EP 223: The difference between performative leadership and embodied power with Amber Renée

All Paths Lead to…RESULTS: The Reason You Aren't Making More MoneyYou are posting. You are showing up. You have offers. & you are still not making the money you know you should be making.In this episode Tay breaks down the number one reason healers, coaches, mentors & service providers are not making consistent sales — & it has nothing to do with your content strategy, your audience size, or your prices.You do not have a clear, simple, tangible, one sentence result that you get people. That is it. That is the whole problem.Tay shares how she went from a 6 figure launch to burning her entire business down — team, tech, overhead & all — to rebuild something simple, rooted & built for real impact. She breaks down her All Paths Lead to Rome method & shows you exactly how to find your ONE core result so your entire business model, your offers, your content & your sales conversations finally make sense.Plus Tay does a live Roots Reading on a woman she met on Threads & shows you exactly what this looks like in real time.If you take nothing else from this episode take this. One clear, simple, tangible result. Everything else builds from there.What You'll Learn in This Episode•  Why more content will NOT fix your sales problem — & what actually will•  The #1 reason coaches & healers are not making consistent money right now•  What "one clear tangible result" actually means & how to find yours•  Why vague words like "embodiment," "confidence," & "more time" are killing your sales•  The All Paths Lead to Rome method — how to build your entire business around ONE result•  Why Tay burned down a 6 figure business & what she built instead•  The difference between your skill & your result — & why most people are leading with the wrong one•  A live Roots Reading from Threads — watch Tay name someone's entire business in real time•  Why group offers convert better than 1:1 when your result is clear•  How to stop shape-shifting with clients & start leading from a clear simple processMentioned in This Episode•  BWE Academy® breadwinnerenergy.co/academy•  Free Roots to Revenue Masterclass breadwinnerenergy.co/roots•  Follow Tay on Threads & Instagram — @itstaydaniels_llc•  Ep 145–185 — Business model & why it might be betraying youConnect with TayInstagram & Threads: @itstaydaniels_llcWebsite: breadwinnerenergy.coFree Masterclass: breadwinnerenergy.co/rootsBWE Academy®: breadwinnerenergy.co/academySubscribe & Leave a ReviewIf this episode landed — share it with one woman who needs to hear it. Leave a review on Apple Podcasts. It keeps the fire burning & gets this work into more hands.business coaching for healers, how to make money as a coach, signature offer, scalable offer, group coaching program, roots to revenue, breadwinner energy, business model for coaches, how to find your niche, one core result, all paths lead to rome, business clarity, coaching business strategy, how to sign more clients, lived experience business, Indigenous business coach, Tay NocktonickBreadwinner Energy® Built for the First Breadwinner of Your Bloodline

In this episode, Tay sits down with hypnotherapist Morgan Zack for a raw, unfiltered conversation on subconscious healing, trauma, addiction, and why mindset work alone is not enough for true transformation.This is about what happens when women realize they’ve been trying to think their way out of wounds that were never created in the conscious mind in the first place.Morgan shares her deeply personal story of growing up in chaos, addiction, survival mode, and eventual rock bottom—and how it led her into the world of hypnotherapy and subconscious reprogramming.Morgan is a life coach, a certified NGH Hypnotist, and a SOM mindfulness practitioner. Morgan’s main focus is to help empower her clients from feeling like they are a victim of their own life to feeling empowered, happy, and creating the life of their dreams. Morgan also has a deep, compassionate understanding of addiction, and through her own journey to sobriety feels it’s her calling in life to show others they can reclaim their lives as well.  Morgan struggled with addiction and mental health for 20 years of her life. She sought out the traditional modalities of help; from psychiatrists, psychologists, talk therapists to  NA and AA and yet  never found any way out of feeling depressed, anxious and fully addicted to many substances. After many years of frustration of being put on and off of medications, and talking through her problems and never finding resolve, she turned to a mentor who worked with alternative healing modalities. Through working with this mentor she grew an understanding of the parasympathetic nervous system, breathing techniques, and meditation. By learning these techniques Morgan was able to naturally calm herself down enough. She eventually was able to feel her built up emotions safely which then allowed her to release many years of built up feelings and trauma.  Morgan was able to become sober and eventually come off of all medications and fully be herself again. She later landed into using hypnosis to help heal any left over limiting beliefs she had about gaining the life she wanted; and she has never looked back since. Together, Tay and Morgan break down why so many high-achieving women feel stuck even after doing all the therapy, coaching, journaling, and mindset work… and what actually changes the game at the root level.Why most healing work fails when it only targets the conscious mindThe difference between conscious vs subconscious healing (and why it matters for your results)How trauma lives in the body not logic, mindset, or affirmationsWhy affirmations can make you feel worse if your core beliefs are still unhealedThe role of addiction, survival, and nervous system wiring in business + relationshipsHow childhood programming shapes your money, identity, and leadership todayWhat hypnotherapy actually does in the subconscious mindWhy so many women are building businesses from survival instead of embodimentThe shift from performative action → embodied leadershipHow deep subconscious work changes everything: body, business, relationships, and self-worthhttps://www.instagram.com/miss.morganzack/Connect with Morgan on Tiktokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@miss.morganzackCurious about 1:1 work? Book a consultation herehttps://morganzackcoaching.thrivecart.com/30-min-hypnosis-consultation-call/Want to learn more about Morgan, check out her website!https://www.morganzack.com/Looking to start your transformation journey but are not sure about 1:1 work yet? https://www.morganzack.com/becoming-youFollow Tay on IGhttps://www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc/

In this Episode Tay Nocktonick interviews Amber Renee & they talk about Embodied Leadership vs Performative Power & how women have been conditioned to be performative instead of Powerful. Amber Renée is Headmistress of the House of Eros Money Power, mentor to powerful women who lead provocative movements, and keeper of the keys to a taboo world where eros and leadership are one.For over 11 years, Amber has devoted her life and work to the art of eroticism, power, money, leadership, and guiding women into the deepest layers of their power, desire, and influence.She has mentored hundreds of visionary women leaders, runs a global business, and hosts a podcast, Eros Money Power, with over 129,000 downloads worldwide—where erotic power, leadership, and revolutions are seduced into reality.Lead From Your Erotic Edge 8-part audio course for women leaders ready to shape the world, influence culture, and lead a revolutionary movement from your most provocative edge—your erotic power.https://missamberrenee.com/edge/Website: https://missamberrenee.com/Instagram:   / theamberrenee  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/16E3eS...Eros Money Power Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Follow Tay on IG: www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc embodied leadershipperformative powerfeminine leadershipwomen in leadershipembodied feminine powerleadership for womenfeminine embodimenterotic leadershipwomen entrepreneursnervous system regulationfemale empowermentwomen in businessdark feminine energywomen’s leadership podcastpowerful womenself leadershipleadership mindsetpersonal powerauthentic leadershipwomen’s empowerment podcastembodied leadership vs performative powerhow women are conditioned to performfeminine leadership for women entrepreneurshow to stop people pleasing in businessperformative femininity in womenhow to become a powerful woman leadernervous system regulation for female leadersembodied feminine power in businesserotic power and leadershipauthentic feminine leadership podcastleadership and desire for womendark feminine leadershipfemale leadership and self worthwomen healing good girl conditioninghow to lead without performingfemale entrepreneur mindset podcast

PAID TO BE A CYCLE BREAKER - Get Your Ticket Here https://www.skool.com/breadwinner-energy-club-7485 The coaching industry is a multi-billion dollar machine and it was not built for you.The frameworks are white. The pricing psychology is white. The launch models are white. And the “manifesting”? Stripped from traditions that white women repackaged and sold back to you without credit, context, or medicine.In this episode of the Breadwinner Energy® Podcast, I’m breaking down what it actually looks like to decolonize your business not as a concept, but as a daily practice. I’m naming the five colonial systems that have been passed down through your family line and showing up in your business right now: silence and obedience, hustle culture, disconnection from intuition, over-giving, and limited access to wealth and power.Then I’m giving you five things you can decolonize in your business today your offer structure, your pricing, your sales process, your content, and your definition of success.If you’re a woman of color building a healing based business and something has always felt off about the strategies you’ve been taught — it’s because they were never made for someone like you. This episode is your permission slip to burn the map and build the road.This episode covers:What decolonization actually means (and what it doesn’t)The 5 colonial systems still running your life and businessHow patriarchal and colonial frameworks show up in pricing, offers, sales, and contentWhy hustle culture is a colonial inheritance, not a work ethicHow to stop over-delivering, over-explaining, and doing emotional labor for clientsWhy reclaimed wealth is more than money — it’s time, health, peace, and legacyHow to build from YOUR roots instead of someone else’s template1. Silence and ObedienceColonial systems rewarded women especially women of color for being quiet, compliant, and self-sacrificing. In business, this shows up as diluting your messaging, softening your truth, and making yourself palatable for audiences that were never yours to serve.2. Hustle CultureHustle, struggle, and sacrifice have been glorified for generations. it’s a colonial inheritance. Decolonizing your business means allowing yourself to rest, to build wealth in a way that feels good, and to stop treating burnout as proof that you’re doing it right.3. Disconnection from Intuition and Cultural RootsSystems like organized religion and Western education were designed to make women distrust their own inner knowing. Your intuition, your cultural wisdom, your ancestral practices — these are not “woo.” They are your competitive advantage and the foundation of your medicine.4. Over-GivingIf you’re over-delivering, over-explaining, and doing emotional labor for your clients — that’s not leadership. That’s codependency. Decolonizing your business means teaching your clients to be empowered, not dependent. It means charging for your energy, not just your time.5. Limited Access to Wealth and PowerWomen of color have been historically excluded from wealth, ownership, and leadership. Decolonizing your business means rewriting your relationship with money, power, and leadership — and building wealth from a place of truth rather than trauma.Then I give you 5 things to decolonize right now: your offer structure, your pricing model, your sales process, your content strategy, and your definition of success.🔥 Join the Fire Pit: https://www.skool.com/breadwinner-energy-club-7485 🔥 Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc/ TAGS / CATEGORIESdecolonize business, decolonizing coaching industry, women of color entrepreneur, indigenous business, colonial frameworks, cycle breaker, hustle culture, patriarchal systems, reclaim wealth, healing based business, breadwinner energy

What if the thing that almost destroyed your family is the exact thing you’re supposed to get paid for?Paid to Be a Cycle Breaker: GET YOUR TICKET https://www.skool.com/breadwinner-energy-club-7485Not in a cute inspirational quote way. In a this-is-my-intellectual-property-and-it-funds-my-children’s-future way.In this episode of the Breadwinner Energy® Podcast, I’m breaking down what it actually means to be paid to be a cycle breaker and how your inherited abuse, trauma, and poverty become the foundation of a business that reclaims wealth.I’m teaching you the 3-part framework for turning your ashes into intellectual property: how to identify your inherited pattern, how to turn your survival into a story arc that sells, and how to stop giving away the most valuable asset your business will ever have.If you’re a woman of color, an indigenous woman, a healer, or a practitioner who came from something hard and you know your story is worth more than a caption this is the episode that changes how you see your entire business model.1. Identify Your Inherited PatternEvery cycle breaker carries an inherited pattern — abuse, poverty, addiction, silence, abandonment. This isn’t your shame. It’s your raw material. I walk you through how to name the generational pattern you were born to disrupt and why that pattern is the origin of your entire methodology.2. Turn Your Survival Into a Story ArcYour story has three parts: the wound (what was done to you), the wilderness (how you survived it), and the reclamation (what you built from the ashes). This arc isn’t content. It’s the backbone of your brand. It goes in your sales page, your podcast, your offer name, your framework — everywhere. I teach you how to map yours.3. Claim Your Story as Intellectual PropertyYour story is not a freebie. It’s not a lead magnet. It’s intellectual property. It’s a methodology. It’s something people should pay to learn from because nobody else survived exactly what you survived and turned it into exactly what you’re turning it into. The moment you make the switch from “sharing” to “transferring mastery,” your pricing, your positioning, and your confidence change permanently.If this episode hit you in the chest, this is your invitation to come sit at the fire.Paid to Be a Cycle Breaker is a 3-day live experience happening inside the Fire Pit April 27–29, 2026. Over three days, we take your inherited abuse, trauma, and poverty and turn it into the thing that funds your family. Your story becomes your mastery. Your mastery becomes intellectual property. Your IP becomes wealth.JOIN THE FIRE PIT 🔥 Join the Fire Pit: https://www.skool.com/breadwinner-energy-club-7485 🔥 Follow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc/ Paid to Be a Cycle Breaker: How to Turn Inherited Trauma Into Intellectual Property and Reclaim Generational WealthPrimary keywords to include in title tags, meta descriptions, and alt textcycle breaker, paid to be a cycle breaker, generational trauma to wealthinherited trauma business, turn trauma into intellectual propertyreclaim generational wealth, women of color entrepreneurshipindigenous business owner, healing based business modelstory as intellectual property, breadwinner energy podcasttrauma to business model, monetize your story, cycle breaker entrepreneurTAGS / CATEGORIESgenerational trauma, cycle breaker, intellectual property, women of color business, indigenous entrepreneur, healing based business, reclaim wealth, trauma to wealth, story monetization, breadwinner energy

GET your Ticket for Unleashedhttps://breadwinnerenergy.co/unleashedyou've been chasing the next client. the next dollar. the next launch. the next thing that's finally going to make you feel alive.and it never does.in this episode Tay breaks down the real strategy that kept her in business for 10 years — through divorces, moves, no family help, no ads, and weeks off social media — and it has nothing to do with posting every day.it's collaboration. digital storytelling. and finally choosing to live.this is the episode that changes how you see your entire business.In This Episode:why chasing money almost cost Tay everything — the six figure launches, the new cars, the trips, and still crying on the bathroom floorwhy more money created more fear not more freedomthe moment she decided she didn't care if she lost it all as long as she never felt that way againhow collaboration built her free community to 470+ women and her email list without a single adthe six figure launch that came entirely from collaborations not social mediathe exact types of collaborations that work — podcasts, guest coaching, summits, affiliates, bundles, stages — and which ones don'twhy digital storytelling and mastery are the two things that will dominate online business over the next decadehow your lived experience IS your IP and your story IS your marketingwhy you cannot out-collaborate a survival self — and what has to happen firsthow BWE Academy and Licensing work together to build a business that runs while you livewhy collaboration will surpass social media and ads as the number one business growth strategyWhat You'll Walk Away With:a completely different relationship with social media — from have to to nice to haveclarity on why your income goals keep moving and never feel like enoughthe actual framework Tay has used for 10 years to grow without being a slave to any platformwhy the path of least resistance IS the strategyhow to get paid to be exactly who you areResources Mentioned:UNLEASHED — 3 Day Live Virtual Business Retreat March 23-25 | $11 breadwinnerenergy.co/unleashedBWE Academy® — Unleashed From Your Survival Self breadwinnerenergy.co/academyBWE® Licensing & Leadership — Round 1 Closes March 28 breadwinnerenergy.co/licensingKeywords: how to grow a business without social media, collaboration strategy for online business, digital storytelling for entrepreneurs, women entrepreneur burnout, survival mode business owner, how to make money without posting every day, podcast guesting strategy, guest coaching collaborations, female entrepreneur freedom, breadwinner energy, Tay Nocktonick, how to build a business from your story, lived experience as IP, licensing program for healers, empathic entrepreneur business model, scaling without social media, collaboration over social media, recurring revenue women entrepreneurs, unleashed from survival self, freedom based business model, healer business strategy, how to stop chasing moneyConnect With Tay:Instagram: @itstaydaniels_llc Institution: @breadwinnerenergy.co Website: breadwinnerenergy.co Podcast: The Breadwinner Energy® Podcast Apple Podcasts and Spotify

BECOME UNLEASHED 3 Day LIVE Biz Retreathttps://breadwinnerenergy.thrivecart.com/retreat/ you built the business. you made the money. and you're still not free.that's not a strategy problem. that's a survival self problem.in this episode Tay breaks down exactly what it looks like to be unleashed from your survival identity — and why that has to happen BEFORE you can ever truly be unleashed from your business.this is not theory. this is Tay's real life. the before and the after. the smash burgers on the grill and the homemade pasta sauce and the ice cream outings and the half day outside with her phone left at home. and the version of her that worked 24/7, skipped meals, felt guilty every second she wasn't producing, and made more money than ever while being completely miserable.if you are a woman entrepreneur who is tired of being chained to your clients, your content, your income, and your phone — this episode is for you.In This Episode:what survival mode actually looks like in your real daily life — not just in your business but in how you eat, parent, show up, and restwhy making more money will never unleash you from survival modewhat being truly unleashed looks like on a random Tuesday afternoonthe codependent client cycle and how your survival identity creates itwhy your nervous system physically will not let you rest until the identity shiftsthe two phases of getting unleashed — from your survival self first, then from your businesshow Tay went from chronic fight or flight, 165lbs, depressed, and booked out to planting plants and grilling burgers while her kids play outsideResources Mentioned:UNLEASHED — 3 Day Live Virtual Business Retreat with Tay March 23-25 | $11 breadwinnerenergy.co/unleashedBWE Academy® — Unleashed From Your Survival Self breadwinnerenergy.co/academyBWE® Licensing & Leadership — Unleashed From Your Business breadwinnerenergy.co/licensingThe Fire Pit — Free Community for Women of the Underworld breadwinnerenergy.co/firepitKeywords: women entrepreneur burnout, survival mode business owner, how to stop being codependent with clients, unleashed from business, female entrepreneur freedom, work life balance women in business, healing trauma and business, empathic entrepreneur, highly sensitive woman business, how to build a business without burnout, recurring revenue women entrepreneurs, breadwinner energy, Tay Nocktonick, unleashed from survival self, nervous system and business, identity work for entrepreneurs, women of the underworld, healer business owner, scaling without burnout, freedom based business modelConnect With Tay:Instagram: @itstaydaniels_llc Institution: @breadwinnerenergy.co Threads: @itstaydaniels_llc Website: breadwinnerenergy.co Podcast: The Breadwinner Energy® Podcast available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify

Your business feels excruciating because you were built in the underworld.But your business was never built to hold you there.If you're a healer, creative, curse breaker, storyteller, or impact-driven woman who is undeniable at what you do and absolutely exhausted by the business side of it this episode is for you.You didn't fail at business. Business was never built for you.In this episode I'm talking about why the traditional bro-coded business model was never designed for women like us. Women who are sensitive, empathic, intuitive. Women who go into the underworld not because something is wrong with them but because that's where their best work gets excavated.I'm also sharing what I burned down in 2024, why I did it, and what I built from the ashes that finally matches how I actually work, live, and move through the world.In this episode:Why feast and famine cycles aren't a discipline problem — they're a model problemWhat it means to build a business that works WHILE you're in the underworldWhy I fired my entire team, killed every offer, and rebuilt from scratchThe business model built specifically for the woman who moves by feeling not by spreadsheetWhat UNLEASHED is and why it's $11UNLEASHED — 3 Day Live Business Retreat March 23, 24 & 25 $11 breadwinnerenergy.co/unleashed Day 1: Revenue Systems stop the feast and famine Day 2: Visibility Systems stop gambling on social media Day 3: Momentum Systems stop being in the weeds with every clientThree days. My brain. Your business. $11.Ready to go deeper after UNLEASHED?Breadwinner Energy® Licensing & Leadership Home Base for Women of the Underworld — opens March 25th.The institution. The room. The infrastructure. You never build alone again. breadwinnerenergy.co/licenseConnect with Tay: Instagram: @itstaydaniels_llc

You are undeniably gifted at what you do.Your clients get life-changing results. When women work with you something shifts that they have never experienced anywhere else.But here is the part nobody talks about: being gifted does not automatically make you visible, well-paid, or sustainably in business.And most soul-led women, healers, intuitives, and spiritual business owners are not struggling because their work is not good enough. They are struggling because they are missing the business infrastructure to hold their gifts.In this episode Tay breaks down the licensing model she built specifically for the woman who wants to be paid really well, work with incredible women, and be part of something bigger than herself without having to build a household name brand, deal with trademarks, or figure out the business side alone.WHAT YOU WILL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE• Why soul-led women, healers, and intuitives are the most gifted and often the least resourced women in business• The difference between wanting to build an empire and wanting to be paid really well for what you do (and why both are valid)• Why feast and famine cycles have nothing to do with your mindset and everything to do with your revenue structure• What it actually means to borrow a brand instead of building one from scratch• The three systems inside BWE Licensing: Revenue, Visibility, and Collaboration• How the public directory generates inbound leads without you doing anything in that moment• What JV partnership matchmaking looks like when it is based on actual business synergy not just vibes• Why the women who make money faster are not more talented but more backed• What Founding Mother status means and why the first round is the only round• How to know if you are ready for Licensing or need Academy firstLINKS MENTIONEDApply for BWE® Licensing: https://breadwinnerenergy.co/licenseInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc/BWE Academy® (not ready for Licensing yet?): breadwinnerenergy.co/academySEO KEYWORDS • how to get paid for your gifts• spiritual business owner tips• soul led women in business• business licensing for coaches• how to make money as a healer• women in business podcast• feast and famine cycle solution• business infrastructure for coaches• breadwinner energy podcast• licensing intellectual property• how to build without personal branding• collective revenue for women• JV partnerships for coaches• visibility for spiritual entrepreneurs• mission driven women in business• generational wealth for women

In this episode, Tay breaks down the Breadwinner Energy® Licensing model and reveals why launching alone is costing you revenue, visibility, and authority. After experiencing $0 launches, six-figure launches, and everything in between over 10+ years in business, Tay discovered the real problem: isolation.JOIN THE WAITLIST & APPLY TODAY https://itstaydaniels.myflodesk.com/headquarters Learn why successful entrepreneurs stick to core signature offers (not constantly pivoting), how licensing your brand eliminates the feast-famine cycle, and the exact systems (JV matchmaking, shared launch calendars, visibility infrastructure, collaboration rooms) that multiply revenue while working with other women.This episode covers:Why launches fail (and it's not what you think)The $0 launch phenomenon (it happens to everyone)Core signature offers vs. pivot trapsWhat licensing actually IS (not coaching, not mastermind, not course)The Founding Mother program (founding pricing + lifetime status)The 5-day Activation Intensive (Institution Activation Week)The 4 systems that change everything (Revenue, Visibility, Collaboration, Authority)Why collective power multiplies individual revenueHow to never launch alone againFOLLOW TAY ON IG: https://www.instagram.com/itstaydaniels_llc/ HQ IG: https://www.instagram.com/breadwinnerenergy.co/ Perfect for: Service providers, coaches, course creators, female entrepreneurs, women business owners, solopreneurs ready to scale, licensing seekers, spiritual entrepreneurs, heard led business owners ,women building institutional brandsPrimary Keywords:Licensing business modelWomen entrepreneursLaunch strategiesRevenue multiplicationBusiness collaborationBreadwinner EnergyFemale business ownersScaling without hiringLicensed leaderJV partnershipsAffiliate marketingBusiness visibilityLaunch calendarCore signature offersAuthority buildingCollective wealthWomen in business communitySolo entrepreneur challengesBusiness growth strategiesInstitutional frameworkHow to license a business modelWhy launches fail and how to fix themBest collaboration strategies for women entrepreneursHow to build multiple revenue streamsScaling a business without burning outFemale founder community supportCreating core signature offersBusiness directory for womenAuthority building for coachesPreventing feast-famine cycle in business