Breakups Hurt — But OCD Makes It Worse

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to the OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James, a seasoned coach who has lived through these challenges himself. In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked compulsion of rumination—a mental habit that feels productive but actually keeps us stuck in the obsessive-compulsive loop. We delve into the nature of rumination, why it feels automatic, and how it deceptively presents itself as a means to figure things out. But rather than providing clarity, rumination only leads to further compulsions and deepens the cycle of OCD. Robert shares insights on how to interrupt this mental spiral, challenging you to stop viewing rumination as a thinking problem and start seeing it as a behavioral one. By mastering the art of recognizing when you're caught in the loop and shifting focus to more value-driven actions, you can begin to manage OCD symptoms more effectively. If you're ready to take back control and wish to discuss further, Robert offers a free discovery call, accessible via his website. Tune in to gain practical tools and encouragement on your journey to overcoming OCD and embracing a more present life Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.      

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this episode of the OCD and Anxiety podcast, Robert James, a seasoned coach and fellow sufferer, delves into the nature of intrusive thoughts and how they can make you question your identity and values. He discusses the common misconception that these thoughts are indicative of one's character and explains why they're more about a sensitive mind overly conscious of protecting what matters most. Robert shares personal anecdotes and outlines methods to detach your self-worth from these thoughts. Emphasizing the role of acceptance, he highlights how understanding the thoughts as mere "mental static" rather than truths can usher in transformation. Through personal stories and proven strategies, this episode guides you on the path to reclaiming your peace despite the presence of intrusive thoughts Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.    

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to another insightful episode of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast with Robert James. In this episode, Robert explores the painful intersection of breakups and OCD. He delves deep into how OCD latches onto the heartache of a breakup, turning genuine emotional pain into a relentless mental loop, filled with doubt and guilt. Robert discusses his personal struggles with relationship OCD and provides practical strategies to break free from these compulsions. Discover Robert's three-step method to deal with intrusive thoughts: Acknowledge, Tolerate, and Refocus. Learn how to interrupt the ruminative cycle, tolerate discomfort without diving into it, and refocus your attention on the present moment and your values. Tune in to find your path to healing and embrace the freedom that comes with letting go of uncertainty Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.    

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to the OCD and Anxiety podcast with Robert James, where we delve into the brutal reality of real event OCD. This episode explores how OCD can turn a real-life event into an ongoing nightmare by trapping you in a loop of guilt and obsession. Discover how to break free from the cycle, learn to handle unresolved moments from the past, and transform problem-solving compulsions into acceptance. Learn how to allow uncertainty and reclaim your peace of mind. Tune in for insights, personal experiences, and strategies for moving past OCD-driven guilt and living with balance. If you're struggling, Robert offers a free discovery call to explore support options, with details available at robertjamescoaching.com Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.  

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this insightful episode, explore a transformative metaphor of 'the storm and the island' to understand and manage OCD and anxiety better. Learn how to transition from feeling overwhelmed by chaotic thoughts to observing them from a place of calm and strength. By shifting the focus, you gain the power to reclaim your peace and engage in meaningful activities, leaving the relentless storm behind. Discover personal strategies and insightful testimonies that help in breaking free from the hold of OCD. Join us to learn more about creating a positive relationship with anxiety, where you are in control and not at the mercy of your fears Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this episode of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the deep-seated longing for normalcy often experienced by those living with OCD. The discussion focuses on the pain of feeling different and the trap of obsessively chasing normality. Our host shares his personal journey, including the move to Barcelona, and how, despite initial hopes for change, the real progress came through acceptance rather than escape. By confronting the notion of 'brokenness' and the misguided pursuit of certainty, we explore the path to true empowerment. Listeners are encouraged to embrace imperfections and focus on what truly matters, shedding the limiting beliefs about normality and instead building a life based on values and personal growth. Join us as we uncover how letting go of the chase for normalcy can transform the OCD recovery process Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.    

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com In this episode of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast, we delve into the power of self-compassion as a tool for managing OCD and anxiety. Host Robert James introduces a guided meditation focused on fostering a compassionate relationship with oneself. Listeners are encouraged to embrace moments of struggle with kindness rather than judgment, to alleviate the burden of difficult emotions such as shame and guilt. Throughout the meditation, Robert guides you in visualizing a calming light, helping to cultivate a gentle self-awareness and a deeper connection with your inner self. Tune in to learn how self-compassion can transform how you navigate your journey through anxiety and reclaim control over your life Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.  

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 501 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we delve into the complexities of differentiating between OCD-related thoughts and typical overthinking. Join us as we explore practical strategies for breaking free from the OCD cycle and developing a healthier relationship with anxiety. Discover how understanding the quest for certainty can help you manage your thoughts and emotions more effectively. Whether you're new to exploring OCD or seeking advanced techniques, this episode offers valuable insights and support for anyone looking to take back control from anxiety-driven behaviors. Don't miss out on this engaging and informative discussion Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.      

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to the 500th episode of the OCD and Anxiety podcast by Robert James Coaching. Join us as we reflect on the journey so far, explore key lessons learned about OCD and anxiety, and discover practical tips for recovery and self-compassion. This milestone episode dives into managing OCD, healing with self-compassion, and embracing positive narratives.  Learn how to tolerate and eventually accept difficult emotions, while using powerful tools like exposure therapy and acceptance commitment therapy to break free from the grip of anxiety. Plus, discover why you are never alone in this journey and how sharing your struggles can lead to a more fulfilling life. Enjoy these empowering insights and subscribe to continue this journey with us Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.    

Book your free discovery call directly, visit: www.robertjamescoaching.com Welcome to episode 499 of the OCD and Anxiety Podcast, where we delve into the complexities of managing OCD and intrusive thoughts. This episode offers an insightful discussion on how to transform the chaos of OCD into a more manageable aspect of your life. Join us as we explore five practical steps designed to help you understand and navigate those intrusive thoughts that disrupt your daily routine. Learn the importance of naming patterns, refocusing on the present moment, and the power of humor and playfulness in handling OCD. Discover how values-based actions can shift your focus from fear to fulfilling goals. Whether you're struggling with OCD or simply seeking to understand it better, this episode provides valuable insights into taking back control from anxiety. Don't miss the chance to enhance your journey towards a more positive relationship with your mind Disclaimer: Robert James Pizey (of Robert James Coaching) is not a medical professional and is also not providing therapy or medical treatment. Robert James Pizey recommends that anyone experiencing anxiety or OCD to seek professional medical help straight away to get a medical opinion and rule out other conditions or illnesses. The comments and opinions as written on this site are simply that and are not to be taken as professional medical opinions. Robert James Pizey provides coaching, education, accountability and peer support around Anxiety through his own personal experiences.