S2E7: Let's talk about the do's and don'ts of first dates

As most people settle into the new year, Ryan and Kayla wanted to help people with their goals of getting out into the dating world. This episode is part 2 of a 4 part series talking about different aspects of dating that you can be aware of: spiritual, physical, emotional, and social. Ryan, Kayla, and their guest, Chase discuss improving socially and being mindful of the people around you and how you interact with them. In the last half of this episode, Chase talks about 4 great dates that he has been on with his girlfriend so that you have some new ideas to add to your list of dates to pull from. His date ideas range from first dates to dates to go on after having dated someone for many months.  Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

At the start of a new year, most of you are going to be making goals about your social/dating life. Ryan and Kayla wanted to review a couple of dating principles that can help you in your dating pursuits. This episode is part 1 of 4 episodes that will cover spiritually, socially, mentally and emotionally being ready to date. Today's episode covers preparing yourself spiritually to be the best dateable you. Kayla also talks about 5 of her favorite date ideas that you can use if you are trying to find new ideas.  Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

Today's episode dives into the things that make first dates stressful. Ryan and Kayla invite Rebecca (host of Remember Your Story Podcast) and Issac to talk about the things you should or shouldn't do for a first date. All four of these individuals come together to talk about the stressors of a first date; money, time, the "post-date-text", the activity of the date, and the question: is this actually a date? Kayla, Issac, and Rebecca talk about some of their first date experiences, some positive and some awkward. You are sure to laugh during this episode! Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

One of the biggest things that Ryan is told about dating is that people don't feel like they are mature enough or ready enough to get married. Ryan and Kayla break down different levels of maturity. They talk about self-mastery over your emotions, passions, and appetites. There is another level of maturity which is having mastery over your physical attractiveness which can be how you move your body, get enough sleep, and what you fuel your body with. The last sign of maturity is progression, having goals, and being motivated. Maturing in these areas of life leads to being more ready to take your dating relationships a little more seriously. Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

The last episode is about becoming less socially awkward with the help of two guiding principles, thinking and observing. The remaining 3 principles of becoming socially attractive are meekness, asking, and seeking the spirit. Kayla, Ryan, and Josh talk about being humble enough to understand the people around you before you seek to be understood. Sometimes it takes asking a trusted friend or loved one to help you see where you need improvement. Through the guidance of the Spirit, you'll better know how to navigate social awareness. The hope is that you walk away from this episode better able to socialize with people you interact with every day.  Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

We've all met someone who doesn't catch on to social cues as quickly as most... honestly most of us have been there at one time or another. The last time Ryan and Kayla were together they talked about spiritual attractiveness and intentional practices we can incorporate into our lives to come closer to Christ. The next focus in the realm of attractiveness is being social. Ryan and Kayla have invited a dear friend by the name of Kenzie to dissect some of the first things it takes to become more social. This topic is split into two episodes so that they could dive into each of the 5 topics in depth. Thinking and observing lay the groundwork for understanding social settings. Tune in next time to catch the remaining 3 pieces of advice. Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

Last episode talked about different areas of your life that you can enhance to become a more attractive individual. In this week's episode, Ryan, Kayla, and Taylor talk in-depth about spiritual attractiveness. If you are motivated to be a more spiritual individual because of the person you are dating, that motivation can slowly fade. If your motivation to be more spiritual and connected with God comes from a love for Heavenly Father and Christ, then your testimony is more likely to be built on a foundation that can not fall. This episode gives about some ideas and methods that you can try to grow closer to God and the importance of intentional worship.  Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

As you transition to a more enjoyable dating experience, the next step is going on more dates. In this week's episode, Ryan, Kayla, and Sarah talk about the two things that get you on more dates: proximity and attractiveness. Get yourself to locations where you can be social. Go to the institute building, your school, the library, the gym, or the skating rink where you can meet individuals who are like-minded. The idea is that you get yourself to where like-minded individuals will be so you can interact with them. The next step is to enhance your attractiveness, the things that draw people to you. We dive into the importance of spiritual, social, emotional, and physical attractiveness. In the next couple of episodes following this one, we will explore what actions one can take to actually enhance those desired attractive qualities. Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

That’s right folks, we're back at it with another season! Season 2 is all about diving into the difficult topics to talk about in dating. In this week's episode, we talk about what makes dating unenjoyable. Most people we talked to said that their negative feelings towards dating can mostly be boiled down to rejection, cultural pressure, and expectations. Ryan, Kayla, and Rachel talk about turning the unenjoyable aspects of dating into points of growth and opportunities to love your dating experience. Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974 Music: Only The Brave Run Wild by Sound Like Sander

If you are looking for the short but sweet version of the Art of Dating Podcast, this is the episode you should listen to. In this episode, Ryan, Kayla and guest Kaylx talk about: dating in the plan of salvation, compatibility, a temple marriage, and being in love. This episode is a recap of all the essential things that you need to know as you start dating intentionally. Have questions? Contact us at [email protected] Facebook Page:  //www.facebook.com/groups/2640119786286974