Assumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore the true meaning of intimacy—beyond just sexuality. Dr. Carol shares updates about her ministry’s amazing new space for healing and intensives, called Transformation Place. In our conversation, we discuss the universal need for connection with God and others. Dr. Carol offers practical steps for building deeper relationships, overcoming fear and shame, and embracing vulnerability. We also highlight several resources for anyone seeking healing from sexual brokenness. To check out some of these resources from Carol, visit DrCarolMinistries.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of the significance of intimacy in human relationships.Discussion on the connection between intimacy, sexuality, and sexual brokenness.Updates on Dr. Tankersley's ministry and the establishment of a new physical space for events.Definition of intimacy as "seeing and being seen, knowing and being known."Importance of relational intimacy beyond sexual intimacy.Identification of common obstacles to experiencing true intimacy, such as shame and emotional walls.Practical steps for cultivating intimacy with God and others.Emphasis on the value of vulnerability and authenticity in relationships.Discussion of non-sexual aspects of intimacy, including sensory experiences and physical touch.Resources and tools for further support in the journey toward intimacy and healing.More Resources:A 5-Step Prescription for Sexual Healing - God's WayOnline Sexpectations CourseIn-Person Small Group IntensivesRelated Podcasts:Exploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol TanksleyWhat Are Your Sexpectations?What is Oneness and Why Does It Matter in Your Life?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

In this episode, I sit down with Sathiya Sam, founder of Deep Clean, to discuss his journey from porn addiction to freedom and personal growth. Sathiya shares how he struggled with ineffective solutions and the shame tied to his addiction. Over time, he realized true recovery meant focusing on personal and spiritual development rather than just quitting porn. We explore the connection between physical well-being and mental health, emphasizing how activities like exercise and journaling can aid recovery. Sathiya also highlights the importance of understanding one's identity and purpose, offering practical steps for overcoming shame and fostering a healthier lifestyle. Join us for a powerful and inspiring conversation on whole-man healing.For more information on Sathiya and his resources, visit DeepCleanCoaching.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal journey of recovery from pornography addictionIneffective solutions encountered during the recovery processShift in focus from eliminating pornography to personal growth and spiritual developmentConnection between recovery, physical well-being, and mental healthImportance of identity and purpose in the recovery journeyThe impact of physical activities on emotional states and lifestyle choicesNeurochemical aspects of recovery and the concept of "red zone" vs. "green zone"Overcoming shame associated with body image and sexualityPractical steps for fostering a healthy relationship with one's bodyThe significance of valuing one's body for enhancing relationships and personal fulfillmentMore Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenGrace-Based Recovery Online GroupsThe Last Relapse* by Sathiya SamRelated Podcasts:The Last Relapse with Sathiya SamHelping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally FitKeys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the crucial topic of expectations in marriage, focusing on the difference between assumed and discussed expectations. We share lots of personal stories and insights, highlighting how unspoken assumptions can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. Our conversation focuses on the importance of open communication and dialogue to foster a healthier relationship. I reflect on my own marriage, illustrating how discussing expectations can transform a relationship from merely coexisting to truly sharing life. We encourage you, if you’re married, to engage in meaningful discussions about expectations to avoid the pitfalls of unspoken assumptions.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: The distinction between assumed expectations and discussed expectations in marriage.The impact of unspoken assumptions on misunderstandings and conflicts in relationships.The importance of open communication and dialogue in addressing expectations.Personal anecdotes illustrating the challenges of navigating expectations in marriage.The influence of family backgrounds on partners' expectations and roles.The collaborative process of navigating expectations as a couple.The necessity of ongoing discussions about expectations as relationships evolve.The role of awareness and perception in understanding each other's viewpoints.Strategies for initiating meaningful discussions about expectations in marriage.The overall message that couples are better together through intentional communication and collaboration.More Resources:The Deep-Rooted Marriage* by Dan Allender and Steve CallRenewing Us Couples RetreatFind a Counselor or CoachRelated Podcasts:Breaking Down Barriers: The Art of Active ListeningThe Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, we invite back one of our favorite counselors, Jessica McDaniel, who runs a private practice in Austin, TX with her husband, Ryan. We dive into the crucial collaboration between therapists and pastors, especially when helping couples deal with infidelity and betrayal trauma. Jessica shares how both therapeutic and pastoral support are essential for comprehensive healing. We discuss the importance of creating safe environments, clear communication, and breaking down the stigma around mental health in church settings. Jessica also offers practical advice for building strong, collaborative relationships between therapists and church leaders to better support couples in crisis.To learn more about Jessica and Ryan’s counseling practice, visit McDanielCounseling.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Collaboration between therapists and pastors in addressing infidelity and betrayal trauma.The importance of integrating therapeutic and pastoral support for couples.Challenges individuals face in choosing between confiding in a pastor or a therapist.The divide between "church life" and therapeutic needs, and its impact on seeking help.Creating a safe environment for individuals to discuss sensitive issues with church leaders.The necessity of dual support from both therapists and pastors for couples in crisis.Addressing misconceptions and biases between therapists and pastors.The role of communication and regular updates in collaborative support.The stigma surrounding mental health issues in church settings and the need for normalization.Encouraging proactive relationship-building between therapists and church leaders for better support networks.More Resources:Find a CounselorCouples IntensivesChurch ResourcesRelated Podcasts:Becoming a Healing ChurchTalking About Taboo (with Mike Novotny)Can the Church Be a Safe Place for Healing and Transformation?----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.

The world seems to always be ready to criticize and complain. What happens when those criticisms and complaints are directed at you? How well do you respond? In this episode, Stephen and Jonathan unpack how our responses to verbal barbs affect (and measure) our emotional growth journey. Discover the path of grace and love that sets your heart free from being offended and offers others the hope of Jesus.Book: Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life BetterMore Podcasts:A Biblical Framework for EmotionsAbout Your Emotional Connecting SkillsEssential Truths to Heal and Mature Your Broken Emotional SystemHelp for Men: Men.Bebroken.comHelp for Women: Women.Bebroken.comHelp for Families: Family.Bebroken.com----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.