WHY CANT WE BE FRIENDS

In this powerful and personal episode, we explore how expectations both internal and external shift as we age, especially for women over 50. From the realities of menopause and chronic illness to evolving roles in family, career, and relationships, we unpack the silent pressure to “keep up” even as our bodies and priorities change. #LifeAfter50#MenopauseMatters#aginggracefully #letschitchatsis Support the show

“Is It Betrayal? When Silence Speaks Louder Than the Truth” In today’s episode, we’re unpacking a deep one: Is it betrayal when someone knows something that could hurt you — but chooses not to tell you? Whether it's a friend who knew your partner was unfaithful, a family member who stayed silent while drama unfolded, or someone in your circle who withheld the truth “to protect you”… we’re getting into it.Because let’s be honest — sometimes the silence cuts deeper than the lie. #TrustIssues #FriendshipBetrayal #FamilyDrama #TruthOrBetrayal #SilentHurtSupport the show

Why We Can’t Be Friends-When the Dust Settles, Walking Away After the FalloutThis episode dives into the emotionally charged aftermath of broken bonds that follow divorce, friendship breakdowns, and unresolved family drama. It’s about the hard truth that not every relationship survives the storm, and sometimes, that’s okay.#lifeafterdivorce #newbeginnings #letschitchatsis Support the show

In this episode, we take a deep dive into the complicated question: Do you really want to know the details? Whether it’s about infidelity in a relationship, private conversations between friends, or situations that shake the foundation of your trust, sometimes the truth feels heavier than the lie.#trustyourgut #letschitchatsis 

You Got Me Looking Crazy in These Streets unpacks how reputations get hijacked by messy relationships, friendship fallouts, and social media theatrics, and how to take your narrative back.#YouGotMeLookingCrazy #SoftLifeBoundaries #protectyourpeace 

We are on a short break! See you back on the porch September 17!

🎙️ Episode Title: Victim or Willing Participant?In today’s powerful episode, we dive deep into the murky waters of accountability, manipulation, and self-awareness. Have you ever looked back on a situation and wondered—was I taken advantage of, or did I willingly ignore the signs? We explore the blurred line between victimhood and willing participation in toxic relationships, friendships, work environments, and even family dynamics.This conversation isn’t about blaming yourself—but it is about taking your power back by acknowledging the role you may have played in staying too long, silencing your intuition, or excusing bad behavior.#VictimOrWillingParticipant #Accountability #ToxicCycles #BlackWomenHealingSupport the show

 In this episode, we’re unpacking what it really means to step into your selfish season—a time where you stop over-explaining, stop overextending, and start prioritizing you.Too often, Black women are expected to carry everyone else—family, friendships, careers, community—while putting themselves last. But what happens when you decide that you matter first?"Choosing oneself isn't selfish—it's necessary.” Celes.   #SelfishSeason #HealingOutLoud #BlackWomenDeserveRest #ChooseYou #PodcastForBlackWomenSupport the show

"Sis, You Knew: Trusting Your Intuition as a Black Woman" In this powerful episode, we’re talking about something every Black woman has felt—those quiet inner nudges, the gut feelings, the inner alarms that go off even when everything looks fine. Yes, we’re talking about intuition.Too often, Black women are taught to second-guess themselves, minimize their instincts, or overanalyze decisions for fear of being labeled “emotional” or “dramatic.” But what if that inner voice is God, your ancestors, or divine wisdom guiding you?#BlackWomenHealing #TrustYourGut #IntuitionIsReal #BlackGirlWisdom #SpiritualStrength #SisYouKnew #PodcastForBlackWomen

Whew! In this episode, we’re pulling no punches and getting real about the chaos, contradictions, and confusion of dating in today’s world — especially as a Black woman. From ghosting and situationships to love bombing and “heal first” advice from men who haven’t even unpacked their own trauma — the streets are wild.We talk about the emotional toll of constantly being expected to be “strong,” “soft,” “independent,” and “low maintenance” all at once. We also explore the double standards, the hypervisibility and invisibility, and why so many Black women are choosing peace over partnership until something real and healthy shows up.This episode is full of honesty, laughter, hard truths, and a reminder that you’re not crazy — it really is rough out here. But you're still deserving of love that feels like peace, not pressure.#BlackWomenDating #It’sGhettoOutHere #ModernLoveStruggles #DatingWhileBlack