#60 Break Free From Clutter and Trauma in 2025

In this episode, JM and Valerie reveal the hidden weight behind stress and anxiety—our attachment to expectations. Learn how clinging to ideal outcomes, perfectionism, and control can silently sabotage your peace. Through real-life stories and simple mindset shifts, they show how letting go of these attachments can lead to greater emotional freedom, clarity, and joy in the present moment.IN THIS  EPISODE:How attachment to expectations fuels stress and anxietyWhy letting go of control leads to emotional freedomThe mindset shift that creates lasting inner peacePractical ways to release perfectionism and be presentLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourselfThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, JM and Valerie break down the science and simplicity behind intention setting—a powerful tool to overcome mental overload. You’ll discover how to reduce stress, improve productivity, and gain clarity by starting each day with a focused mindset. With real-life tips and examples, this is your guide to feeling more in control, present, and peaceful—all without adding more to your to-do list.IN THIS EPISODE:How mental clutter reduces productivity and focusThe power of intention setting to clear your mind dailySimple prompts to define your focus and emotional goals5-minute habits to reduce stress and improve clarityLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourselfThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, JM and Valerie reveal five fresh, brain-based strategies to declutter your mind and regain control in a distraction-filled world. From the Brain Dump Method to the Two-Minute Reset and the Thought Jar, these practical tools help you feel lighter, think clearer, and get more done—without the overwhelm. Perfect for anyone feeling mentally drained or stuck in constant multitasking.IN THIS EPISODE:5 science-backed techniques to declutter your mind and boost clarityHow mental clutter impacts focus, stress, and productivitySimple daily habits to reduce overwhelm and improve calmTools like Brain Dump, Thought Jar, and Two-Minute Reset for mental clarityLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourselfThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, JM and Valerie explore why decluttering feels so hard and how emotional attachments, decision fatigue, and overwhelm can keep us stuck. Learn simple, science-backed strategies to get motivated, from 15-minute decluttering sessions to the Four-Box Method. With a focus on mindset, progress, and mental clarity, this episode is your step-by-step guide to creating a calm, organized environment that supports your well-being.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: The psychology behind why clutter causes stress and overwhelmHow emotional attachments and decision fatigue block progressMotivational decluttering tips like the 15-minute rule and Four-Box MethodHow a cleaner space boosts mental clarity, focus, and well-beingLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourselfThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, JM and Valerie reveal how a cluttered environment affects your mental health, from elevated stress levels to poor sleep and reduced focus. Backed by research, they explain why your room may be draining your energy—and how small, consistent changes can help you reclaim peace and productivity. Learn how to use your space as a tool for better well-being, one step at a time.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: How clutter increases stress, anxiety, and mental fatigueThe science behind how messy spaces impact focus and sleepWhy your environment reflects and affects your emotional stateEasy decluttering habits that support long-term mental wellnessLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourselfThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, JM and Valerie introduce the DO Well Method—a four-step approach to help you declutter more than just your home. Discover how to clear emotional stress, shift limiting mindsets, manage your time intentionally, and organize your space with ease. Backed by research and personal stories, this episode is your guide to creating a calmer, more focused life in the year ahead.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:How clutter impacts mental health, focus, and daily productivityThe 4-step DO Well Method to declutter stress, mindset, time, and spaceSimple strategies to reduce overwhelm and regain controlHow small changes create lasting clarity and balance in 2025LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourselfThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, JM and Valerie guide you through practical, mindset-shifting strategies to declutter as you approach retirement. From starting small to handling sentimental items, you'll learn how to clear physical and mental space, keep what truly matters, and enjoy a more peaceful, organized home. Perfect for anyone ready to embrace this next chapter with clarity and confidence.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:Why retirement is the perfect time to declutter and reset your spaceSimple, stress-free tips to start small and build momentumHow to handle sentimental items without feeling overwhelmedWays to create a peaceful, organized home for your next chapterLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourselfThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, JM and Valerie walk you through a stress-free kitchen organization plan you can use year-round. Learn how to declutter effectively, arrange your kitchen into functional zones, stock up on everyday essentials, and create guest-friendly setups. Whether you're cooking a big meal or just trying to simplify your daily routine, these easy strategies will help you stay calm, efficient, and in control.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:How to declutter your kitchen with a simple, focused approachThe zone method for more efficient cooking and meal prepPractical strategies to store and manage everyday ingredientsGuest-friendly setup tips, from drink stations to storage solutionsLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourselfThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, Valerie and JM share their personal journey from chaos to clarity, revealing how clutter is often tied to deeper emotional struggles. Learn how the DO Well Method combines practical steps with compassionate support to help you declutter your home and your life. If you're ready for real change, this is where it begins.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:How clutter and trauma are deeply connected—and how to break freeValerie’s real-life journey from overwhelm to transformationThe DO Well Method: a trauma-informed approach to lasting changeCore values that guide effective, compassionate declutteringLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice.Click Here to Learn More  Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/quiz-clutter-life-qualityThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show

In this episode, Valerie and JM reveal 7 practical, heartwarming steps to create a cozy, welcoming home—without needing perfection. Learn how to host with confidence, comfort, and care. Through personal stories and practical tips, you’ll discover how to transform your home into a warm, inviting haven—one thoughtful step at a time.IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:7 simple steps to prep your home for guests—without needing to declutter everythingHow to create comfort using small, thoughtful touches in key areasWhy hosting is about connection, not perfectionAn intro to the DO Well Method for reducing clutter and stressLINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE:"Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice.Click Here to Learn More  Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/quiz-clutter-life-qualityThanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review!iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or StitcherSupport the show