138. The Family You Build

This week we catch up on JC Pride with Las Reinas, a surprise birthday party, and exciting updates about our upcoming Trova Trips to Brazil and Costa Rica (https://linktr.ee/leschat ). Plus, don’t miss the exclusive women-only event in LA on Thursday, September 18th, created by Valerie Lynn and featuring LeLá’s live sapphic show and after-party for just $10 (https://fixr.co/event/lela-a-live-sapphic-show-after-party-women-only-tickets-691448778 )Our main topic dives into chosen family. As queer Latinas, we’re raised with la familia es primero, but what happens when blood family can’t accept who you are? We share our own stories, explore the weight of religion and gender roles in our culture, and highlight how chosen family shows up with love, joy, and support.Because at the end of the day, family isn’t just blood, it’s the people who truly show up.JOJO’S TWITCH ACCOUNT:https://www.twitch.tv/jojosvibe DAYRA’S TWITCH ACCOUNT: https://www.twitch.tv/deardayra FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this episode, Dayra shares her full experience at Bad Bunny’s residency concert in Puerto Rico from the fun pool parties and curated gift bags to the unforgettable concert, making new friends, and partying through a literal hurricane at the after-party.Then we shift gears to break down the queer relationships unfolding in the Netflix series The Hunter Wives there’s a lot to unpack, and we’re getting into all of it.To close things out, we’re announcing our 2026 vacation destinations with TrovaTrip: we’re headed to Brazil and Costa Rica. We’ll share how you can sign up to get all the info and be first in line to book your spot.Costa Rica Trip: https://trovatrip.com/trip/central-america/costa-rica/costa-rica-with-jojo-dayra-les-chat-podcast-aug-2026 - BOOKING GOES LIVE 8/28 @ 12PM ESTBrazil Trip: https://trovatrip.com/trip/south-america/brazil/brazil-with-jojo-dayra-les-chat-podcast-nov-2026 - BOOKING GOES LIVE 8/28 @ 12PM ESTJOJO’S TWITCH ACCOUNT:https://www.twitch.tv/jojosvibe DAYRA’S TWITCH ACCOUNT: https://www.twitch.tv/deardayra FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this episode of Les Chat, we’re diving deep into the messy, dramatic, sometimes sweet chaos that is The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. From long-term couples to one-and-a-half-year situationships, we break down all the pairings — and yes, we have opinions. 👀Plus: Can someone explain why Reba’s JoAnna Garcia Swisher is still hosting this? We have a better list of queer icons who should take the mic next — from Niecy Nash to the L Word’s OGs. 🧼🎤🎬 Also this episode:Reality show pitches you didn’t know you needed: "Third Time’s the Charm" (polyamory throuples) & "Queer in the Dark" (voice-only dating meets chaotic reveals).👩‍⚖️ Kim Davis is back and trying (again) to overturn gay marriage… we explain what it means in simple terms.✈️ TROVA TRIP survey update + how to get a discount for our next queer adventure.💌 Family Meeting: One listener asks if it's OK to stay friends with an ex they used to hook up with — even if it makes their current partner uncomfortable. We weigh in.📅 Catch-Up: See y’all at Bad Bunny on Aug 16th! 🐰💃🎧 Rate, review, and follow Les Chat on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts!🔗 Follow Us Everywhere:IG: @les.chatpodcastTikTok: @les.chatpodcastYouTube: Les Chat PodcastLinktree: linktr.ee/leschat🎮 Twitch: JoJo | Dayra🩲 Gender-Neutral Boxers: Lucky Skivvies – use code LES10 for 10% off✈️ TROVA Trip Survey — help us plan our next trip!

We’re back with Part 2 of our unforgettable Southeast Asia adventure and this time, we’re taking you to PHUKET, THAILAND 🇹🇭🌴After an incredible week in Bali, we hopped over to Thailand with our crew of 12 queer baddies for the second leg of our epic girls trip. From ping pong shows, to island hopping in crystal-clear waters 🚤, pool parties that went way too late 🍹, to catching the most chaotic drag show of our lives 💃🏽 this week was pure magic.Whether you were with us IRL or living through the pics and stories, come relive the laughter, chaos, and love that made Phuket one for the books.🎙️ Missed Part 1 (Bali)? Go listen now!FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschatGender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat

We’re back and kicking off a two-part series from our epic two-week adventure in Southeast Asia! In this episode, we’re diving into the first leg of the journey: Bali, Indonesia 🇮🇩We spent a week in Ubud and Sanur in Bali with 19 of our amazing listeners, exploring the Sacred Monkey Forest 🐒, getting blessed at ancient temples 🛕, screaming (just a little) on the Bali Swing 🌄, and soaking up the culture, chaos, and beauty of island life. From spiritual moments to spontaneous laughs and matching tattoos, we’re unpacking what made this part of the trip unforgettable (we probably missed a few stories).Whether you joined us or followed along from afar, this one’s for you.🎙️ Part 2 (Thailand!) drops next week.FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat 

NYC PRIDE is coming in hot! 🌈 Pull up to PRIDEANDFRIENDS.NYC for the Brooklyn Day Party on Saturday, June 28th, 2–9PM. This Week’s Catch-Up:🎬 We’re watching Love Island USA Season 7 — and yes, we have thoughts.📽️ The Travis Scott: Astroworld documentary — heavy stuff.💍 The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 is finally here — two years later, and we’re ready for the drama.Also… we're heading to Bali and Thailand soon! If you’ve been, comment your best tips, hidden gems, or must-avoid mistakes 🙏🏽Family Meeting Time 🧠💔One listener is in a long-distance relationship that began as polyamorous but turned exclusive, or so they thought. After a betrayal involving an ex from the original poly dynamic, they're wondering:“Am I wrong for asking my partner to cut off contact with her ex if we’re going to make this work?”We break it all down:What polyamory actually means (and how it differs from open relationships)Why emotional and physical boundaries still matter after shifting to monogamyWhat to do when trust is broken and accountability is missingThe hard truth: Love isn't enough without respect, clarity, and shared valuesPlus, we highlight a past podcast gem: “The Contract to My Polyamory” ft. Jerrie Johnson — a powerful conversation on redefining relationship structures and setting intentional agreements. (Go queue it up after this!)And if you're curious about how real-life poly families make it work, we’re also talking about the show Polyfamily on HBO Max, messy, beautiful, and so worth discussing.FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Ask us anonymous questions or share stories here!IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/NEWJOJO’S TWITCH ACCOUNT:https://www.twitch.tv/jojosvibe DAYRA’S TWITCH ACCOUNT: https://www.twitch.tv/deardayra 

This week, we’re unpacking A LOT.First up: the ICE raids in LA. We’re spreading the word, sharing where to donate, and why staying informed matters more than ever. (resources below)Then, Fletcher? JoJo Siwa? Billie Eilish? All dating men during Pride Month?! Feels homophobic, honestly.We also give you the rundown on our Philly & DC Pride adventures, queer joy, wild moments, and a few hangovers.And in our Family Meeting, we hear from a listener who’s four years into a relationship and still wildly thirsty for her fine-ass masc girlfriend, but is starting to wonder if the passion is mutual. We’ve got thoughts (and experience 👀).Make a difference during Los Angeles ICE raids.Donate food, hygiene supplies and household goods to Raíces Con Voz to provide to undocumented families. - LINKOperation Healthy Hearts has a slideshow of suggestions for how to provide mutual aid support to undocumented immigrants. - LINKIf you know someone who is arrested at a protestShare the phone number for Jail Support LA: 424-610-3020. The grassroots organization aims to provide support for people who have been arrested — especially protesters — at every step of the legal process. This includes monitoring detentions, bail and paperwork.Jail Support LA is also looking for volunteers to monitor arrests made during LA’s protests against ICE. People can also donate to the organization.You can also donate to Jail Support LA’s bail fundJOJO’S TWITCH ACCOUNT:https://www.twitch.tv/jojosvibe DAYRA’S TWITCH ACCOUNT: https://www.twitch.tv/deardayra FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat 

We’re catching up on all things Pride, from Philly to DC! Join us June 6–7 as we host Havana Nights with TASTE Takeover, celebrate queer Latina joy, and ride the DC Pride float to see Cynthia Erivo headlining!Then we dig into the hot topic: What does it mean to “make being gay your personality”? We unpack why it’s celebrated, why it’s judged, and why authenticity is what really matters.And in this week’s Family Meeting: What if you’re ready to travel the world but your partner isn’t moving with you (literally or financially)? Is that a deal breaker?🎧 Note: We’re now an audio-only podcast going forward!Havana Nights Ticket: https://www.tastetakeover.com/event-details-registration/havana-nights Preciosa Night Tickets:https://www.ticketweb.com/event/preciosa-night-a-woldpride-finale-howard-theatre-tickets/14451363?pl=howardtheatre&refid=site FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat 

We dive into our weekend celebration for Lilly's birthday (who's been on the podcast twice!) We then quickly chat about the encounter at Boston’s Liberty Hotel where a cisgender woman was asked to prove her gender in a bathroom, shedding light on the ongoing challenges of gender identity and public perception. We also dive into the evolving concept of lavender marriages which was once used to hide LGBTQ+ identities and now transforming into modern mixed-orientation relationships. From Hollywood cover-ups to genuine soul connections like Samantha and Jacob’s, we explore why more people are embracing unconventional partnerships, the shifting meaning of gender in relationships, and how love is being redefined beyond labels.& YES, WE ARE STILL GOING TO BALI & THAILAND!! Check the link below for more info.Family Meeting: "I’ve been with my girl for 3 years. It’s been an awesome 3 years. The issue is that she wants to live outside the US for a few years and I don’t see that for me."FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat

We're catching you up on everything going on the past few weeks, life, drama, healing, and a little oversharing (as usual). We then dive into some truly unhinged lesbian stories that will leave you gasping, laughing, and possibly texting your ex (don’t do it). Let’s get unhinged.Family Meeting"My wife asked for a divorce after 10 years together, saying we're no longer compatible and that life feels overwhelming. Now she says we can 'date' after selling the house and moving out."FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat