How to Talk About What You Want in Bed When You Are Already in Bed

You don't have to wait or schedule a special time to talk about what you want in bed. You can do it right there in the moment so you can experience the pleasure you desire. 

Growing up going to Catholic school taught me that sex was bad. We were told not to masturbate or we would go blind and the boys would grow hair on their palms. Sex was very taboo and when talked about was always fear-based. Don't do it or you'll get pregnant or catch a disease. So it's no wonder that in our 40s, 50s, and up we may be struggling with sex in our relationships. We were encouraged to wait until marriage but no one told us how to have sex or be intimate or even how to talk about what we wanted with our spouse and yet somehow sex was going to magically be great! Well, we are finding out that maybe that isn't true. I have worked with couples who waited and are frustrated about their sex lives, lack of orgasms, or lack of quality sex. They aren't sure what to do especially as Christians. So today I am talking with Dez Wright founder of  Real Raw Righteous: Real talk to get to the Raw truth for Righteous living. The Mission: Help women find resolutions to the challenges of life as they enhance their intimacy with God Facilitate open discussions in safe non-judgmental environments focused on personal development and spiritual growth. Join us Sunday at 7 pm EST to check out this fascinating conversation on The Gen SeXy Podcast! Sign up for Hot Chocolate: A Safe Space for Women of Color to Talk About Sex, Sexuality, and Their Desires! Seats are limited so RSVP now to reserve yours. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hot-chocolate-a-safe-place-for-women-of-color-to-openly-talk-about-sex-tickets-254149336507

Sex can feel like a chore and you're not always in the mood, but that doesn't mean you need to give it up for good. In this weeks' podcast, we're going to talk about how easy it is to get your groove back with vaginal rejuvenation Hi I'm Renée Yvonne the Gen Sexologist and I want to talk about something very personal - sex. For some people, sex has become more of a chore than anything else, but don't worry there's an easy fix! Vaginal rejuvenation is one of the best ways to revive your sex life without any side effects. This week, La Shon Byrd of The Queen Slayer will join me to tell you all about it and what we'll be covering in this week's podcast. Learn more about La Shon's spa at www.TheQueenSlayerStudio.org Text her at 240-554-5566 Sign up for her Valentine's Day Special of $699 for vaginal rejuvenation between 1/21/22- 2/28/22. You can use FSA, HSA, Afterpay

Dating has changed a lot since we first started dating in our teens or 20s. Maybe we have been dating this entire time or maybe we are divorced and beginning to date again. Whatever your situation is, this podcast will be great for you. Listen in as we talk with Eric Legette from www.theDatingInterview.com and he talks about the questions we need to ask in order to find the mate of our dreams.

Have you ever found yourself wondering how to get your sex life back on track after divorce? This week my guest Camille Davis will share the most important things that will help you balance dating and finding love again. I'm Renée Yvonne the Gen Sexologist and I know that after a divorce, people often feel like they don't know what's expected of them or just not ready for it yet. But that doesn't mean there isn't anything we can do about it! This week my special guest Camille Davis is going to share some tips on how you can get back into the dating scene and maybe even find someone new without feeling awkward or intimidated by all those apps out there.

On this episode of how to peg your man, we're going to go over the basics of pegging. What is it? How do you do it? Where can you find a strap-on dildo and why would someone want one in the first place? We'll also answer some common questions like: Does this make my man gay? Will this bring us closer? How do you become an expert in pegging? And many more of your burning questions will be answered by our special guest expert Ruby Ryder of Pegging Paradise. Join us Sunday, July 18 at 10 am for our final show of Season 1 of the Gen SeXy Podcast. We hope to "see" you there! Websites the Ruby mentions: Pegging101.com- Pegging without the kink Peggingparadise.com- Pegging with kink Cleaning out: Ergoflo Pro Director: https://enticeme.com/product/perfect-fit-ergoflo-director-bulb-syringe/#rubyryder Website: https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com/ Solo Play: Aneros Helix Syn: https://enticeme.com/product/aneros-helix-syn/#rubyryder Njoy Purewand: https://enticeme.com/product/njoy-purewand/#rubyryder Sliquid Silk Lube: https://enticeme.com/product/sliquid-silk-hybrid-lubricant/#rubyryder

You know that feeling when you're just not in the mood? When everything is wrong and nothing seems right? No? Lucky you! But if you can relate, then you need to check out this podcast. Hi, my name is Renée Yvonne, The Gen Sexologist and I'm a sexologist who specializes in working with Gen Xers and Baby Boomers. We all know that men have a lot of different sexual dysfunctions but what many people don't realize is that there are also various types of sexually related problems among women such as vaginismus or vulvodynia which can affect their sexuality and intimacy. Join me this week as we talk with Dr. Laurena White about these health issues and more and how they affect our intimacy and what can be done to fix the issue.

Sexless relationships are a common occurrence, but often difficult to break free from. This week we will talk about how to survive a sexless relationship and get back on track with your partner. My name is Renée Yvonne, The Gen SeXologist, and I'm here today to talk about one of the most common problems in relationships -- having not enough sex. This might sound like an easy problem, but if it's been going on for a while there can be deep-rooted issues that need some attention. In this episode, I'll walk you through what those could be, as well as what you need to do to fix them so both partners feel happy again.

You know the story, two people meet, fall in love and get married. But what if you don't want to be married anymore? What if you just want a companion? In this podcast, we're going to talk about how society changes when we're older and why that might make marriage seem less desirable. Hi everyone! I'm Renée Yvonne, The Gen SeXologist and I've been getting asked a lot of questions about marriage lately.  Some people just don't want to be married anymore and are wondering if it is the right choice for them - but there's more at play than meets the eye. Society has changed over time as well as our expectations of ourselves so let's walk through some important factors that will help us better understand what we really want out of life right now.

Tantra is a profound and powerful practice that can bring your sexual relationship to the next level. This week we're talking about tantra with Devi Ward Erickson founder of the Institute of Authentic Tantra Education will introduce you to the basics of Tantra, including what it is, how it works, and why more people are using Tantra today than ever before. Connect with Devi @authentictantra.com and discover the art of using pleasure as medicine!