68 \\ How to Save a Life

Boundaries are necessary to help you protect your peace. Even if others don't understand or like them, if you are implementing them to help you feel safe and increase your confidence - you need to hold to them for your sake. You do not need to continue to explain your rational or stance unless you want to, because this is your life that you are responsible for, so you need to find peace and have confidence in your decision and choices. XO, Shannon   2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

Over-explaining is a common habit, but comes from a place of insecurity. The more we can have confidence in who we are and all we're becoming, the more we can show up confidently in our life and relationships. Healthy boundaries allow us to create guardrails for our thoughts, emotions, time management, and overall habits. They help guide us towards our goals and to be who we want to be. Boundaries are not selfish, but in fact are one of the most respectful, mature, loving things we can do for ourselves and others. You don't need to explain yourself when it comes to your boundaries, but you do need to hold true to your values and practices to continue to be all you're meant to be. XO, Shannon   2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

The way people treat us can affect our self-confidence and worth. You are not what they say or how they treat you. You are capable, confident, and amazing. Everyone is fighting battles we know nothing about. The sooner we can see people's actions for what they are, acting out in misbehavior - the sooner we can heal, and offer grace, patience, and walkaway confidently in peace. XO, Shannon   Episode Mentions Mean by Taylor Swift: https://open.spotify.com/track/30Y4CV7A6YqtQtTTo7Ue4j?si=27e133948f014bbf  Lover by Taylor Swift: https://open.spotify.com/track/1dGr1c8CrMLDpV6mPbImSI?si=578dcd81a5ad42e5  Movie - She's the Man: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0DSPJ281Y/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r  Movie - Central Intelligence: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B01H640340/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_r  Book: Why Am I Like This: https://amzn.to/4jiBdnn    2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

Not all childish ways get left in our childhood. Unfortunately, one of the things that many still experience in their adulthood is bullying. Bullying is never ok, no matter which end you're on - giving or receiving. Knowing your worth, that the behavior is unacceptable and really a reflection of the bully's struggles - we need to talk about healthy ways to handle and process it so it doesn't affect our confidence and growth. XO, Shannon   2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

Feeling inadequate is unfortunately more normal and common than we'd like to think. What I want to encourage you to do is to make the shift from The Greatest Showman's song, "Never Enough" to Bruno Mars' song, "Just the Way You Are." You are amazing, worthy, and wonderful. You will always make mistakes because you're human. Focus on learning, reflecting, and growing through them. Extend the same grace to yourself that you do to others. Be your biggest fan. XO, Shannon   Show Mentions Never Enough (from The Greatest Showman): https://open.spotify.com/track/0Gl5s8IhMmQE5YQwM8Qx1J?si=14234bb130014206   Just the Way You Are (Bruno Mars): https://open.spotify.com/track/7BqBn9nzAq8spo5e7cZ0dJ?si=b877ea91e9e24a52    2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

Feeling inadequate is unfortunately more common than many realize. But you are amazing, fully capable, and completely worthy. If you have ever felt this way or struggled with this, know you are not alone - and I hope this episode brings you encouragement and value on your journey. XO, Shannon   Show Mentions Never Enough (from The Greatest Showman): https://open.spotify.com/track/0Gl5s8IhMmQE5YQwM8Qx1J?si=14234bb130014206   Just the Way You Are (Bruno Mars): https://open.spotify.com/track/7BqBn9nzAq8spo5e7cZ0dJ?si=b877ea91e9e24a52    2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

You don't have to be in the medical field to save a life. The work medical professionals do is amazing and admirable, but you can save a life in your every day relationships by being present and supportive and walking the hard roads with people so things don't feel so heavy and they don't feel alone. XO, Shannon   Show Mentions How to Save a Life (The Fray): https://open.spotify.com/track/5fVZC9GiM4e8vu99W0Xf6J?si=8aec6bafd9844b41  Dare to Lead by Brené Brown (Audible): https://amzn.to/4iDIEVN  Dare to Lead by Brené Brown (Hardcover): https://amzn.to/4iz1SvK    2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

You are responsible for your life. Others' expectations can be heavy, especially if you're a recovering people-pleaser, but you are responsible for your life. Are You Who You Want to Be? XO, Shannon   Show Mentions The Man I Want to Be (Chris Young): https://open.spotify.com/track/5zMRkxgFscsPItPsMy4ItS?si=3ea498b0fd8d4acc  The Man I Want to Be (Jake Scott): https://open.spotify.com/track/4gqmi9agXnXX9tfnkaeyop?si=9549f88456334c3e    2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

Energy is something we constantly wish we had more of to increase productivity and just feel better. While there are lots of options on the market, most don't support your healthy goals of honoring your body. There are good options for supplements, but also natural ones that we can control with both our movement and nutrition. XO, Shannon   Show Mentions Ōura Ring: https://bit.ly/41QrKx7  Energize: https://amzn.to/3FeoiUi  Lipotrop: https://purerxformulas.com/product/lipotrop/    2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]

Spring Forward is often a stressful time because most of us are already overtired and stressed. There are ways to help adjust to new routines while honoring your priorities without burning out. Let's talk about the choices that affect our health, physically and mentally, during this time and any routine change that can help us make the shift successfully. XO, Shannon   2025: Hello / Goodbye Playlist Tidal: https://tidal.com/browse/playlist/8b909d05-f1fa-4eba-88ff-c8571aac6c3e Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6jv87DuQfexSEWCA6BcRrB?si=Z_RLfEYeQOigmba78oUFGw    1:1 Coaching: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/coaching   Free Stuff Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/afreshstartsupport  5-Day Meal Plan: https://www.shannonmarqueta.com/    Connect TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shannonmarqueta IG: https://www.instagram.com/shannonmarqueta/  Email: [email protected]