（英语）我告诉他我的离婚，他告诉我他经历的背叛｜冰岛系列第八集｜EP. 1906

This is the final episode of Journey One.On the drive to the airport, Palli said: "I think we might become long-term partners."I felt happy. And a little sad. Because I knew we were about to be separated. This episode is about goodbye, about choices, and about learning to believe again after being broken. And about the version of Lily standing at the plane window, leaving part of herself behind in Iceland.Journey Two — see you in summer.My website：flywithlily.com

这是Journey One的最后一集。 Quote of the Episode｜本集格言"We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time."“我们不会停止探索，而所有探索的终点，将是回到出发的地方，并第一次真正认识它。” — — T.S. Eliot"冰岛送给我的，早已不只是壮阔的风景。还有一个重新相信爱、相信自己，也相信人生仍然充满可能的我。What Iceland gave me was never just its landscapes. It gave me back a version of myself who could believe in love, in herself, and in the possibility that life still holds more."— — LilyPalli送我到机场的路上说了一句话：“我觉得，我们可能会成为很长久的伴侣。”我心里既开心，又难过。因为我知道，我们就要分开了。这一集，我要说的，是一个关于告别、关于选择、关于在破碎之后如何重新相信的故事。还有那个站在飞机窗边，把一部分自己留在了冰岛的Lily。Journey Two，夏天见。现在到flywithlily.com 下载“离开你的舒适圈”挑战，开启你的冒险！

That night, Palli took me to a natural hot spring that no tourist map would ever show you.Minus eight degrees, a dark wooden hut with no lights, icy ground underfoot — and a sky full of stars. We didn't see the Northern Lights. But soaking in that spring, Palli shared something that left me speechless: his experience with ayahuasca.I had no idea that a few months later, I would fly to Peru and take the same journey myself.Sometimes a seed is planted so quietly you don't even notice it.My website: flywithlily.com

那天晚上，Palli带我去一个观光客不知道的天然温泉。零下八度的气温、没有灯的木屋、结冰的地面——还有一片让人屏息的星空。我们没有等到北极光。可是泡在温泉里，Palli分享了一段让我目瞪口呆的经历——死藤水。我那时完全没想到，几个月后的自己，真的会飞去秘鲁，踏上同样的旅程。有时候，一个故事的种子，就是这样悄悄种下的。My website: flywithlily.com to download your challenge today!单词列表（Top 5）1. Aurora borealis /ɔːˌrɔːrə bɒˈriːælɪs/ ／ 北极光（正式名称）The aurora borealis lit up the sky in shades of green and violet.北极光把天空染成了绿色和紫色。2. Ayahuasca /ˌaɪəˈwæskə/ ／ 死藤水（南美洲萨满植物饮料）He described his ayahuasca experience as profoundly life-changing.他形容死藤水的体验是深刻地改变了他的人生。3. Awe-inspiring (形容词) ／ 令人敬畏的、让人屏息的The silence and the starlight were completely awe-inspiring.那份寂静和星光，让人完全屏息。4. Aurora index (名词片语) ／ 极光指数He kept checking the aurora index on his phone all evening.他整个晚上一直在查手机上的极光指数。5. In retrospect (片语) ／ 回头看、现在回想起来In retrospect, that night was the beginning of another journey entirely.现在回头看，那个夜晚是另一段旅程的开始。

One coffee turned into ten hours. The Golden Circle, seafood chowder, hot pools, a small bar — and then a quiet walk home in the snow.This episode: why Icelanders check a genealogy database before dating, what I said when I leaned my head on Palli's shoulder, a kiss that felt more like a confirmation than a beginning, and the one sentence that made me understand exactly who he was.Some kindness needs no reason. Some meetings take you somewhere you never expected to go.My website: flywithlily.com

"There is nothing I would not do for those who are really my friends. I have no notion of loving people by halves; it is not my nature."“对于真正的朋友，我没有什么是不愿意做的。我不懂得以半颗心去爱人——那不是我的本性。”— — Jane Austen"或许，旅行真正迷人的地方，不只是风景。而是你永远不知道，一次原本只是想找个旅伴的相遇，最后会把你带向哪里。Maybe the most magical thing about travel isn't the scenery. It's that you never know where a simple meeting — one that started with nothing more than wanting a travel companion — might eventually take you."— — Lily从一杯咖啡开始，到黄金圈、海鲜浓汤、游泳池、再到小酒吧——我和Palli，一起待了整整十个多小时。这一集：冰岛人为什么在约会前要查家族关系资料库？我把头靠在Palli肩膀上说了什么？还有那个轻轻的、温柔的吻——以及那句让我完全明白他这个人的话，“我不希望妳带着那样的期待来见我。”有些善意，不需要理由。有些相遇，你永远无法预料它会把你带到哪里。单词列表（Top 5）1. Confirmation /ˌkɒnfəˈmeɪʃən/ ／ 确认、印证That kiss felt less like a beginning and more like a confirmation.那个吻，感觉与其说是开始，不如说是一种确认。2. Mulled wine (名词片语) ／ 热红酒We warmed up with two glasses of mulled wine.我们喝了两杯热红酒，让自己暖和起来。3. Genealogy /ˌdʒiːniˈælədʒi/ ／ 家族关系、家谱Icelanders use a genealogy app before dating — just in case.冰岛人在约会前会用家族关系应用程式确认——以防万一。4. Ulterior motive /ʌlˈtɪəriər/ ／ 隐藏动机、别有用心He helped me with no ulterior motive — just genuine kindness.他帮助我，完全没有别有用心，只是真心的善意。5. Uncomplicated /ʌnˈkɒmplɪkeɪtɪd/ ／ 简单的、没有复杂动机的His kindness was uncomplicated — no strings, no conditions.他的善意很简单——没有附带条件，也没有任何计算。我的网站：flywithlily 下载离开你的舒适圈30日挑战

That afternoon, driving through a white, open landscape, Palli and I told each other our deepest wounds.I told him about my divorce. He told me about his betrayal. Neither of us went into detail — but we both felt the weight of what the other carried.This episode: an outrageously priced bowl of seafood soup, a dip in Iceland's community swimming pools, and a conversation in a hot spring that left me quiet for a very long time."What held me back wasn't age. It was me."My website: flywithlily.com

那天下午，开车穿越一片白色旷野的时候，我和Palli说起了各自最深的伤。我告诉他我的离婚。他告诉我他经历的背叛。我们都没有说得很详细，却都感觉到了对方的重量。这一集：吃了一碗贵到让人心碎的海鲜浓汤，泡了冰岛人的社区游泳池，还有——在热水池里，Palli说了一句让我沉默了很久的话。单词列表1. Vulnerability /ˌvʌlnərəˈbɪlɪti/ ／ 脆弱、卸下心防的状态It takes courage to show vulnerability to someone you just met.对一个刚认识的人展露脆弱，需要很大的勇气。2. Betrayal /bɪˈtreɪəl/ ／ 背叛He'd experienced betrayal that went far beyond heartbreak.他所经历的背叛，远不止是失恋那么简单。3. Geothermal pool (名词片语) ／ 地热温泉池Iceland's geothermal pools are where locals go to unwind.冰岛的地热温泉池，是当地人放松身心的地方。4. Cultural shock (名词片语) ／ 文化冲击Mandatory nude showers before the pool were my first cultural shock.进泳池前必须裸体淋浴，是我第一次经历文化冲击。5. Self-imposed limit (片语) ／ 自我设限Sometimes the barriers we face aren't external — they're self-imposed.有时候，我们面对的障碍不是外在的，而是自我设限。My website: flywithlily.com下载“离开你的舒适圈30日挑战”中英文手册

This episode, I want to formally introduce him — Palli.That afternoon, he drove me out to the Golden Circle to see Þingvellir National Park — home to the world's oldest parliament, and the meeting point of the Eurasian and North American tectonic plates.The sun was setting, turning the snow golden. My hands were freezing. And then Palli reached out.Suddenly, Iceland didn't feel quite so cold anymore.My website: Flywithlily.com

这一集，我要正式介绍他——Palli。那天下午，他带我开车前往黄金圈，去看辛格维利尔国家公园。那里是世界上最古老的议会所在地，也是欧亚板块和北美板块的交会点。夕阳把整片雪地染成金色。我的手冻得发疼。然后，Palli伸出了手。那一刻，我觉得冰岛没有刚才那么冷了。我的网站：flywithlily.com