Ep #141 You Don’t Have to “Stop Looking”

This episode was inspired by a @manlydeedspodcast clip where the hosts express their love of the show Love on the Spectrum. It’s also Francesca’s favorite dating show, and in this discussion Francesca encourages listeners to consider how they can create new dating norms that prioritize authenticity and connection.    Get your copy of Francesca’s new book, How to Find True Love:   On Bookshop On Amazon  On Porchlight (for bulk orders)  On Barnes and Noble On Books-a-Million   Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny (and get Franny’s free love affirmations!)  Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos and Alex RP

In this episode, Francesca Hogi celebrates the launch of her first book, How to Find True Love: Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships. To celebrate, she’s giving away prizes that include a Theragun, a signed copy of the book and more on Instagram. No purchase required. Enter before Friday, April 11th @dearfranny!   Get your copy:   On Bookshop On Amazon  On Porchlight (for bulk orders)  On Barnes and Noble On Books-a-Million   Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny (and get Franny’s free love affirmations!)  Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos  

In this episode, Francesca shares a personal story about a relationship that taught her invaluable lessons about self-love, intuition, and the importance of listening to herself on her dating journey. She shares the need for self-awareness and how learning from painful past experiences makes for better future relationships.   Pre-order Franny’s book (and take a screenshot of your receipt -- a bonus for pre-orders will be announced soon!)    Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny (and get Franny’s free love affirmations!)    Join the True Love Class Series   Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi   

In this episode, Francesca discusses self care, the importance of being present and intentional in love and dating. She breaks down the unhelpful advice to “stop looking and then you’ll meet your person” and shares what to do instead.   Pre-order Franny’s book (and take a screenshot of your receipt -- a bonus for pre-orders will be announced soon!)    Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny (and get Franny’s free love affirmations!)    Join the True Love Class Series   Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi  

In this episode of the Dear Franny podcast, Francesca reflects on the complexities of Valentine's Day and the emotional challenges it can bring. She also talks about the grief associated with letting go of old patterns and the courage required to take your love life to the next level. It’s not always easy, but you are worth it!    Join the True Love Class Series!     Pre-order Franny’s book!   Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny (and get Franny’s free love affirmations!)    Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi   

Inspired by a memorable quote from a matchmaker that’s stuck with her for over a decade, Francesca discusses the importance of us looking out for each other romantically speaking. In this episode, she encourages us to take care of ourselves and each other by embracing a more collective approach to dating, moving away from the isolating nature of modern dating culture. She also introduces her upcoming True Love Class Series, aimed at preparing your for 2025’s evolving dating landscape.    Join the True Love Class Series!     Pre-order Franny’s book!   Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny   Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi   

Do you know your love assignment? We are all being called to become more loving, but do you know what that actually means for you right now? This is a can’t-miss episode for anyone looking to move past confusion and who’s ready to graduate to the next chapter of your love journey.    Pre-order Franny’s book!   Join Franny and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny   Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi   

Have you ever experienced a powerful dream? Have you ever had an insight or an experience in a dream that helped you in your waking life? This episode is a replay of a True Love Society conversation Francesca had with her friend and dream mentor, Angela Stalcup, on the significance of dreams and the practice of  dream incubation. Angela breaks down how to use this powerful practice for yourself (starting tonight!) and they discuss how dreams can serve as a unique personal experience, a tool for emotional healing, and a means of enhancing creativity and problem-solving.    Connect with Angela   Learn more and pre-order Franny’s book!   Join Francesca and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny   Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi   

In this episode, Francesca reflects on her connection to Los Angeles amidst recent challenges, announces her upcoming book, and shares insights on setting intentions for romantic love in 2025. She emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, compassion, and community support while discussing the evolving dating culture and the potential for positive change in relationships. If romantic love is a priority for you in 2025, this episode is for you!    Pre-Order Franny's Book!   Join Francesca and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny   Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi   

In this conversation, Francesca Hogi and Elle J. discuss the challenges and realizations that come with approaching milestone birthdays, particularly focusing on relationships, self-worth, and the importance of connection. Elle shares her journey of seeking a committed relationship after years of prioritizing her career, the impact of COVID on her social life, and her efforts to engage more with others. They explore the complexities of vulnerability, the significance of self-love, and the need to redefine relationships beyond romantic connections. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, asking for help, and recognizing the value of all forms of love in life. In this conversation, Francesca Hogi guides Elle J. through the complexities of self-compassion, personal growth, and the fear of change. They explore the importance of embracing challenges, the emotional processing of change, and the narratives we tell ourselves about our worth and relationships. The discussion emphasizes the power of self-discovery and the need to change our beliefs to foster healthier relationships and a more authentic self. In this conversation, Elle J. and Francesca Hogi explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on self-love, breaking unhealthy patterns, and the importance of intentional dating. They discuss how personal narratives shape romantic experiences and emphasize the need for self-acceptance and clarity in what one truly desires in a partner. The dialogue encourages listeners to challenge their beliefs about love and relationships, fostering a healthier approach to dating and self-worth.   Pre-Order Franny's Book!   Join Francesca and the True Love Society community on Patreon! Join for free live monthly sessions, a library of resources and more! https://www.patreon.com/dearfranny   Watch Franny’s TED talk: Franny’s TED talk.   Work with Franny:    https://linktr.ee/dearfranny   Connect on social media:   @dearfranny on Instagram @dearfrannypodcast on Instagram   Credits:  Edited and produced by Bex Carlos Cover art photography by Matt Romasanta Hosted and cover art designed by Francesca Hogi