493 - You Think You're Ready? You Can’t Even Take Feedback

Most people want the rewards of success, but aren’t willing to do what it takes. In this episode, CJ drops a powerful analogy: the habits of the greats are like broccoli—hard to swallow but life-giving. He shares how adopting “broccoli habits” in fitness, finances, relationships, and business transformed his life from average to avenger-level. ET jumps in with a challenge: stop chasing Krispy Kreme results with cheat-meal commitment. If you're tired of being stuck, this episode will shake your soul. 📲 Tap in and don’t forget to: 🙌 Join our Patreon Community: Patreon.com/S2SPodcast 🔔 Subscribe on YouTube: @S2SPodcastChannel 📱 Follow us on IG: @s2spodcast W0GUNNNUNQJ0COZG

This week, the fellas take you straight to the Motherland — recording live from Ghana! From the emotional walk through Cape Coast Castle to the powerful reality check about your DNA’s hidden strength, CJ, Jemal break down what it means to truly know your history.They unpack raw lessons about endurance, perspective, and how your ancestors’ survival story is coded in your blood. This episode will challenge you to stop complaining, tap into your generational resilience, and check your circle, because who you build with today shapes your legacy tomorrow. 📲 Tap in and don’t forget to: 🙌 Join our Patreon Community: Patreon.com/S2SPodcast 🔔 Subscribe on YouTube: @S2SPodcastChannel 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcast 📱 Follow us on IG: @s2spodcast

Are your feelings stopping your future? In this episode, the guys break down why so many people stay stuck — not because of a lack of skill or opportunity, but because they refuse to take feedback. From relationships to real estate, work to worship, it’s time to stop letting your emotions drive the car and start asking the right questions. If you're tired of being in the same place and ready for real growth, this episode is your wake-up call. We’re talking feedback, filters, and finally getting RESULTS. 📲 Tap in and don’t forget to: 🔔 Subscribe on YouTube: @S2SPodcastChannel 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcast 📱 Follow us on IG: @s2spodcast

What happens when you're forced to make the hardest decision of your life… and you only have minutes to decide? In this deeply emotional episode, Jemal shares how his father's life was hanging in the balance — and how a choice made decades earlier saved everything. The guys unpack the difference between planning and true preparation, and why waiting until a crisis hits is too late. You’ll learn: ✅ Why living in your feelings can cost you everything ✅ How the faith pillar gave Jemal peace in chaos ✅ What it really means to be prepared — spiritually, financially, and emotionally This episode isn’t just a conversation — it’s a wake-up call to get your house in order before the storm comes. Make Real Estate Real → makerealestaterealcourse.com Forever Forward Marriage → foreverforwardmarriage.com You Matter Youth Camp → etsummerschool.com If this episode challenged or encouraged you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And don’t forget to: 🎙 Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts 🔔 Follow the show so you never miss an episode 📱 Connect with us on Instagram: @s2spodcast 💥 Get exclusive content at: patreon.com/S2SPodcast120 🔗 Resources:🙌 CTA for Audio Listeners:

What starts as a quick story about turbulence on a flight turns into a hilarious debate:When a random stranger reaches for your hand… What do you do? 👀 In this episode, the guys break down the now infamous “interlock moment” — but it’s deeper than just laughs. They explore how too many people try to “perform” success without ever preparing for it. Whether it’s your marriage, your business, your mindset, or your body — the pressure will reveal whether or not you’ve done the real work. Tap in to hear why preparation always beats performance, how discipline builds confidence, and why who you interlock with matters more than you think. Don’t wait for pressure to show up prepared Why routines and rituals matter more than talent The link between physical shape, mental sharpness, and success Real-life ways to build “muscle memory” in your purpose What the Random Girl Challenge taught us about boundaries 😂 🎥 Watch the full episode on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@S2SPodcastChannel?sub_confirmation=1 📲 Join our Patreon family:https://www.patreon.com/c/S2SPodcast120 🌐 Explore more from S2S:https://s2spodcast.com 📸 Follow us on IG:https://instagram.com/s2spodcast 🔥 Takeaways:🔗 Connect with the Squad:

This might be the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed. What if the vision you're chasing isn't even real? What if you're frustrated, not because you're behind… but because you're living in delusion? In this episode, the guys go all the way in — breaking down the dangerous difference between perception and reality, and how most people sabotage their future by refusing to expose themselves to the truth. You'll hear: Why your vision might be built on lies The hidden traps of tipping culture, insurance, and "they" systems designed to keep you in the dark How exposure shatters delusion and provides the clarity you need to move forward Real talk on homeownership, money moves, and why most people never get wealthy Delusion feels good — until it doesn’t. Reality stings, but it leads to real progress. If you’re ready to stop pretending and start building a life that actually works… this episode is for you. 👉 Ready to level up your communication and influence? Join us in Atlanta for the Next Level Speakers Conference – June 7–9 and get exposed to what’s really possible. 🎟️ Tickets are going fast: nextlevelspeakersconference.com 💥 Enjoying the podcast? Leave a 5-star review on Apple or Spotify Share this episode with someone who needs a reality check Join our Patreon for exclusive content and behind-the-scenes: patreon.com/S2SPodcast120 📲 Follow us on IG: @S2SPodcast 🎥 Subscribe on YouTube: S2S Podcast Channel

You’re not stuck because of your job, your past, or your partner… You’re stuck because of the lies you believe about yourself. In this episode, the S2S crew unpacks the real reason most people never elevate: self-deception. You’re grinding, praying, and planning—but you’re out of alignment with the truth. We’re calling it out—and giving you the mindset shift to finally move forward. No more delusion. No more excuses. It’s time to get free. 💡 The awareness you’ve been avoiding? It’s the breakthrough you’ve been praying for. 👇 Tap in and take back control of your life. 🎤 Also, don’t miss the Next Level Speakers Conference: June 7-9, Atlanta | Featuring Lisa Nichols + Eric Thomas on the same stage for the first time ever! 👉 NextLevelSpeakersConference.com 🛎️ Join our Patreon for exclusive lives, behind-the-scenes content, and early access: ⁠⁠http://patreon.com/S2SPodcast120⁠⁠ 👉 Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@s2spodcast⁠ 👉 Subscribe on YouTube: ⁠S2S Podcast Channel

This week on the Secret to Success Podcast, the crew dives into a raw, awkward, but absolutely necessary conversation: what happens when your partner stops trying? One listener asks, “Do I tell my wife she never dresses up anymore… or stay quiet to keep the peace?” CJ, ET, Karl, and Jemal open up the uncomfortable truth about relationship expectations, unmet needs, and why most couples are too scared to say what they really want. From misaligned visions to silent resentment, they break down why failing to communicate can slowly destroy even the best marriages. If you’re married, dating, or want a healthy relationship, this episode will challenge you hard and give you real steps to fix things — before you lose what you’ve built. 🚨 Don’t miss this one — your relationship might depend on it. 💍 Ready to celebrate your love instead of always saving someone else’s? Visit ForeverForwardMarriage.com to join the movement. — 🎤 Also, don’t miss the Next Level Speakers Conference: June 7-9, Atlanta | Featuring Lisa Nichols + Eric Thomas on the same stage for the first time ever! 👉 NextLevelSpeakersConference.com 🛎️ Join our Patreon for exclusive lives, behind-the-scenes content, and early access: ⁠http://patreon.com/S2SPodcast120⁠ 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @s2spodcast 👉 Subscribe on YouTube: S2S Podcast Channel

You ever wonder why your healthy marriage still feels heavy? In this episode, the guys get real about the weight of being the “strong couple” in your circle — the ones everyone runs to when their relationship is falling apart. But what if constantly being surrounded by broken marriages is secretly impacting your own? From secondhand smoke to secondhand divorce, CJ, ET, Karl, and Jemal unpack why healthy couples need spaces to recharge, reset, and be celebrated — not just drained. They introduce a bold new vision: Forever Forward Marriage — an exclusive retreat for healthy marriages only. ▶️ Why healthy marriages need protection ▶️ How Camille nursed Jemal through two surgeries — twice ▶️ The danger of dimming your light for broken couples ▶️ Creating a marriage Olympics — the All-Star Game for couples in bliss ▶️ What real investment in your spouse actually looks like This isn’t a marriage conference for broken people — it’s a celebration for couples in bliss. 💍 Ready to celebrate your love instead of always saving someone else’s? Visit ForeverForwardMarriage.com to join the movement. — 🎤 Also, don’t miss the Next Level Speakers Conference: June 7-9, Atlanta | Featuring Lisa Nichols + Eric Thomas on the same stage for the first time ever! 👉 NextLevelSpeakersConference.com 🛎️ Join our Patreon for exclusive lives, behind-the-scenes content, and early access: http://patreon.com/S2SPodcast120 Follow us on IG: @s2spodcast

🔊 Episode Description: This week on the Secret to Success Podcast, Eric Thomas and CJ go all the way in. If you’ve ever been the person holding it all together while everyone around you falls apart, this episode is your wake-up call. ET opens up about what it really means to be fully responsible—and the emotional, financial, and physical toll it takes when you constantly pour into people who don’t take ownership for themselves. From family to friends to business partners, this conversation exposes the difference between helping and enabling. CJ shares powerful insights on how to protect your peace, what it looks like to set boundaries with love, and why walking away isn’t quitting—it’s maturity. This episode is raw, practical, and guaranteed to shift the way you approach relationships. 💥 You’ll learn: Why partial responsibility is more dangerous than none How to spot takers (even when they’re close to you) What “generosity wars” look like when done right Why you should stop playing the hero and start protecting your purpose 🔥 Don’t miss out: ▶️ Subscribe to the YouTube channel: youtube.com/@S2SPodcastChannel 🎥 Join our Patreon family for exclusive behind-the-scenes content: patreon.com/S2SPodcast120 📲 Follow us on IG: @s2spodcast