
What My Cancer Diagnosis Taught Me About Community, Love, and Representation with Amber Coté.
27/07/2026
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54:04
Summary:
This episode dives into a powerful conversation between Alicia and Amber Coté, exploring Amber's journey through breast cancer diagnosis, living authentically in a conservative environment, and how art and community uplift the soul during challenging times. Amber’s story highlights the importance of holistic health, love, and the role of advocacy in creating a more inclusive world.
In this episode:
- Amber shares her experience being diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer at age 25 and navigating treatment with resilience.
- Insights on how trauma and past experiences can influence physical health and healing.
- The importance of holistic care, including sleep, exercise, and mental health during cancer treatment.
- The role of community, love, and representation for LGBTQ+ folks living in conservative environments like Colorado Springs.
- How art, poetry, and storytelling serve as tools for healing and advocacy.
- The power of living intentionally, even amidst uncertainty, and the importance of holding space for others’ stories.
Timestamps:
- 00:00 - Introduction and Amber’s random meeting with Alicia in NYC
- 02:08 - Amber shares her trip to NYC for her partner’s birthday and their vegan journey
- 04:11 - Making authentic connections and shared identity
- 07:26 - Living visibly as a LGBTQ+ couple in Colorado Springs
- 09:03 - Navigating safety and community in conservative spaces
- 11:16 - The journey to diagnosis: signs, symptoms, and the importance of early screenings
- 13:22 - Amber describes her treatment plan: surgery, chemo, and radiation
- 15:36 - How trauma influences health and the importance of holistic healing
- 17:23 - The integration of trauma work and medical treatment
- 20:16 - Decision-making around surgery and body image
- 21:10 - Using body and cancer as metaphors for healing trauma
- 23:24 - Living inside your body and healing past dissociation
- 25:19 - Amber’s current treatment and maintaining an active lifestyle
- 27:50 - The importance of sleep and mental health during treatment
- 30:08 - Reflecting on love, resilience, and meaningful moments during illness
- 35:18 - The power of poetry and storytelling in advocacy and healing
- 40:33 - Honoring artist Andrea Gibson and using art to transcend illness and loss
- 47:10 - Community engagement and how storytelling brings people closer
- 50:41 - The story of Stacey Ann Chin and the impact of living authentically
- 51:21 - Amber’s ongoing advocacy work in civic engagement and community building
- 52:04 - Closing thoughts on compassion, empathy, and hope
Resources & Links:
Connect with Amber Coté:
Subscribe to The Eating Me Podcast on YouTube!!
- https://youtube.com/@aliciachristian9226?si=lndTSV7K9miNuetj
Stay in contact with Alicia!
- Website: https://www.aliciachristian.com/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Divaleesh
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealiciachristian/
- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thealiciachristian?lang=en
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