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Ep 234: How Do We Help Coaching Clients Make Difficult Choices?

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What do you do when your coaching client is facing an impossible choice and there’s simply no perfect answer? In this episode of The Coaching Hub, I share the real-life complexities of decision-making for clients, especially in emotionally-charged situations where every option has real consequences.

Sharing practical wisdom from thousands of hours of coaching leaders and business owners. I’ll help you discover why holding non-judgmental space is vital, how to support clients to process their emotions and state, and why your own biases matter (even if you try to keep them hidden). Learn about the common “similarity bias” that sneaks into sessions, and why “ducks in a row” is mostly a myth, real life is messy, and so are the toughest decisions.

You’ll explore actionable strategies to help clients regulate their nervous system, embrace emotional awareness, and use their full brain power to make the best decision for themselves in the moment.

What’s Inside:

  1. How to help clients hold discomfort and other people’s emotions without taking over
  2. The art of staying in the coach seat (not the mentor’s chair)
  3. Moving clients from catastrophising to clarity using emotional regulation
  4. Why self-compassion is essential when there’s no “perfect” decision
  5. Navigating your own biases and using supervision as crucial support.

Key Topics Covered:

00:00 Intro: Helping clients make hard decisions

00:16 The reality of decision-making

00:43 Supporting without bias: How coaches can stay in the coaching role

02:31 The factors that complicate decisions

03:24 How nervous system activation impacts decision-making

04:37 Encouraging clients to make the best possible decision with the information available

05:46 Helping clients tap into both rational analysis and emotional/intuitional cues

06:31 Providing a supportive, unbiased space for reflection

07:16 Emotional regulation and awareness is vital for both coach and client

07:44 Why reflective practice and supervision matter

08:50 Acknowledging the emotional labour involved for both client and coach and encouraging ongoing reflection and support.



About Ruth Kudzi:

Ruth is the founder of Optimus Coaching Academy and a well-respected and successful coach, speaker and author who has worked across sectors including leadership, career and more recently business and mindset. She has over 10,000 coaching hours and has completed hundreds of hours of training and coaching supervision. Ruth is an MCC-level coach with the ICF and is our course director and CEO. Prior to becoming a coach, Ruth was a senior leader in education.

Find out more here: https://ruthkudzi.com/

Book:How to Feel Better: 4 Steps to Self-Coach Your Way to a Happier More Authentic You eBook : Kudzi, Ruth: Amazon.co.uk: Books

Connect with Ruth:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RuthKudzi

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ruthkudzi2/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ruthkudzi/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ruthkudzi/

Podcast: https://podfollow.com/the-coaching-hub-podcast

About Optimus Coach Academy:

Optimus offers best in class coaching training for individuals and corporates.

If you want to know more about what we offer: https://optimuscoachacademy.com/coach-training

We also offer business support as standard at Optimus, find out more here: https://www.optimuscoachacademy.com/

Connect with Optimus Coach Academy:

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/optimuscoachacademy/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/optimuscoachacademy

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