The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma} podcast

EP 274: The Only Three Things You Actually Need to Remember

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Every behavior. Every parenting moment that feels impossible. It all comes back to three sentences — the three core tenets that distill how relational neuroscience makes sense of behavior and give us a roadmap toward change.

This episode lays out the three truths underneath everything I do — this podcast, my books, The Club, the Immersion Program — and why they matter more than any single strategy ever could. Caring for kids with big, baffling behaviors is so overwhelming and confusing. Having an anchor is non-negotiable.

In this episode you'll learn:

  • The three sentences that hold up this entire framework and sum up what behavior really is
  • Why Social Baseline Theory says your nervous system was never built to carry hard moments alone
  • How these three truths can help in the middle of a meltdown — with your kid, with yourself, with anyone you love who's having a hard time

You don't have to hold onto these truths by yourself. That's what The Club is for!


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Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/threethings

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