#133 - How to Heal Your Avoidant Attachment Style and Stop Pushing Love Away

Discover The Shadow Secretly Running Your Life: https://quiz.lucassalame.com/Schedule Your 1:1 Session with Lucas: https://www.lucassalame.com/session———————What do your dreams about other people actually mean? If you keep dreaming about a crush, an ex, or someone you know, it's not a sign you should be with them or that they're going to betray you. Every person in your dream is a part of yourself being symbolically represented.In this video I break down why men dream about women (anima projection), why women dream about powerful men (animus projection), and what it means when someone is chasing you or you're running away in your dreams.Your unconscious mind uses these dreams to show you abandoned parts of yourself that need integration. That beautiful woman isn't telling you to leave your wife, she's showing you that you need to connect with your own creative and intuitive side.Stop taking dreams literally and start understanding what your psyche is actually trying to communicate about your path to becoming a complete human being.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Discover The Shadow Secretly Running Your Life: https://quiz.lucassalame.com/Schedule Your 1:1 Session with Lucas: https://www.lucassalame.com/session———————There's a movement happening right now that's destroying young men from the inside out.They call it "looksmaxxing" - and while there's nothing wrong with wanting to look better, what's happening goes way deeper than hitting the gym.Young men are literally smashing their faces with hammers. Injecting peptides. Abusing hormones as teenagers. All because they believe becoming "pretty" will finally give them what they want.But here's what nobody's telling you: the obsession with looking perfect isn't making you more masculine. It's doing the exact opposite. If you're a young man who feels lost, powerless, or like you need to be perfect to be worthy of love and respect - this message is for you.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Discover The Shadow Secretly Running Your Life: https://quiz.lucassalame.com/Schedule Your 1:1 Session with Lucas: https://www.lucassalame.com/session———————I grew up being taught that masculinity was wrong, that men leading was the problem, and I watched how that belief quietly destroyed my marriage and many relationships around me. In this talk, I share what changed when I stopped being nice and agreeable and started embodying grounded masculine leadership that creates safety, polarity, and trust with a woman. I also speak honestly about healing my own trauma so I could stop leaking it into my relationship and show up as a man a woman can truly surrender with.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

What makes James Bond so irresistibly masculine?Why has he become the universal archetype of male attraction, confidence, and power across generations?In this episode, we break down the psychology behind James Bond’s masculinity and reveal the 3 core laws that make him magnetic to women and respected by men.You’ll learn:- Why respect creates attraction far more than being “nice”- The psychological reason emotional groundedness makes a man powerful- How fearlessness and leadership change how women perceive you- Why men who seek validation lose attraction without realizing it- How James Bond embodies these traits naturally and why it worksMost men are taught the wrong playbook when it comes to dating, masculinity, and relationships. This video flips that script and shows you what actually drives female attraction at a psychological level.

Discover The Shadow Secretly Running Your Life: https://quiz.lucassalame.com/Schedule Your 1:1 Session with Lucas: https://www.lucassalame.com/session———————In this episode, I’m joined by Fabiola Zirino for a deeply honest conversation about avoidant attachment, emotional intimacy, and the fear of being truly seen in love. Together, we explore how early conditioning, religious shame, and family dynamics shape our relationship patterns and why so many people long for deep connection while unconsciously pushing it away.This conversation unpacks what it really means to heal avoidant attachment, not by fixing yourself, but by learning to stay present with your humanity. We explore why intimacy requires the courage to be seen in your mess, how self acceptance opens the door to real connection, and why love cannot meet you where you are hiding.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Discover The Shadow Secretly Running Your Life: https://quiz.lucassalame.com/Schedule Your 1:1 Session with Lucas: https://www.lucassalame.com/session———————In this episode, I’m joined by Chelsea Harter, psychic medium and founder of The Practical Pisces, for an honest conversation about modern dating, emotional depth, and what women are truly longing for in relationship.Together, we explore why so many women feel lonely even when they’re not alone, why chemistry and potential aren’t enough to sustain love, and what actually creates safety, attraction, and longevity between two people. We talk about curiosity as the real minimum standard, the difference between being chosen and being met, and why emotional labor without reciprocity leads to quiet resentment.Chelsea shares her personal experience navigating dating as a spiritually sensitive woman, choosing sacred aloneness over settling, trusting intuition, and holding faith in love even after deep heartbreak. We also unpack masculine steadiness, grief as a capacity for love, and the courage it takes to walk away when nothing is changing.If you’ve ever stayed for who someone could become, felt unseen in relationship, or wondered what real alignment actually looks like, this episode will resonate deeply.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Discover The Shadow Secretly Running Your Life: https://quiz.lucassalame.com/Schedule Your 1:1 Session with Lucas: https://www.lucassalame.com/session———————In this episode I sit down with Lacey to explore what happens when the family you come from convinces you that you’re the problem. We follow her journey from an identity shaped by abandonment and survival to the woman she’s consciously becoming.Lacey opens up about growing up without present parents, the memories she buried, and how ceremonies brought the truth back through her body. She shares why speaking feels dangerous after a childhood of punishment, how her voice can both cut and heal, and why the “nuclear family” never felt real to her.We talk about choosing narcissistic partners, using people pleasing to stay safe, and how saying no became her most spiritual act. She breaks down feminine rage, losing everything, and rebuilding herself as a single mother with nothing but faith and boundaries.If you’ve ever felt like the villain in your own family or worked to reclaim your voice after trauma, this episode will stay with you. It’s a conversation about identity, courage, and what happens when a woman stops defending herself and starts living her truth.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Schedule Your 1:1 Session with Lucas: https://www.lucassalame.com/sessionIn this episode, I sit down with Angel Viloria to unpack what it really means to say “today is the first day of my new life.” We trace his journey from Version A, the masked self built from childhood wounds and cultural programming, to Version B, the man he is consciously choosing to become. We go straight into the roots. Angel opens up about early sexual trauma, being shamed instead of guided, and how that moment warped his relationship to masculinity, desire, and worthiness. We talk about why so many men prove their “manhood” through conquest, why cheating is often a symptom of not feeling masculine enough, and how containment of sexual energy can become a portal to real power instead of a prison of repression.If you have ever carried guilt for how you loved in the past, felt confused about your desire, or wondered if you are “man enough,” this episode will hit deep. This is a conversation about shame, truth, responsibility, and what happens when a man finally stops leaking his power and starts living from his heart.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I break down the true nature of addiction, not as a habit to fix but as a symptom of our resistance to feel. From scrolling to overworking, from chasing love to chasing success, we explore how every addiction is simply an attempt to avoid the emotions we are too afraid to face.I share my own journey of learning that freedom is not found in control but in surrender. You will learn why you cannot think your way out of pain, why feeling is the real form of healing, and how to stop abandoning the parts of you that need love the most.This is not about quitting a habit. It is about remembering your wholeness.The moment you stop running from yourself, you start coming home.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this episode, I pull back the curtain on the illusion of “modern spirituality” and reveal how the very practices meant to free us are often what keep us trapped. From manifestation culture to the rise of the spiritual ego, we’ll explore how chasing power, status, and “alignment” has quietly replaced surrender, humility, and love.I share how the Lucifer archetype hides inside the New Age — convincing us that we are the ones manifesting, controlling, and creating — when in truth, that’s the oldest illusion there is.You’ll learn what real spirituality feels like (hint: it’s not control, it’s surrender), how to spot the ego’s clever tricks, and what it actually means to return to God — to become nothing and, in doing so, remember you are everything.———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if anything resonated with you. Thank you for watching!Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com