学英语环游世界

“Our names are the stories we carry into the world.”“名字，是我们带入世界的故事。”在这一集里，我和你分享我的回忆录第二篇：中英文名字与绰号的由来。名字不只是符号，它承载着身份、归属感与生命故事。开场我读了一段听众 JJ 的留言——她在雨中的清晨听到节目，流下勇敢的眼泪，体会到幸福不是依附在别人身上，而是来自于自己的勇敢。这样的故事，也和我的名字一样，都是我们生命里的印记。除了名字的故事，我也会带你学习 8 个和名字相关的精选英语单词：Surname (姓氏) – 家族的姓氏Belonging (归属感) – 被接纳的感觉Symbolize (象征) – 用符号表达意义Identity (身份／认同) – 我们是谁Nickname (绰号) – 非正式的名字Ridicule (嘲笑) – 不友善的取笑Redefine (重新定义) – 赋予新的意义Authentically (真实地／诚实地) – 忠于自我� 最新感情观反思在这一集里，我也分享了 前男友回到前女友身边 带给我的体悟。这让我明白——- 不是换伴侣，问题就会消失。如果根源没有处理，旧的问题只会在新关系里重演。-爱情有时候需要放手，拆散一对怨偶，才有可能成就两对佳偶。 - 分手不是失败，而是一种祝福，提醒我继续走在自我成长与真实生活的道路上- 本集内容融合了 故事、反思与英语学习。希望它能带给你勇气，也让你重新思考：名字、身份和爱情，是不是其实都在见证我们如何学会真实地做自己。� 想收到更多我的故事和第一手更新，欢迎加入邮件社群：⁠flywithlily.com⁠

“Our names are the stories we carry into the world.”“名字，是我们带入世界的故事。”My Chinese name is Li Zi-Jin (李姿锦), and my father said he personally chose it for me. Li is an extremely common surname—you can find people with the same family name everywhere in Taiwan. Yet, as a child, I felt different because of this name, since the great Tang dynasty poet Li Bai also carried the surname Li. That connection gave me an extra sense of pride and belonging. As for Zi (姿), my father chose this character because it contains both “second” (次) and “woman” (女), symbolizing that I am his second daughter. The last character, Jin (锦), is made up of “gold” (金) and “silk” (帛), representing his wishes for me to have a rich and beautiful life. As a little girl, I often felt that my name carried a mission—that my father’s hopes and expectations were all packed into those thirty-two brushstrokes.我的中文名字是李姿锦，爸爸说这是他亲自为我取的。李是一个极其普遍的姓氏，在台湾到处都能遇到同姓的人。然而，小时候的我却因为唐代大诗人李白也姓李，而觉得自己与众不同。这样的联想，让我对这个姓氏多了一份骄傲与归属感。至于“姿”，爸爸选这个字，是因为它的结构里有“次”和“女”，象征我是他的第二个女儿。而“锦”由“金”与“帛”组成，代表他对我的期待——希望我能拥有富足而美好的生活。小时候的我常觉得，名字就像一个使命，爸爸的心愿和期待全都压在这三十二划里。When I was in elementary school, my name became the subject of jokes among classmates. They loved to mimic the sound of “Li Zi Jin” saying it sounded like “ni zi ji” (“yourself” in Mandarin). Outwardly, I laughed along, but inside I felt embarrassed. What’s more, the last character of my name, Jin, was often misread as Mian (It means cotton in Chinese). Eventually, to avoid awkwardness, I let some teachers or strangers call me “Zi-Mian” instead. Looking back, those jokes were probably harmless, but they did plant a seed in me about the connection between names and identity.小学时期，我的名字常成为同学的玩笑。他们喜欢模仿“李姿锦”的发音，说听起来像“你自己”。表面上我会跟着笑，心里却觉得尴尬。特别是名字最后一个字“锦”，常常被误读成“绵”。后来，为了避免尴尬，我干脆让一些老师或陌生人叫我“姿绵”。现在回头看，那些玩笑或许没有恶意，但确实让我开始思考名字与身份的关联。In the fifth grade, I got my first nickname—“Spider.” Back then, it was trendy in class to change the last character of someone’s name to “Pig.”(猪） So Zi-Zhu (姿猪) became “Spider” (蜘蛛). My good friend Yashi even designed a spider logo for me: an oval with a smiling face, a bow on its head, and eight little legs. That time of my life was filled with pure joy. We always signed each other’s cards with this little spider, as if it was a secret code and a symbol of our friendship.五年级时，我有了第一个绰号——“蜘蛛”。当时班上流行把名字最后一个字改成“猪”，于是“姿猪”就变成了“蜘蛛”。我的好友雅诗甚至帮我设计了一个蜘蛛签名：一个椭圆里画着笑脸，头上戴着蝴蝶结，还有八只脚。那段日子充满了单纯快乐，我们总会在彼此的卡片上画上这只小蜘蛛，就像是一种友情的暗号和象征。After graduating from high school, I left my hometown of Kaohsiung and moved north to attend Fu Jen Catholic University. My entire social circle changed. I became obsessed with fashion and makeup, copying styles from the Japanese magazine Cawaii: heavy eyeliner, bleached blonde hair, and miniskirts to class. But my attempts made me the subject of ridicule for some Taipei classmates. They secretly gave me a nickname, “Xiao Baihe” (Little Lily), because they thought I looked like a hostess from a nightclub, and those who works at the nightclub always have a flower name. Still, I didn’t mind at all. In fact, I thought “Xiao Baihe” was beautiful, and I even enjoyed being called that. Looking back, that experience taught me to stop caring too much about others’ opinions and instead focus on my own preferences and self-expression.高中毕业后，我从高雄北上到辅仁大学，生活圈完全改变。我开始迷上时尚与化妆，模仿日本杂志《Cawaii》的风格：浓浓的眼线、染成金色的头发、穿着迷你裙上课。但这些尝试却成了部分台北同学取笑的对象。他们私下给我取了个花名“小百合”，因为觉得我打扮得像酒店小姐——而酒店小姐总会用花名。尽管如此，我一点也不介意，反而觉得“小百合”很好听，甚至乐于被这样称呼。回头看，这段经历让我学会不再过度在意他人的眼光，而是专注于自己的喜好与表达。My first English name was Josephine, chosen by my very first English teacher. But I quickly felt it was too long and changed it to Joyce. It wasn’t until I started teaching English myself that I finally decided on the name I still use today—Lily. I liked the simplicity and grace of “Lily,” which brings to mind the pure lily flower and also echoed my college nickname. Some students who knew my Chinese surname would sometimes call me “Lily Li,” but I didn’t like that combination—it felt too plain. After my engagement, I began using my fiancé’s surname, Wong, and became “Lily Wong.” Even after our divorce, I insisted on keeping this name. For me, it was not only a way to remember that love, but also a way to redefine my own identity.我的第一个英文名字是 Josephine，这是我第一位英文老师帮我取的，但我很快嫌它太长，就改成了 Joyce。直到我开始教英文时，我才决定用现在这个名字——Lily。我喜欢“Lily”的简洁与优雅，让人联想到纯洁的百合花，也与我的大学绰号呼应。有些学生知道我的中文姓氏，会叫我“Lily Li”，但我不喜欢这个组合，觉得太普通。订婚后，我开始使用未婚夫的姓氏“Wong”，成了“Lily Wong”。即使离婚之后，我仍然坚持保留这个名字，因为它不仅是对那段爱情的纪念，更是我对自我身份的重新定义。Nowadays, almost no one calls me by my Chinese name anymore. As I’ve traveled the world, a few friends have tried to learn it, but pronunciation has always been a challenge. So they prefer to call me Lily—simple, convenient, and making our interactions much easier.如今，几乎没有人再叫我的中文名字了。随着我走遍世界，虽然有些朋友尝试学会它，但发音始终是一个挑战。所以他们更习惯叫我 Lily——简单、方便，也让交流更轻松。Today, my name has become part of my personal brand, Fly with Lily. From “Li Zi-Jin” to “Lily Wong,” each version of my name reflects a stage of growth and transformation. I’ve come to see that a name is not only a label but also a vessel of stories, carrying the ways we draw strength from the past and choose to live authentically in the present. In the future, whether my name changes again or not, I hope it will continue to convey my values: love, gratitude, freedom, exploration, and abundance.如今，我的名字已经成为我个人品牌 Fly with Lily 的一部分。从“李姿锦”到“Lily Wong”，名字的每一个阶段都反映了我的成长与转变。我发现，名字不仅是符号，更是承载故事的容器，见证我们如何从过去汲取力量，并选择真实地活在当下。未来，无论名字是否再改变，我都希望它能继续传递我的价值观：爱、感恩、自由、探索与丰盛。我的网站是flywithlily.com

“Our names are the stories we carry into the world.” “名字，是我们带入世界的故事。”在这一集里，我将和你分享我的名字故事——从童年时被同学取笑，到大学绰号“小百合”的自嘲与自信；从第一个英文名字 Josephine，到最终选择的 Lily Wong。每一个名字，都是一段人生的印记，也映照出我不断成长、蜕变与自我定义的过程。名字不只是称呼，它们承载着家人的期望、友情的符号、爱情的印记，甚至是我们在世界上选择如何被看见的方式。今天，我也精选了 8 个与名字相关的英文单词，陪你一起在故事中学习。� 愿这一集，带你回望自己的名字，重新思考它所隐藏的力量与意义。� 行动呼吁 (CTA)：如果这一集触动了你，欢迎 screenshot 分享到 IG story，tag 我 @flywithlily，告诉我：� 你的名字背后有什么故事呢？我的网站是flywithliliy.com，可以在那里参与我的早起和邮件社群，或下载30天离开舒适圈挑战！

“有时候失去，正是找到真自由的开始。”“Sometimes, losing everything is the beginning of finding true freedom.”1. 自由 – freedom• 我体验了自由——想去哪就去哪。• I experienced freedom—the freedom to go wherever I wanted.2. 心灵的平静 – inner peace• 还有一份心灵的平静。 And to enjoy a deep sense of inner peace3. 蜕变 – transformation• 我也经历了身心灵的蜕变。• I also went through a transformation of body, mind, and spirit.4. 宽恕 – forgive• 我学会了宽恕。• I learned to forgive.5. 接受 – accept• 我学会了接受。• I learned to accept.6. 放下 – let go• 我学会了放下。• I learned to let go.7. 臣服 – surrender• 我学会了臣服。• I learned to surrender.8. 婆家 – in-laws’ home• 来自婆家的批评很伤人• The criticism from my in-laws after the engagement were very hurtful. 想要在清晨养成双语晨间习惯，并与一群志同道合的女性一起成长吗？欢迎加入我的 女子晨间双语具乐部 � ⁠https://flywithlily.com/6am

I will never forget that day in Kaohsiung, around 2010, when we held our engagement banquet at my family’s house. A college friend came to congratulate me and said, “You’ve made it.” But in that moment, I didn’t feel a trace of joy.我永远忘不了那天，在高雄家里举办订婚酒席，大概是2010年。一位大学同学来祝贺我，说我“成功了”，可那一刻，我心里却没有一丝喜悦。At the time, I was preparing to marry the man I thought was my prince charming. But the wedding preparations nearly broke me: invitations, outfits, makeup, and hair were all left to me to arrange. I had to take care of my father’s feelings, while also hosting my fiancé’s parents who had flown all the way from Ireland, along with their friends from Hong Kong. Thankfully, my half-sister—though we don’t share the same mother, she has always been caring—was by my side to help. Without her, I wouldn’t have made it through.那时的我，正准备嫁给当时心目中的白马王子。但筹备过程中，我几乎被压垮：邀约、服装、妆发全得自己张罗，还要照顾爸爸那边的情绪，同时也迎接从爱尔兰远道而来的未婚夫父母与他们在香港的朋友。幸好有我同父异母的贴心姐姐陪我一起帮忙，不然我真的撑不住。But what exhausted me the most was the criticism from my in-laws after the engagement: my table manners, my clothing, my behavior… I had been bullied as a child and a teenager, and that same feeling of “being disliked when I was myself, and still not being loved when I tried to please others” came flooding back.但最让我无力的，是在订婚之后，婆家对我的各种不满：餐桌礼仪、穿着打扮……我从小曾被霸凌，那种“做自己被讨厌、委屈自己也不被喜欢”的情绪，再次涌上心头。His parents even told him, “If you insist on marrying Lily, we will cut ties with you.”Yet I was moved by his determination and his love. Even when we went to Hong Kong to register our marriage without either set of parents present, he still chose to stand by me.他的父母甚至对他说：“如果你坚持娶Lily，我们就断绝关系。”我却感动于他的坚持与深爱——即使在我们到香港公证结婚那天，双方父母都没有出席，他还是一样选择站在我这边。But in the end, the marriage still fell apart. Barely a year and a half later, I discovered his affair with his assistant. To be honest, I hadn’t been happy for quite some time. Looking back now, perhaps what he did actually gave me a way out.只是，这段婚姻最后还是走向破裂。结婚不到一年半，我发现他与助理的婚外情。诚实地说，那时候的我早已不快乐。现在回头看，也许他所做的，反而是给我一条出路。I left him, and I also left behind the home and the seven years of life I had built in Shanghai. It was a true new beginning.我离开了他，也离开了我在上海筑起的家和七年的生活。那是一场真正的重新开始。I set out with $10,000, planning to travel for three months. But one journey turned into ten years, and I have now traveled through more than forty countries. My luggage, once heavy, has been reduced to less than seven kilos.我带着一万元美金上路，原本只打算旅行三个月，没想到这一走就是十年，踏遍四十多个国家。行李从沉重到精简，如今只剩下不到7公斤的随行装备。I discovered freedom—the freedom to go wherever I wanted, to meet whoever I wanted, and most importantly, to carry an inner peace with me.我体验了自由——想去哪就去哪，想见谁就见谁，还有一份心灵的平静。Along the way, I went through deep transformation in body, mind, and spirit. I learned to forgive, to accept, to release, and to surrender. I learned to live in peace with myself.因为在这段旅程中，我也经历了身心灵的蜕变。我学会了宽恕、接受、放下与臣服。我学会与自己和平共处。Many people say they envy my life. To be honest, I also envy the version of me who exists today. Over these years, I have cried, broken down, and even thought of ending my life. But I have also experienced the sweetness of love, the ecstasy of life, and now, a quiet contentment.很多人说羡慕我的生活，说实话，我自己也很羡慕现在的自己。这些年，我哭过、崩溃过、也曾想过结束生命。但我也经历过爱情的甜蜜、生命的狂喜，还有如今的恬淡自在。In the past, I often struggled to write, feeling blocked and empty. Now, with the help of AI tools, I can create with flow and share my emotions, stories, and reflections. This is something unimaginable for our parents’ generation, and I feel grateful to live in a time with such possibilities.过去的我，常常写不出东西，觉得文思枯竭。现在，透过AI工具，我能流畅地创作，分享我的心情、故事与体悟。这是我们父母辈无法想像的事情，我为自己能活在这个时代、拥有这样的可能性感到感恩。This memoir is dedicated to myself, and also to you, who may be searching for direction in the midst of uncertainty.这本回忆录，是献给我自己，也是献给在迷途中寻找方向的你。May these stories bring you comfort, and a little courage.希望这些故事能带来陪伴与一点点勇气。If you’d like to connect, feel free to write to me at [email protected] are also welcome to join my Morning Club, my entrepreneurship community, or visit my website: flywithlily.com.如果你愿意与我交流，欢迎写信到 [email protected]。也邀请你加入我的双语女子晨间俱乐部、创业社群，或来逛逛我的网站：flywithlily.com。We meet on the road. May we light the way for each other.我们在路上相遇，愿彼此照亮。This memoir series will be updated weekly on Fly with Lily podcast.I’d love for you to come back often, listen, and leave me a message.You can also support me by leaving a 5-star review on Ximalaya, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify—I’ll be sharing some of your reviews in future episodes.本回忆录系列预计在《学英语环游世界》播客中一周更新一次，欢迎常回来收听或留言给我。并在喜马拉雅、Apple Podcast和Spotify留下五星的评价给我鼓励，我会在节目中分享出来。

从订婚酒席到流浪世界：我的重生起点｜中文回忆录第一集｜EP. 1809这是一段来自我回忆录的真实故事。从一场高雄的订婚酒席，到一段破碎的婚姻，再到我带着一万元美金上路、踏遍四十多个国家，行李愈来愈轻，心灵却愈来愈自由。这一路，我学会了宽恕、接受、放下与臣服。也许你现在正走在迷途中，希望这段分享能给你一点陪伴和勇气。 想要在清晨养成双语晨间习惯，并与一群志同道合的女性一起成长吗？欢迎加入我的 女子晨间双语具乐部 � ⁠https://flywithlily.com/6am⁠

️ 本集录音因网路不稳，音质略受影响，感谢包涵 �但内容绝对值得你听完！在这集特别的中文版访谈中，我邀请到癌症康复者兼健身爱好者——嫚嫚。我们聊到她如何走过疾病、重建生活、打造事业，也分享了我自己的数位游牧与线上创业旅程。这是一封温柔的邀请信，献给正在追寻自由与力量的你。� 加入全女性晨间社群【云雀实验室 2.0】� flywithliy.com/6am嫚嫚的Podcast： 嫚言漫語Talk 嫚嫚的部落格：https://vocus.cc/salon/healmanifest 嫚嫚的IG: @food_fitness.life

� 今日格言｜Quote of the Day“Your identity is your story — and you get to rewrite it anytime.”“你的身份就是你的故事，而你随时都有权重写它。”� 今日单词｜Words of the EpisodeAwaken — 觉醒� To awaken is to notice what you used to ignore.觉醒就是注意到那些你曾忽视的东西。Identity — 自我认同� Your identity is not fixed; it’s a journey of rediscovery.身份不是固定的，而是一段不断重新认识自己的旅程。Wanderer — 流浪者、旅人� A wanderer walks with curiosity, not with fear.流浪者是带着好奇，而不是恐惧在前行。� 行动呼吁｜Join Lark Lab 如果你也正在寻找“懂你的人”，想在清晨建立属于自己的仪式感，加入 云雀实验室 2.0 吧 �这是一个为 40+ 女性 打造的清晨成长社群：每天 6AM 的晨间仪式每月英语读书会每周深度陪伴与真实交流� 到这里报名：flywithlily.com/6amBecause you don’t have to wander alone. �️

� Quote of the Day｜今日格言� “I like my coffee like I like my mornings: dark, strong, and full of possibility.”“我喜欢我的咖啡，就像我喜欢我的早晨：浓烈、强劲，充满无限可能。”� Words to Remember｜单词笔记Part 1spark：火花，灵感瞬间possibility：可能性switch between languages：语言间切换Part 2practical phrase：实用句型ice breaker：破冰工具、开场白local：当地人exchange：交流Part 31-on-1 conversation class：一对一对话课language immersion：语言沉浸式环境background music：背景音乐（象征陪伴感）� CTA｜Call to Action� 如果你喜欢今天的语言灵魂火花，请把这一集分享给正在学英语的朋友。� 想收到更多双语笔记和语言学习灵感？来订阅我的 weekly newsletter 到Flywithlily.com下载离开妳的舒适圈三十天的挑战� 想用语言连结世界？欢迎加入我的 coaching 或参加语音挑战计划，我们一起说出更有力量的声音！

�️ Podcast Ep. 1805 简介这一集，我分享了三段特别的经历：录到哭的那一集 —— 在孤单时透过语音日记找到自己的勇气。最想放弃的时候 —— 经历父母离世与低潮，重新发现“放弃也是疗愈的一部分”。听众的感人故事 —— Elena 与 Gloria 的坚持与陪伴，让我明白这段旅程不只是教学，更是灵魂同行。单词记忆：teary：含泪的，眼眶泛红的colorful life：丰富精彩的人生voice diary：语音日记grieving：悲伤中的、哀悼中的burnout：筋疲力尽、耗竭healing：疗愈、修复bounce back：重新振作give up halfway：半途而废stick with something：坚持下去show up for yourself：为自己出现 / 做自己该做的事kindred spirit：心灵契合的人、灵魂知己如果你正在低谷或创作路上挣扎，记得—— You are not alone.每一次想放弃，都可能是更靠近自己的起点。� 如果今天的故事有打动你，帮我在 Apple Podcast 或 Spotify 留下五星评价吧～� 想收到我的灵感周报，可以到 IG @flywithlily 或到flywithlily.com 点连结订阅 newsletter。� 如果你也有自己的语音梦、创作梦，来我的课程或 coaching，我会陪你走一段路。《云雀实验室2.0》是我的女性早起社群邀请你一起来加入https://flywithlily.com/6am