#282: Why Being A "Nice Guy" Makes Her The MAN (No One Will Tell You This)

Most men believe being "nice" makes them a good partner. But over time, many relationships lose attraction, polarity, and respect — not because women change, but because leadership quietly disappears. In this episode, I break down how being a "nice guy" often turns into conflict-avoidance, approval-seeking, and over-accommodating behavior, and how that creates a leadership vacuum inside a relationship. When a man doesn't hold direction, emotional stability, and clear boundaries, someone else has to. That's when women step into roles they never wanted: decision-maker, planner, emotional regulator. In this episode, you'll learn: What "nice guy" behavior actually is (and what it isn't) Why avoiding leadership pushes women into masculine roles How polarity naturally collapses when direction is missing The difference between kindness and masculine leadership What restores attraction and respect in long-term relationships If you're a good-hearted man who wants to lead your relationship with clarity and presence — or a woman who wants to understand why polarity disappears — this episode will bring clarity. Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy In Relationships (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]

A soft woman doesn't control by force.   She controls through presence, polarity, and emotional intelligence. Most women are taught to lead, chase, explain, or manage men, and then wonder why they feel exhausted, resentful, or unfulfilled.   In this video, I break down: • Why softness is actually **power**, not weakness • How feminine energy naturally inspires masculine devotion • The subtle behaviors that make a man *want* to show up • Why "trying harder" always backfires in relationships   Few women will understand this — because it requires unlearning everything modern dating taught you.   FREE QUIZ: Are You Masculine or Feminine in Your Relationship?   Discover the energy you're actually leading with, and how it's affecting your love life.   👉 Take the quiz here: https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   (This alone has been a wake-up call for thousands of people.)    Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Daily insights on feminine energy, relationships, and emotional mastery.   Like & subscribe if you're ready to shift how you show up in your relationships

Most men think turning a woman on starts with physical attraction...but that's not where true desire begins. If she keeps saying "no," it's not rejection, it's a signal. In this video, you'll learn The STEPUP Method. The real framework to unlock a woman's sexual desire on a deeper level. The STEPUP Method: Safety — Create an environment where her nervous system can relax. Trust — Build consistency through your actions, not just your words. Embodied Leadership — Lead from grounded confidence, not ego. Presence — Be fully there. She feels it when your attention is real. Unwavering Emotions — Hold steady even when she tests you. Providership — Offer direction, stability, and purpose she can lean into. Once you understand this, she will never say "no" again.   Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Mini Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Mini Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]

Keeping intimacy alive in marriage is not always easy, especially when you are raising kids and running a business together. Most couples drift into survival mode where passion fades, connection weakens, and the relationship starts to feel more like a partnership than a romance. In this video my wife Melissa and I share the raw truth about what it actually takes to keep desire, playfulness, and emotional closeness alive in the middle of real life responsibilities. We talk about the masculine and feminine dynamics that make a marriage thrive, how we create space for intimacy even with kids and work pulling at our attention, and the practices that have kept us deeply connected. Whether you are married with kids, building a business, or just preparing for the future, this conversation will show you how to strengthen your bond, avoid the roommate phase, and keep the fire burning for years to come. To join our upcoming Marriage Revival Workshop https://marriagerevivalworkshop.com/   To follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard https://www.instagram.com/_melissawoodard/

Want to unlock deep, lasting sexual attraction with a woman? Most men rely on surface-level tactics, nice dates, flashy looks, or clever lines, but those only get you so far. If you want her to feel that primal pull toward you, you need to speak to her nervous system. In this video, I'm breaking down 5 powerful strategies that bypass her logic and activate her desire on a soul-deep level. Whether you're dating, in a long-term relationship, or married—this will shift how she sees you… and how she responds to you behind closed doors. From reclaiming your masculine edge to leading with emotional presence, these aren't fluffy tips. These are time-tested dynamics that make her crave you and never want to lose you. If you've ever felt her pull away, shut down, or go cold, this video will show you exactly how to flip the script and reignite the passion. Listen now and learn what 95% of men miss when it comes to attraction that actually lasts. Free Training for Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/free-class/ Free Quiz – Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/ Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/ Inspire His Masculine – Mini Course for Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/ Masculine Leadership – Mini Course for Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/ 📱 Connect with Jake: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard The Awake With Jake Podcast: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-awake-with-jake-show/id1390684172 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6IihTAjm9LKOi2UOcLrhbz?si=4ba1d55d7fb84b17 Email: [email protected]

Have you ever wondered what truly defines a healthy masculine man? In this episode you will explore the 10 essential traits that reveal a man of integrity and purpose. You will learn how qualities like self-control, strong leadership, clear communication, and emotional intelligence build the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. By understanding these traits, you gain insights into how accountability, self care, and respect not only enhance his life but also create a nurturing environment for both partners. When you grasp the blueprint of modern masculinity you gain the power to recognize a man who is confident, compassionate, and purpose driven. This episode will show you how a man who lives with unwavering integrity and empathy naturally inspires trust, support, and commitment. Discover how these qualities can elevate your relationship and empower you to foster mutual growth, admiration, and lasting connection.   Irresistibly Feminine - Step Into Your Seductive Energy And Watch Him CRAVE You (March 1sr&2nd) https://www.jakewoodard.com/irresistible/   Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Mini Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Mini Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]

Most women do not realize the power they hold in shaping a man's success. The right woman does not push, control, or demand. She inspires, supports, and brings out his highest potential. In this episode, I am revealing the secret behind how a woman's feminine energy, trust, and belief in her man can fuel his ambition and make him rise in ways he never could on his own. When a man feels deeply admired and respected, he will move mountains for the woman who stands beside him. Masculine energy thrives on purpose, challenge, and the desire to provide. A woman who understands this does not have to beg for effort or chase commitment. She naturally inspires devotion, leadership, and generosity. If you want to understand how to bring out the best in a man and become the woman he cannot help but chase, listen to this until the end. This is the feminine advantage no one is teaching women.   Irresistibly Feminine - Step Into Your Seductive Energy And Watch Him CRAVE You https://www.jakewoodard.com/irresistible/   Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Mini Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Mini Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]

Ever wonder why some women effortlessly capture a man's attention without chasing, forcing, or trying too hard? It is NOT about looks and it is definitely not about playing games. It is about your energy, your presence, and the secrets of feminine magnetism. In this episode, I am breaking down six powerful feminine secrets that make men INSTANTLY notice you and keep thinking about you long after you have left the room. These are not surface-level tricks. There is actual psychology and science behind why some women naturally attract high-quality men and how YOU can tap into it. FREE MASTERCLASS ON FEB 5TH, 2025 - 5 SECRETS TO BECOME IRRESISTIBLY FEMININE https://www.jakewoodard.com/masterclass/   Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Mini Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Mini Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]

Are you frustrated with feeling like you have to push, remind, or take the lead just to get a man to step up? Many women unknowingly operate in their masculine energy, which can cause a man to pull away instead of rise into his leadership. If you want a man to pursue, provide, and protect, the key is not to pressure him, it is to shift into your feminine energy in a way that naturally awakens his masculine instincts. When you embody your softness, receptivity, and radiant presence, you create the space for him to lead, commit, and cherish you without force or frustration.   FREE MASTERCLASS ON FEB 5TH, 2025 - 5 SECRETS TO BECOME IRRESISTIBLY FEMININE https://www.jakewoodard.com/masterclass/   Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Mini Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Mini Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]  

Are you tired of guessing where you stand with the men you date? In this video, we uncover the 4 signs that a masculine man TRULY loves and respects you. Trust me, these aren't your average "he likes you" tips. We're diving deep into what it means to attract and keep a grounded, masculine man who values your femininity and cherishes the unique energy you bring to the relationship. From clear communication to protecting your softness, these insights will challenge the modern dating narrative and help you spot a high-value man who's ready to show up for you.   FREE MASTERCLASS ON FEB 5TH, 2025 - 5 SECRETS TO BECOME IRRESISTIBLY FEMININE https://www.jakewoodard.com/masterclass/   Free Quiz - Discover Your Core Energy (Masculine Or Feminine?) https://www.jakewoodard.com/quiz/   Healing Your Masculine & Feminine Energies Course https://www.jakewoodard.com/course/   Inspire His Masculine Mini Course For Women https://www.jakewoodard.com/inspire/   Masculine Leadership Mini Course Course For Men https://www.jakewoodard.com/leadership/   My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jakewoodard   Email Me: [email protected]