Ep.338: Stefanos Sifandos: How To Integrate Healthy Masculine And Feminine Energy In Relationships

If you’ve ever felt torn between being real and being marketable, this episode is going to hit home.In this raw + unfiltered conversation, I sit down with Kyle Creek — aka The Captain — to talk about the addictive nature of writing, the tension between art + commerce, and the challenge of staying true to yourself in a world that rewards clicks over authenticity.Kyle shares what it’s really like to walk away from a comfortable career in advertising to carve out a life as a full-time writer — one that’s both liberating + brutally exposing. We dive deep into the pitfalls of personal branding, the pressure to perform online, and why Kyle refuses to bend to AI-driven content trends.This episode is for every creator, writer, or human trying to reconcile their need for self-expression with the demands of a noisy, fast-moving digital world.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSFIND KYLE CREEK ON:IGWEBFREE RESOURCES:🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making. 🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge. 🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses:

This is not another pep talk about “faking it ‘til you make it.” This is about the kind of courage that moves you across the country with no safety net. The kind of self-trust that makes you leave a perfect-on-paper career to follow your SOUL.In this raw + unapologetic conversation, I’m breaking down why courage does the heavy lifting that confidence gets glorified for—and why TRUST is the bridge to both. I share the moves that scared me most, the moments my intuition screamed louder than logic, and the decisions that rewrote my entire reality.If you’ve been waiting for the confidence to show up before you make your next bold move—this is your wake-up call: choose courage first.MAYBE YOU NEEDED TO HEAR THIS TODAY:Courage is the REAL catalyst—confidence is just the proof you made it through.Your highest timeline will never be built on betraying your HEART.Intuition isn’t reckless—it’s your soul’s GPS.Every bold choice reinforces your ability to trust yourSELF.Freedom requires risk. Playing safe is the fastest way to suffocate your dreams.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSFREE RESOURCES:🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making. 🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge. 🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses.

In this high-octane episode, I sit down with former Navy SEAL Commander + author Rich Diviney to dive deep into the art of thriving in UNCERTAINTY. We break down what fear really is (hint: it’s uncertainty + anxiety), how to train yourSELF to face it, + why your potential lives outside the edges of your comfort zone.Rich shares neuroscience-backed tools like Moving Horizons + DPO thinking (Duration, Pathway, Outcome) to help you navigate chaos with calm + clarity — whether you’re leading a team, pivoting in your career, or simply trying to find your next move.We also go all in on the power of IDENTITY — because how can you know who the f*ck you are if you never test yourSELF? From courage to confidence to self-leadership, this conversation is a roadmap for building unshakable trust in yourSELF + embracing the beautiful unknown.HIGHLIGHTS FROM OUR CONVERSATION:Fear = uncertainty + anxiety. Reduce one, and you reclaim your power.Your potential only reveals itself when you step beyond comfort.True confidence isn’t about guarantees — it’s knowing you’ll find a way through.Your identity isn’t fixed. You get to shape it by the challenges you take on.The quality of your life is tied to the quality of questions you ask daily.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSFIND RICH DIVINEY ON:INSTAGRAMWEBSITEFREE RESOURCES:🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making. 🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge. 🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses:

This powerful clip is from episode 325.They’ll tell you to wait for the right time... the perfect plan... the guaranteed outcome. I say—fuck the guarantees. The right time is the moment your SOUL says go.In this microsode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it really takes to leap into the unknown + trust yourSELF enough to fly without a net.After one of our listeners asked me how I made one of the biggest decisions of my life, I took a trip down memory lane—to the moment I walked away from a thriving career in the makeup industry to follow my dharma into creating, writing + speaking.No map. No guarantees. Just the gut-deep knowing that my future SELF needed me to say yes.And then, a conversation with another community member opened the question: Does trusting yourself mean you always make the “right” decision? Spoiler—it doesn’t. True trust is about honoring yourSELF, learning through every outcome, + never abandoning your dreams in the face of uncertainty.MAYBE YOU NEED TO HEAR THIS TODAY:Uncertainty isn’t a threat—it’s the open door to your true path.Self-trust is built in the fire, not in the comfort zone.The EXPERIENCE is the reward—even when the result looks different than you pictured.The most empowering decisions are the ones that align with your SOUL, not your fear.Every challenge is a training ground for the next level of yourSELF.⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HEREEnjoy! xRxFIND ME ON:️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSFREE RESOURCES:🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making. 🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge. 🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses:

In this new episode, I sit down with renowned Relationship Coach, Stefanos Sifandos, to unravel the truth about Masculine & Feminine energies + what it really takes to create authentic relationships.If you’ve been craving a deeper connection—within yourSELF or with someone else—this conversation is for you.STAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIE ️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBEXTHREADSSTAY CONNECTED WITH STEFANOS SIFANDOS️INSTAGRAM: @stefanossifandosBOOK WAITLIST: https://www.stefanossifandos.com/waitlistCOACHING: https://coachwithstef.comDECODE THE MASCULINE: https://go.joshuawenner.com/home--decoding-the-masculine-pageComment or DM "DECODE" to Stef’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stefanossifandosFREE RESOURCES Download your FREE Decisive Woman's Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident makingClick HERE to join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth, Self-directed living -- laced with FEMININE fire.Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide - A clarity guide to help you reconnect with your truth and move forward—with confidence, not chaos.

In this episode, I’m inviting you to come home to your Original SELF- Your Spirit—the truest, most unedited version of you. I share what it means to be on your own team and why surrounding yourself with soul-aligned “teammates” can amplify your mission, your joy, and your whole experience of being alive.From Blondie to Bruce Lee, I call on iconic spirit guides to remind us that authenticity isn’t static—it’s a living, breathing force that will evolve you if you let it. This is my rally cry to live from desire, choose hunger over comfort, and build relationships that meet you on your soul’s frequency.If you’ve been living a life that looks shiny from the outside but feels flat on the inside, here’s your permission slip to start playing full out.Some Thought Seeds I Dive Into: Why your spirit is the “OG you” and how to reconnect with it.The power of being on your own team—and what that actually looks like day-to-day.How aligned relationships can expand your vision and accelerate your evolution.The danger of chasing aesthetics over essence—and how to flip it.What it means to live with hunger, desire, and a willingness to evolve.Enjoy!xRxWant to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instagram with it! YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating + review HERESTAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIE ️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBETWITTERTHREADSFREE RESOURCES Download your FREE Decisive Woman's Playbook + master the art of intuitive action + strategic execution. Click HERE to join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth, Self-directed living-- laced with FEMININE fire.Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide + start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt.

In this conversation with Spiritual Psychologist, Best-Selling author, and Master Coach Christine Hassler, we dive into the raw, beautiful truth of what it really means to LOVE yourSELF—to heal the inner child, to face what hurts, and to grow into the next version of your authentic spirit.Self-love isn’t about liking every part of you. It’s about accepting them. It’s about boundaries. It’s about finally doing the thing your inner child has resisted for years.Christine and I open up what true integration looks like, why safety is the gateway to freedom, and how masculine + feminine energies must move together if you want to live fully alive.If you’ve been stuck in Self-criticism, childhood wounds, or the myth that purpose equals vocation, this episode is your permission slip to rewrite the story + come back HOME to love.Maybe you needed to hear this today:SELF-love isn’t about liking yourself—it’s about accepting yourSELF, even the parts you judge.Boundaries aren’t about controlling others—they’re about regulating YOUR energy + honoring YOUR capacity.Your inner child is still driving more of your decisions than you think. Healing is meeting them with compassion.Integration is where transformation actually happens—not just the “a-ha” moment.Spiritual evolution means moving past fear + judgment into LOVE. Purpose isn’t only what you do—it’s who you BECOME.That’s exactly what Christine Hassler + I dive into in this week’s episode. The messy, powerful truths of love, safety, integration, and becoming the most authentic version of yourSELF.Enjoy!xRxClick here to learn more about Christine’s upcoming Women’s RetreatWant to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instagram with it! YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating + review HERESTAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIE ️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBETWITTERTHREADSSTAY CONNECTED WITH CHRISTINE HASSLERINSTAGRAMPODCASTWEBSITEFREE RESOURCES Download your FREE Decisive Woman's Playbook + master the art of intuitive action + strategic execution. Click HERE to join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth, Self-directed living-- laced with FEMININE fire.Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide + start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt.

In this microsode from EP. 324 I’m taking you into the arena with me—blood, sweat + SOUL—showing you how to get back up when life knocks you the f*ck down.KEY POINTS: Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s your access point to real strength.Your morning routine is your launchpad for energy, focus + getting sh*t DONE.Self-awareness is the sharp edge that cuts through negativity.Perimenopause, challenges, pressure—it’s all part of the training ground for your next level.The second you stop comparing yourSELF to others, your worth becomes unbreakable.CHAPTERS:0:00 Authenticity and Resilience in Overcoming Daily Challenges1:54 Embracing My Dharma as a Communication Wake Up Artist2:49 Embracing Vulnerability and Resilience Amidst Life's Challenges7:41 Harnessing Morning Brainwaves for Success10:04 Embracing Imperfection and Resilience Through Self-AwarenessWant to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instagram with it! Enjoy!xRxYOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating + review HEREFIND ME ON:IG: https://www.instagram.com/roxylookSUBSTACK: https://substack.com/@roxannesaffaieX: https://x.com/roxylookWEB: https://www.roxannesaffaie.comFREE RESOURCES Download your FREE Decisive Woman's Playbook + master the art of intuitive action + strategic execution. Click HERE to join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth, Self-directed living-- laced with FEMININE fire.Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide + start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt.

In this solo episode, I’m getting into what it really means to go all in—not just in one area, but in how you show up everywhere.I share the mindset that shaped me—from my early days as an athlete to what I’ve learned walking alongside my best friend, 3x Olympic Gold Medalist Kerri Walsh Jennings. These are the inner codes that build real confidence, Self-trust, and power that doesn't break.Inside, I get into:What full-spectrum commitment actually looks likeWhy clarity is the prerequisite to excellenceHow courage kicks the door open (and confidence walks through)The power of conviction—and how to sharpen itHow curiosity keeps you in the gameAnd why resilience rooted in compassion will always outlast egoIf you’re ready to stop negotiating with your greatness and start leading yourself like you mean it—this episode is your ignition.Want to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instagram with it! Enjoy!xRxYOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe +5 leave us 5⭐️Star rating + review HERESTAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIE ️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBETWITTERTHREADSFREE RESOURCES Download your FREE Decisive Woman's Playbook + master the art of intuitive action + strategic execution. Click HERE to join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth, Self-directed living-- laced with FEMININE fire.Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide + start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt.

In this episode, I sit down with the AWESOME Justin Andrews from the top-rated health + fitness podcast, Mind Pump (one of my long-time favorite shows), to talk about what it really takes to live, work, + create from a place of unapologetic authenticity.Justin and I rip open the truth about the vital importance of integrity and the courage it takes to lean into challenges instead of running from them, + how Self-expression isn’t just art—it’s a requirement to thrive. From the behind-the-scenes dynamics at Mind Pump to the personal storms that shaped his philosophy, Justin shares why hardship is inevitable, but hiding from it will kill your spirit. We go deep into why real collaboration only works when everyone’s anchored in truth. Justin and I are MASSIVE music lovers, so we had fun getting into some music talks too :)I love this talk and everything Justin and the rest of the Mind Pump Crew are about!Highlights From This Conversation :Why leaning into discomfort is the REAL training ground for personal growth.How authenticity + integrity aren’t just values—they’re courage skills for life + business.The fulfillment Justin feels when hearing how Mind Pump has pulled listeners out of their darkest seasons.How curiosity fuels expansion—in the gym, in your career, + in yourSELF.Redefining health as vitality—well-being as a whole-body, whole-soul experience.Want to ask a question and have it answered in an episode? DM @roxylook on Instagram with it! Enjoy!xRxSTAY CONNECTED WITH ROXANNE SAFFAIE ️INSTAGRAMSUBSTACKYOUTUBETWITTERTHREADSSTAY CONNECTED WITH JUSTIN ANDREWS️INSTAGRAMMINDPUMP PODCASTMINDPUMP FITNESS PROGRAMSYOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave us a 5⭐️Star rating + review HERE