Broken to Brave: Tammy Gustafson's Roadmap from Betrayal to Healing

Betrayal shatters your world. Can you find a way to be brave and heal? Join Jeanne Vattuone, Wendy Conquest and Dan Drake as they speak with this week's Podcast Guest, Tammy Gustafson, on Conversations. Tammy unveils her 6-year journey writing Broken to Brave, sharing her four phases of healing after intimate betrayal. From dysregulated nervous systems to demystifying the path forward, this episode offers betrayed partners clear guideposts, honest hope, and proof that thriving is possible. Available now on all podcast platforms and YouTube.

When does simply noticing someone cross into objectifying them? In this thought-provoking conversation, Wendy Conquest, Jeanne Vattuone, and Dan Drake unpack the difference between normal human noticing and objectification — a key theme in recovery and relationships. They explore questions like: - Can someone in recovery notice someone’s attractiveness without crossing a boundary? - How can betrayed partners feel safe in a world full of triggers? - What role do stress, self-awareness, and truth-telling play in keeping connection alive? Join us for an honest look at human nature, recovery, and rebuilding trust. Available on all podcast platforms and subscribe on YouTube.

Technology has transformed nearly every part of modern life from how we work and communicate to how we seek comfort, connection, and even therapy. But as it continues to simplify daily tasks and free up time, a deeper question emerges: what do we choose to do with that time? In today’s episode, we explore the double-edged nature of technology, its potential to connect us, and its power to isolate us. They discuss how digital tools have reshaped connection, mental health, and even addiction, especially in a world that’s increasingly online. Together, the panel reflects on: - How technology shapes emotional connection and loneliness - The rise of technology and gaming addiction - How to find balance between digital tools and real human interaction This conversation offers a thoughtful look at how to stay grounded, intentional, and human in an age of constant screens and virtual communication.

Is secrecy a core part of pornography addiction — or just one possible sign of a deeper struggle? In today’s episode, we explore the complex intersection between porn use, shame, secrecy, and addiction. They unpack what “problematic use” really means, why some people hide their behavior while others don’t, and how early experiences and family culture can shape an individual’s understanding of sexuality and self-control. Together, the panel discusses: - Why secrecy may (or may not) signal addiction - The connection between shame, secrecy, and self-judgment - How upbringing and normalization influence behavior - What “average” porn use really means — and when it becomes harmful - How to identify the difference between use, misuse, and addiction This conversation is for anyone seeking clarity, education, and compassion around pornography use and its psychological impact. It’s not about judgment — it’s about understanding the patterns that lead to distress, disconnection, or harm.

What happens when men are the ones betrayed by sex addiction? In today's episode, author and therapist Adam Nisenson joins the Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Tim Stein and Jeanne Vattoune to unpack a topic rarely discussed — male betrayal trauma. Through his book A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal, Adam gives voice to men who’ve been silenced, shamed, or overlooked in conversations about infidelity and healing. Together, the panel explores: - Why betrayal hits men differently and how society teaches them to hide it - The impact of shame, ego wounds, and emotional isolation - How unprocessed anger and silence can turn into long-term pain - Practical ways men can heal and reclaim their worth after betrayal Join the conversation: Why do you think men’s pain is often dismissed when it comes to betrayal? Drop your thoughts in the comments. Learn more about Adam Nisenson’s work: A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal — available wherever books are sold. Subscribe for more real conversations about relationships, trauma, and healing. Turn on notifications so you don’t miss new weekly episodes. #BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #EmotionalHealing #Relationships #TherapyTalk #AdamNisenson

When betrayal strikes, it’s not just pain, it’s the kind of anger you’ve never felt before. In this episode, the panel talks about how to feel and express anger without going into rage. You’ll hear honest stories and professional insight on: - Why anger feels powerful in the moment but hollow afterward - How men often feel their anger isn’t validated - Healthy ways to express and release rage without letting it consume you - The importance of writing, processing, and releasing emotional energy Share your thoughts: Have you ever felt trapped in anger after betrayal? How did you move through it? Subscribe for more real conversations about healing, trauma, and emotional recovery. Turn on notifications to join us weekly for new episodes that go beneath the surface. #BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #AngerManagement #HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing #TherapyTalk #SexAddiction

Is betrayal trauma really different for men and women? Most men do not come into therapy later rather than sooner. Men feel isolated for most of the betrayal trauma experience. Women usually over-function during the BT experience especially earlier in the journey. Join the conversation: Do you think men are given the same emotional space to heal as women? Drop your thoughts below. Subscribe for more open, unfiltered discussions on healing, relationships, and emotional recovery. Turn on notifications so you don’t miss new weekly episodes. #BetrayalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #Relationships #HealingJourney #TherapyTalk #EmotionalHealing

Sex addiction takes its toll on the addict and the partner. Listen in for physical symptoms to know about. Subscribe for more powerful discussions on healing, relationships, and emotional recovery. Join our community for new uploads every week. #EmotionalHealing #Relationships #TherapyTalk #Anger #RecoveryJourney #MentalHealthAwareness #AddictiontoSex #BetrayalTrauma #Cheating

Anger after betrayal can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even “out of character.” In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck joins Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattoune, Tim Stein and Wendy Conquest to break down the reality of betrayal trauma anger, why it shows up, how it unfolds over time, and what tools can help process it. Whether someone is facing infidelity, broken trust, or betrayal in relationships, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and practical guidance for navigating one of the most difficult emotions in healing. 👉 If you’ve ever felt like your anger after betrayal makes you “crazy,” this discussion will remind you: you’re not crazy, you’re angry, and you should be. The key is learning how to process it with compassion and strength. Check out Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck's Protocol :https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xnd6B_SJdpqTcg5zsZF_OLV502MHprmC/view?usp=drive_link and her website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/ Subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, sex addiction recovery, and relationship healing. #BetrayalTrauma #AngerAfterInfidelity #RelationshipHealing #TraumaRecovery #MentalHealth #HealingJourney #CouplesRecovery #InfidelityHealing #Cheating #Rage

When betrayal is discovered, anger can feel overwhelming. In this episode of Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships, we sit down with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck to explore how betrayal trauma anger shows up both immediately and over time. Dr. Hollenbeck explains why betrayed partners often experience anger in waves as more consequences and realizations surface, not only at discovery, but months or even years later. This conversation validates the deep emotional impact betrayal has on both sides of the relationship and offers tools for navigating anger without shame. 👉 If someone is a betrayed partner, a betrayer, or supporting others through betrayal trauma, this episode will give them clarity, hope, and strategies to move forward. Check out Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck's Protocol :https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xnd6B_SJdpqTcg5zsZF_OLV502MHprmC/view?usp=drive_link and her website: https://crystalhollenbeck.com/ #BetrayalTrauma #AngerRecovery #RelationshipHealing #SexAddictionRecovery #EmotionalHealing #TraumaAwareness #HealingTogether #CouplesHealing