Ep.83: Dom Tops vs Dumb Tops: Consent, Control, and Real Connection in Bed

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this episode, I sit down with therapist Wayne Scott to unpack what it really means to open up a relationship. We go beyond the surface-level idea of “spicing things up” and explore the deeper reasons couples consider consensual non-monogamy — from mismatched desire and evolving needs to breaking free from religious conditioning and reclaiming autonomy. We also talk about the reality that non-monogamy isn’t one fixed model but a spectrum of possibilities, and how couples can find a structure that actually feels safe and aligned for them.  We dive into the emotional and psychological side of opening a relationship, including jealousy, fear, and the gap between what the mind wants and what the nervous system can handle. Wayne shares practical tools for communication, navigating ambivalent consent, building trust over time, and setting boundaries that support both partners. We also explore how non-monogamy can surface deeper wounds — and why that can be part of the healing process. Whether you’re curious about opening your relationship or already navigating it, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate guide to doing it consciously. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Ep.68: Bisexual in a Straight Marriage with Wayne Scott: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/ep-68-bisexual-in-a-straight-marriage-with-wayne-scott/id1653398819?i=1000704909509Ep.22: Polyamory and Open Relationships with Jessica Fern: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-22-polyamory-and-open-relationships-with-jessica-fern/id1653398819?i=1000608984887ABOUT WAYNE SCOTTIn addition to writing a memoir, "The Maps They Gave," about one couple's adventures in relationship therapy, Wayne Scott is a psychotherapist who works with people navigating consensual nonmonogamy in many diverse and creative relationships forms. He frequently teaches other professionals how to work with these creative challenges.Website: https://waynescottlcsw.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/waynejosephscott/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/wayne.scott.359Wayne's memoir: "The Maps They Gave Us": https://a.co/d/0840vOdzCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this raw and thought-provoking solo episode, I unpack a sexual experience that forced me to confront a deeper truth about dominance, consent, and connection. What started as a hookup quickly revealed a pattern many of us have encountered but rarely name — the difference between someone embodying dominance and someone simply performing it. I share what happened, how my body responded before my mind could catch up, and why the real win was not abandoning myself in the moment. From there, I break down the psychology behind the experience, introducing concepts like sexual attunement, enthusiastic consent, somatic boundaries, and relational safety. I explore the rise of the so-called “dumb top” as a cultural pattern in gay sex, how pornified scripts are shaping behavior, and why dominance without responsiveness is not power but disconnection. This episode reframes what actually makes someone good in bed, challenges the myth that communication kills the vibe, and names the invisible emotional labor many bottoms carry. If you’ve ever left a sexual encounter feeling off but couldn’t explain why, this episode will give you the language — and the permission — to trust your body.  Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Ep.58: Zodiac Signs in Bed: Kinks, Fetishes, Dick Size with Danny Santos: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-58-zodiac-signs-in-bed-kinks-fetishes-dick-size/id1653398819?i=1000677916697 CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this open and unfiltered episode, I sit down with a straight friend to talk about a topic many men are curious about but rarely discuss publicly: anal pleasure. We explore the realities of anal play from a straight man’s perspective, including curiosity around rimming, prostate stimulation, and the male G-spot. Together, we unpack the stigma many straight men feel around exploring their bodies and how cultural expectations around masculinity often shut down conversations about pleasure. We also discuss how curiosity, trust, and communication can open the door to new experiences in the bedroom. From overcoming shame to understanding how the prostate works, this episode challenges outdated ideas about male sexuality and encourages men to explore pleasure without fear of labels or judgment. If you’ve ever wondered why anal play still feels taboo for so many straight men, this conversation offers an honest look at what happens when those barriers start to break down. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom: https://www.instagram.com/georgecanthost/Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkRESOURCES MENTIONEDEp.51: Cock Rings for Harder Erections and Longer Orgasms with Dr. Elliot Justin: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0b2 Buy a FirmTech ring and get 10% off using coupon code canthost or via this affiliate link: https://myfirmtech.com?sca_ref=6026421.q59KYoO7dcIljU&utm_source=george-lizos&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=affiliateEnergy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  ABOUT TONY DEMETRIOUTony’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tony.dtriou.lyrs/  CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this candid and hilarious episode, I sit down with my straight friend Tony Demetriou to compare sex notes from a straight and a gay perspective. We talk about the first time we discovered masturbation as teenagers, whether guys actually talk about sex with their male friends, and how our sexual attitudes were shaped by masculinity, shame, and social expectations. What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into a deeper conversation about vulnerability, communication, and the pressures men feel around sex. We also dive into topics most men rarely talk about openly: overcoming shame around being submissive in bed, the impact of toxic masculinity on how men approach intimacy, and how every person’s desires and turn-ons are different. Along the way, we discuss roleplaying, sexual fantasies, my experiences with threesomes and orgies, Tony’s reflections on one-night stands, and why great sex is less about technique and more about connection and communication. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom: https://www.instagram.com/georgecanthost/ Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkRESOURCES MENTIONEDEp.75: The Ultimate BDSM Topping Guide with Janet W Hardy: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/6932f2a738a11f5f3e0929b3Ep.74: The Ultimate BDSM Bottoming Guide with Janet W Hardy: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/691f4ea7d35aa096b558653aEnergy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  ABOUT TONY DEMETRIOUTony’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tony.dtriou.lyrs/  CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this deeply personal solo episode, I share how therapy helped me see how much of my life has revolved around my relationship with sex, control, and fear. I talk openly about being a side, fearing bottoming, stepping into my Top era, and realizing how past sexual trauma shaped my ability to receive pleasure. This episode is about what happens when you finally feel safe enough to let go of performance, shame, and control — and start experiencing real connection. I also share a recent sexual experience that became unexpectedly healing. Through trust, communication, patience, and mutual respect, I discovered what mind-blowing sex actually means: presence instead of performance, consent instead of pressure, curiosity instead of fear. We talk about lessons on communication, safety, experimenting responsibly, and allowing yourself to receive pleasure without shame. This episode is for anyone navigating sex after trauma, learning to trust their body again, or wanting deeper intimacy. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/Ep.77: Sex Shame, Only Fans, and My Top Era – https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/696122921f21449d6de7dc0f  Ep.20: Safe Anal Sex Practices with Dr. Evan Goldstein – https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0d2  CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this episode, I’m joined by Rich Savin, author of Mostly Straight, to explore a growing and often misunderstood group of men whose sexuality doesn’t fit neatly into gay straight or bisexual labels. We talk about what “mostly straight” actually means, how men who identify this way describe their attractions, and what distinguishes this identity from bisexuality or homosexuality. Rich shares insights into why there are now more mostly straight young men than gay and bisexual men combined, and what cultural and generational shifts may be driving this change.We also dive into how mostly straight men navigate attraction in real life, including whether desire is emotional aesthetic or sexual, and how masculinity shapes what feels possible or acceptable to express. We explore internal conflict and stigma, respond to critiques that the label avoids queerness, and look at differences across race class and geography. Finally, we zoom out to the future, discussing how male sexual fluidity may evolve over the next decade and what parents educators and queer communities can learn from this research. This episode bridges academic insight with real-world relevance for anyone curious about how male sexuality is changing.Follow and connect at @georgecanthost on Instagram for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. RESOURCES MENTIONEDJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  Join the Can't Host Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkGet the Can't Host T-Shirts: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ABOUT RITCH SAVIN-WILLIAMSRitch C. Savin-Williams, Ph.D., is a prominent developmental psychologist and Professor Emeritus at Cornell University specializing in sexual minority youth, sexual fluidity, and LGBTQ+ studies. A licensed clinical psychologist, he has authored numerous books, including Bi: Bisexual, pansexual, fluid, and nonbinary youth (2021) and Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity among Men (2017). Website: https://psychology.cornell.edu/ritch-savin-williamsFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/ritch.savinwilliams/Book: Mostly Straight: https://a.co/d/01kadaasCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this deeply compassionate episode, I sit down with therapist Ann Russo to explore how shame, rejection, and religious conditioning shape the mental health of queer people. Drawing from her work with LGBTQ+ clients, we unpack why rejection sits at the root of so many struggles — from anxiety and depression to loneliness, self-doubt, and identity confusion. We also talk about why so many queer people have difficulty finding therapists who truly feel safe and affirming, and how trauma and minority stress can quietly show up in everyday life. A central focus of this conversation is religious and spiritual trauma, especially for queer people who were taught that their identity was sinful, wrong, or incompatible with faith. Ann introduces liberation theology as a framework that separates God from harmful religious agendas, offering a way to reclaim spirituality without shame. We also explore why healing must begin in the body, how nervous system safety makes deconstruction possible, and practical tools like body awareness and somatic regulation that actually help. This episode is for anyone navigating the wounds of religion, rejection, and identity — and looking for a gentler, more affirming path forward. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT ANN RUSSORaised in a diverse, non-traditional household, Ann Russo understands the complex intersections of identity, sexuality, and spirituality. Her lived experience, paired with years of professional expertise, drives her mission to dismantle stigma and expand inclusive mental health care. In 2018, she founded AMR Therapy to offer affirming, accessible therapy to LGBTQ+ individuals, BIPOC communities, and those navigating ethical non-monogamy. Whether working with clients or training mental health providers, Ann fosters healing spaces grounded in compassion, authenticity, and identity-affirming care.Website: https://www.annrusso.org/Instagram Handle: https://www.instagram.com/amr_therapy/?hl=enFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/amrtherapyCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this deeply personal solo episode, I reflect on how my entire life has been shaped by my relationship with sex and sexuality — and how therapy has helped me finally see the bigger picture. I talk openly about growing up gay, the confusion and shame I carried as a teenager, the years of forcing myself into sex in my twenties, and the unhealthy patterns that followed. I share how my relationship with sex shifted in my thirties through exploration, this podcast, and stepping fully into my Top era, alongside the painful realization and processing of early sexual trauma. I also open up about my growing need to express my sexuality beyond audio, including creating explicit content, exploring OnlyFans, and stepping into nude modelling as a way to release shame around my body. I talk honestly about the societal conditioning I had to unlearn around nudity, gay sexuality, and sexual expression — and how filming myself became an unexpectedly empowering act. This episode is about sexual freedom, reclaiming agency after trauma, and choosing visibility over silence. Follow and connect at @georgecanthost for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipRELATED EPISODESEp.43: Gay Porn Secrets: Fake Cum Shots, Stunt Dicks, Penile Injections with Greg McKeon: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0baEp.44: OnlyFans Secrets, Gay Cruises, and Surprise Anal with Greg McKeon: https://shows.acast.com/cant-host/episodes/66867b5704b201dd3472a0b9CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Download the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit  Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this episode, we explore what sexual fluidity really means and why so many people feel unseen by rigid labels and binary ways of thinking. Mark Cusack joins me to unpack how fluidity shows up in attraction, identity, and lived experience, and to challenge common misconceptions about what it means to be fluid. We talk about why pressure to “pick a label” can create guilt, shame, or confusion, and how fluidity can coexist with identities such as bisexuality, multisexuality, asexuality, and gender fluidity. We also dive into the real-life realities of being fluid, including dating and relationships, coming out when your identity feels shifting or hard to define, and navigating anxiety or isolation when others struggle to understand or trust fluidity. Drawing from research and personal stories, this conversation offers reassurance, language, and mindset shifts for anyone whose sexuality does not stay fixed over time — and for allies who want to understand better. Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT MARK CUSACKMark Cusack is an author, lecturer and coach who specialises in supporting people with complex, fluid or undefined orientation and gender. Mark runs the online platform @notdefining where he raises awareness of the less talked about parts of the sexuality and gender spectrums.Website: https://www.notdefining.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notdefining/Book: "Fluid": https://uk.jkp.com/products/fluidCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Download my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnet⁠⁠⁠Can't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this insightful episode, Janet W Hardy joins me to explore the world of BDSM topping through the wisdom of The New Topping Book. We dive into what it really means to take the lead in a scene — from the mindset shifts that help new tops build confidence, to the balance of power and care that makes BDSM both safe and deeply pleasurable. Janet shares practical tools for communicating clearly without killing the mood, navigating nerves or insecurities, and embracing topping as a creative, collaborative craft rather than a performance you need to “get right.” We also explore the emotional and psychological layers of topping—how to stay present, attuned, and aware of the deeper dynamics in more intense play. Janet highlights the ethical responsibilities of a top, the importance of aftercare for both partners, and how community and mentorship support growth. Whether you're new or experienced, this conversation offers a grounded guide to leading scenes with confidence, clarity, and heart.Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipABOUT JANET W HARDYJanet W. Hardy is an author, educator, and speaker known for her groundbreaking work on relationships, sexuality, and kink. She has written or co-written more than a dozen influential books, including The Ethical Slut, which has sold over 300,000 copies. Janet has taught internationally on topics from ethical multipartner relationships to erotic spanking and has appeared in documentaries, television, podcasts, and radio. She founded and served as editor-in-chief of Greenery Press for twenty-five years, publishing books on alternative sexuality. Today, she continues writing, teaching, and creating work that supports sex-positive education while living in Eugene, Oregon.Website: https://janetwhardyauthor.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janetwhardy/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/jhardyauthor/CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/georgelizos/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://georgelizos.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizos⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: ⁠⁠⁠https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.