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The Ask You're Avoiding Is Holding Back Your Next Move

10/15/2026
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What opportunity are you missing because you haven't asked?


Lola and Mamuna discuss why asking for help, money, a job, or a raise can feel so uncomfortable. They share personal stories about family expectations, self-sufficiency, coaching, and making the next move as a founder.


Then they turn the question around: what if it goes right?


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Chapters

00:00 Lost in Tech

00:21 The school of life

01:02 Leaving the comfort zone

02:22 Asking for help and money

05:14 Shame, vulnerability, and courage

07:27 Family messages about asking

09:27 Coaching and limiting thoughts

13:26 The LinkedIn posting confession

14:40 Walk to the ledge or get pushed

15:21 How will you feel if you never do it?

16:30 Imagine success

17:40 Prepare for good news

20:03 Ask for the job, raise, or opportunity

21:27 What's being built

22:17 What ask are you avoiding?


Lost in Tech with Mamuna Oladipo and Lola Pearson.

Episode 94.


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