Reflect Forward podcast

Choose The Leader You Are Beco,ming

30.12.2025
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25:27
15 Sekunden vorwärts
15 Sekunden vorwärts
Choose the leader you are becoming, or default to the leader you have been. That is the real decision in front of you as you head into a new year. Most leaders believe change starts with better goals. New priorities. New plans. But if you keep showing up with the same identity, the same emotional patterns, and the same nervous system responses, you will recreate the same year with different tasks. This episode is about breaking that cycle. Episode overview This is Episode 2 of my three-part Design Yourself series on creating the life and leadership you want in 2026. In Episode 1, we focused on self-awareness and uncovering the default stories running your leadership. In this episode, we move from awareness to choice. Because you cannot design a different year if you show up as the same version of yourself. In this conversation, I break down why goals do not create lasting change and why identity does. We explore how identity is formed, how it drives behavior under pressure, and why many high-performing leaders stay stuck by clinging to versions of themselves that once worked but no longer fit. I also share personal stories about releasing old identities and what shifted when I consciously chose who I wanted to become, not someday, but now. Research highlight According to research from the University of Scranton, ninety-two percent of people fail to achieve their goals. One major reason is that they focus on outcomes instead of the identity and systems required to sustain change. Key takeaways • You cannot design a different year if you show up as the same version of yourself. • Identity is not fixed. It is practiced. • Your identity drives your behavior, not the other way around. • Leadership friction is often an identity problem, not a performance problem. • You are designing the experience of you every day. Mic drop moments • Choose the leader you are becoming, or default to the leader you have been. • Goals do not create change. Identity does. • If you do not upgrade your identity, your life will keep bumping up against the same edges. • You are not designing a to-do list for 2026. You are designing the experience of you. If you haven’t listened to Episode 1 yet, start there. In Episode 3, we’ll talk about how to design a 2026 structure that supports the leader you are becoming, because you don’t need a better plan. You need a better practice. If this episode resonated, share it with someone who’s ready to stop repeating the same year with different tasks, and subscribe to Reflect Forward wherever you listen. Connect with Kerry Visit my website, kerrysiggins.com, to explore my book, The Ownership Mindset, and get more leadership resources. Let’s connect on LinkedIn, Instagram, or TikTok! Find Reflect Forward on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kerrysiggins-reflectforward Find out more about my book here: https://kerrysiggins.com/the-ownership-mindset/ Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerry-siggins/

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