Nozibele Qamngana-Mayaba's journey and the unfiltered power of Don't Hold Back

South Africa’s prisons, built for 103,000 inmates, now hold nearly 157,000, sparking urgent debate on whether to expand facilities or rethink sentencing. On East Coast Radio, Stacey Norman argued for more prisons to protect communities, while J Sbu promoted rehabilitation and alternative sentencing, citing Norway’s lower reoffending rate. Listeners shared diverse views: delays in trials, taxpayer burdens, and the need for prevention through education and jobs. Some proposed radical measures like the death penalty or self-sufficient prisons. The discussion highlighted that overcrowding stems from systemic flaws and requires a multifaceted approach combining justice reform, prevention, and rehabilitation.

When it comes to neighbuorly drama, reality TV has nothing on the stories shared with Stacey and J Sbu. The duo opened the lines to listeners, inviting them to share the most bizarre, hilarious and downright jaw-dropping tales from their neighbourhoods. The result? A whirlwind of anecdotes that prove truth is often stranger than fiction. The conversation kicked off with an email from Tammy, who described her neighbour as the self-appointed “chief lawn inspector.” Every Saturday at the crack of dawn, Tammy’s neighbor would fire up his lawnmower, ensuring the entire street was awake and that no blade of grass dared outgrow his own. If anyone’s lawn looked even slightly unkempt, he’d be at their gate, ready to remind them of the suburb’s standards. The stories only got wilder from there. Pam called in to recount the time her neighbour decided to crash a party by stripping naked in her living room. As if that wasn’t enough, he later showed up at another gathering with nothing but a bow. Pam’s tales had everyone in stitches and even Stacey and J Sbu couldn’t help but marvel at the audacity of some neighbours. J Sbu himself confessed to being the source of a neighbour’s complaint, after a night of raucous laughter and mysterious “sheep noises” that kept the whole block awake.

Mark shared a heartfelt dilemma: after marrying his wife and moving into her home, he found the walls still adorned with family photos featuring her ex-husband and their children. Mark wonders if it’s fair to ask his wife to remove these reminders of her past, or if he’s being unreasonable. Stacey Norman and J Sbu opened the lines to listeners, sparking an interesting debate. Listeners express mixed feelings. Some argue that Mark’s discomfort is valid and that the photos should be taken down, especially in shared spaces, suggesting a compromise of keeping them in the children’s rooms. Others emphasise the importance of respecting the family’s history, noting that erasing the past could be hurtful, particularly for the kids.

Stacey and J Sbu asked the kids of KZN to become teachers by sharing a new word they’ve learned this year and explaining its meaning in their own words. Nine-year-old James impresses everyone with “hippopotomonstrosesquipedaliophobia” (the fear of long words) while Nicholas shares the word “discombobulated,” meaning confused. Other young callers chime in with their own discoveries that we could not get over. If you missed it live, listen in!

In a world where vulnerability is often met with judgment, Nozibele Qamngana-Mayaba stands as a beacon of courage and authenticity. As the host of the Don’t Hold Back podcast, Nozibele has transformed her personal journey into a platform that not only challenges stigma but also amplifies voices that are too often silenced. Her story is one of resilience, empowerment and a relentless commitment to honesty.

Email tone is a subtle yet powerful aspect of digital communication. As Stacey and J Sbu discussed, the way a message is phrased can completely change its meaning and the recipient’s reaction. Stacey noted, “You can say the same thing in two different ways and get two very different responses.” J Sbu agreed, adding that misunderstandings often arise not from the content of an email, but from how it is delivered. Listeners shared their own experiences, highlighting the importance of clarity and intent.

Ever wondered what would happen if the days of the week were people and you had to pick one to date? Well, Stacey, J Sbu, and their listeners did just that, and the results are as wild as a Friday night out! Let’s start with Monday. Monday’s the overachiever in pressed chinos, up at dawn for a run, and already calling the tax man. Listener Mikayla is “married” to Monday, saying, “Everyone says Mondays are blue, but Mondays are more of a reality check. I don’t always want it, but I need it!” Talk about commitment to productivity! Tuesday is the reliable, steady type. Not flashy, but always there when you need them. Listener Michelle started with Friday but quickly settled down with Tuesday, declaring, “I am married to the amazing Tuesday man under the sun!” Sometimes you just need stability after a wild fling. Wednesday? Oh, Wednesday is the cheeky midweek pick-me-up. Spontaneous, unpredictable, and always keeping things interesting. Mario’s all about that “hump day” energy, and another listener says, “Wednesday’s like, it’s midweek. It’s almost there. Guys, you can do this!” Friday is the life of the party. Wild, fun, and maybe a little too popular for a long-term relationship. Michelle admits, “You can’t resist me,” but J Sbu warns Friday might “cheat on you.” Still, who can resist those big vibes? Saturday is everyone’s favorite: chilled, adventurous, and the ultimate brunch date. Listener Ranisha says, “Saturdays

We’ve all felt it. that heart-stopping moment when something you desperately want is within reach, only to be snatched away. Stacey and J Sbu explored these “snatch moments,” starting with a young boy at the US Open, his hands outstretched for a player’s cap, only to have it whisked away by another. Listeners called in with their own tales: Tam lost a job, only to launch a thriving business days later. Katie’s almost-love story rerouted her to a better partner. “Every near miss, every setback… your story isn’t over. It’s just being rerouted,” J Sbu reminded us. If you missed it live, listen in!

Get ready for some fun with Stacey and J Sbu on the Kiddies Hotline! The duo recently posed an exciting question to their young listeners: Would you rather have PE three times a week or skip maths three times a week? The phones lit up with eager kids sharing their thoughts! First up was the delightful Holly, who didn't hesitate to choose more PE time. Why? Because algebra and long division are "the worst!" Instead, she'd much rather spend her time running around with her dogs – now that's some fun cardio! There are no wrong answers here – just pure, honest fun! The hosts keep the energy high and the conversation flowing, making every call an adventure. Want to join the fun? Tune in to hear more kids share their choices and maybe even call in yourself!

KwaZulu-Natal (KZN) residents are facing widespread disruption as the ongoing taxi strike, led by the South African National Taxi Council (Santaco), continues to paralyze transport across the province. The strike, which began in the eThekwini metro area, has left thousands of commuters stranded, businesses short-staffed, and schools struggling with low attendance. The heart of the dispute lies in grievances between the taxi industry, the eThekwini municipality, and the Provincial Department of Transport. Key issues include the attachment of operating licenses, the review of impounded vehicles, and the need for updated data on taxi routes. As negotiations stretch into their second day, there is cautious optimism for a resolution. In an exclusive interview, Sifiso Shangase, KwaZulu-Natal spokesperson for Santaco, emphasized the industry’s willingness to find common ground. “When we go into negotiations, we always have to be optimistic because the objective is to meet each other halfway. It’s not a win-all approach. It should be a win-win,” Shangase said. He confirmed that some impounded vehicles have already been released after operators provided the necessary documentation. “We always say we are law-abiding citizens and want only roadworthy vehicles on the road. These vehicles were impounded because drivers didn’t have their operating licenses on hand, not because they were unfit for service,” Shangase explained. The strike’s impact has been felt across all sectors. Local businesses, like the Bush Tavern in Umdloti, have struggled to operate with skeleton staff. “We’ve been busy since early morning, with management driving around to pick up staff so we can keep running,” said Brenton Turner, a local business owner. “For those without cars, it’s been a real struggle just to keep above water, but we’re open and doing our best.” Listeners shared stories of hardship, with many forced to walk long distances to work or school. One parent recounted, “One of my kids didn’t make it to school. The other had to walk eight kilometers because he had a project due. I myself walked six kilometers to work.” Another listener, a teacher, described classrooms half-empty and the challenge of catching up on missed assessments: “I can’t do my job properly, and I’m not even sure if they’ll be there tomorrow. There are deadlines to be met and it’s affecting us badly.” Shangase acknowledged the pain caused by the strike, urging both taxi operators and commuters to remain patient. “We know people have been affected in different ways. Others were intending to go for interviews and have lost out. It’s very painful and sad. We are pleading with our members to regroup and prioritize commuters.” As talks between Santaco and government officials continue, there is hope that a resolution will be reached soon. “There’s light at the end of the tunnel,” Shangase assured. In the meantime, KZN residents are left waiting, hoping for a swift end to the crisis that has upended daily life across the province.