 What have you learned about relationships through dating him? 1:02:50 What were some of your preconceptions about ENTJs that have been proven wrong? 1:03:27 How do you handle conflicts? 1:05:11 Any advice for successful long-term relationships? 1:07:03 How did you know that he was the one? Music by Restless Mosaic.

On today's episode, I'm reminiscing un-scripted on 10 of the lessons that I learned in my 20s. 💜 Watch on YouTube (main channel): https://youtu.be/OsS_VbbJ8kc Listen on YouTube (podcast channel): https://youtu.be/IACi3eRTTLI Jordan Peterson reference: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cg2OEoMlZd-/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Instagram: @dear.kristin Music by Restless Mosaic.  

Today I welcome one of my oldest friends onto the podcast to make her uncomfortable with extremely pointed questions! Join us as we discuss all things INFJ: What is the Ni intuition? What is it like being married to an ISTP? Why do INFJs make so many judgements, and where do they come from? What is it like seeing the darkness of the world at all times? What are the dangers of living in your imagination? What is the INFJ doorslam? How do INFJs find a personal identity away from the tribe? Is "The Body Keeps the Score" even that good? We discuss all this and more in this juicy episode! I found it particularly interesting listening to how differently Bek and I perceived these questions and topics, given that we lead with each other's inferior functions. Grab a cuppa and enjoy! Check out my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@dearkristin  Follow the pod on YT: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpq6dbOAv1f6W2EPpb4OY5A Instagram: @dear.kristin Music by Restless Mosaic.

Today on the pod, I'm taking 37 minutes to answer 5 questions! Thank you to Erika, Misia, Maja, Ahab and YourLocalFriendESFJ for their submissions! In this episode, I talk MBTI and mental illness, typing yourself, Fe nuance, stereotypes and how MBTI types present in children.  Links mentioned in the show: Submit a question: https://www.hellodearkristin.com/contact My YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin My website: https://www.hellodearkristin.com My instagram: @dear.kristin Podcast episode with ENFJ Laith: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3GS8gkEMls1tvlLK8SVYtF?si=f27172f8516f4c06 Podcast episode with Dr. Ben Coterill: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3lqkm2cq1vjkrsbxSxLg03?si=2311bca768954dc3   Music by Restless Mosaic.

Today on the pod, I'm speaking with fellow MBTI YouTuber, Bogdan Yakubets. We speak in depth about the struggles being a YouTuber, what made him quit YouTube, his experience with MBTI, his personality type and how MBTI works with his Christian faith. It was a pleasure speaking with him and I hope you guys enjoy it! Links mentioned in the episode: Bogdan's main YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@bogdanyakubets702 Bogdan's fight-choreography YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@copy-catchoreo1335 The comedic short film "Steak", starring Bogdan: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuiEn6jJdPE My YouTube channel:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5XC9aaEks0YAR2z55C62Og Instagram: dear.kristin Website: https://www.hellodearkristin.com/ My podcast YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971   Music by Restless Mosaic.

Today, we're unpacking your answers to the question "What is your ultimate nightmare scenario?" We received 324 answers for this one and were able to uncover some interesting trends! So grab a cuppa and strap on in! Subscribe to my new YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@literallynosubtextwithdear2971 See all of the answers that I received for this question: https://www.hellodearkristin.com/typetrends Time stamps: 3:22 ENFP 5:29 INFP 9:53 ENFJ 11:30 INFJ 16:49 ESFP 18:17 ISFP 20:02 ESFJ 21:23 ISFJ 22:21 Recap of the "F" answers 24:05 ENTP 28:18 INTP 32:30 ENTJ 36:19 INTJ 40:31 ESTJ 42:28 ISTJ 43:58 ESTP 45:31 ISTP 47:12 Summary of the findings 51:10 Call for help! Thanks for listening guys! Send me an email if you'd like to help me analyse trends for future episodes: [email protected] Check out my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/dearkristin Follow me on instagram @dear.kristin Music by Restless Mosaic.