48 - Dr. Kate Balestrieri: Making Intimacy Last Through Psychology

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Erin Medina joins to share her journey as a sex worker, her experiences, and the importance of authenticity and community in the industry. The discussion delves into Erin's background, her transition from religious upbringing to sex work, and the creation of her alter ego, Erin, who embodies her best and bravest self. Erin emphasizes the significance of self-care, not abandoning oneself, and finding a supportive community. She also provides valuable advice for both new sex workers and first-time clients, stressing the importance of research, boundaries, and authenticity. Additionally, Erin discusses her passion for botany and how it complements her work and personal life.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Holistic Sexuality and Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦The Emotional Complexity of Sex Work 🫦The Therapeutic Power of Gardening🫦Journey into Sex Work🫦Living in New York: Challenges and Growth⁠⁠⁠⁠CONNECT WITH ERIN 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erinmedinanyc/CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode, Laura Desiree joins Seggs Talk Radio to discuss her multifaceted career in sex work, burlesque performance, and erotic writing. She shares her journey from being a Naked News anchor to becoming an intimacy coordinator for film and television. The conversation delves into topics such as the societal stigma surrounding sex work, the impact of erotic content in movies, and the challenges of maintaining sexual authenticity. Desiree also talks about her show 'Aero Unbound,' where she invites writers and the audience to share their intimate stories. The discussion touches on the importance of embracing both the highs and lows of life, the dynamics of hookup culture, and the nuances of male vulnerability. Throughout, Desiree emphasizes the need to break free from traditional taboos and explore sexual expression openly and authentically.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Intimacy Coordination in Film and Stage⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges of Sex Education and Censorship 🫦The Importance of Play and Kink🫦The Chaos of Avoidant Relationships🫦The Art of Multitasking⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3sHoney Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkIntimacy Concierge for Couples (15% off): http://arya.fyi/strCONNECT WITH LAURA 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauraxdesiree/CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, host Thea welcomes Nicholas Velotta, a relationship scientist, to discuss the interplay between academia, technology, and modern dating dynamics. They explore the seasonality of divorce, the importance of rituals in relationships, and the challenges of translating academic research into actionable insights. Nicholas shares personal experiences about growing up queer, the impact of mentorship, and the challenges and strategies of navigating intimacy. The conversation also delves into the influence of technology on Gen Z's approach to intimacy, dating app fatigue, and the psychological aspects of attachment styles and dating preferences.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Exploring Divorce Seasonality ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Navigating Modern Dating Challenges🫦 Attachment Styles and Dating Dynamics🫦 Impact of Technology on Intimacy🫦 Quitting Vices and Love LanguagesEXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3sHoney Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkIntimacy Concierge for Couples (15% off): http://arya.fyi/strCONNECT WITH NICHOLAS 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mind_on_loveCONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this informative episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea welcomes Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a clinical and forensic psychologist, and certified sex therapist. The conversation delves into multiple facets of intimacy and relationships, covering topics such as sexual health, the impact of societal norms on sexuality, and the complexities of emotional labor in partnerships. Dr. Balestrieri shares her professional insights on navigating desire discrepancies, the effects of censorship on sexual wellness education, and the dynamics of power in relationships. Additionally, they explore the nuances of infidelity, the significance of personal growth for maintaining relationship novelty, and the challenges faced by male emotional expression under societal expectations. The episode concludes with reflections on reclaiming pleasure and practical advice for enhancing intimacy after trauma. Dr. Balestrieri's perspectives offer a comprehensive look at modern intimacy and the factors influencing sexual well-being.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Censorship in Sexual Health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Understanding Normative Male Alexithymia🫦 Dating Apps and Modern Romance🫦 Emotional and Domestic Labor Imbalance🫦 Challenges in Long-Term Relationships⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3sHoney Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkIntimacy Concierge for Couples (15% off): http://arya.fyi/strCONNECT WITH KATE 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkatebalestrieriCONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this engaging episode of Seggs Talk Radio, the host welcomes the multi-talented Brandon Kyle Goodman, a podcaster, author, actor, and writer. The conversation covers a variety of topics including Brandon's upcoming stage show 'Ho Church,' their experiences growing up as a pastor’s kid, and their journey through different religious practices. The duo discusses the intersections of church and kink, the challenges, and intricacies of polyamory, and the importance of open communication and consent in sexual relationships. Brandon shares insights into their personal experiences with sex education, sexual health, and the cultural stigmas surrounding these topics. They also delve into mental health, the power of therapy, and how Brandon's book and podcast aim to liberate others by destigmatizing conversations around sex, love, and relationships.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Journey of Sexuality and Coming Out⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Polyamory and Open Relationships🫦 Flipping Gender Roles and Embracing Dominance🫦 Therapy and Self-Reflection🫦 Exploring Kinks and Fetishes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3sHoney Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkIntimacy Concierge for Couples (15% off): http://arya.fyi/strCONNECT WITH BRANDON 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonkylegoodmanCONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

Melissa Petro, author of 'Shame On You,' joins Seggs Talk Radio to discuss her remarkable journey from being a public school teacher and sex worker to becoming an author and advocate. In this candid conversation, Petro details her career trajectory, the media scandal that outed her past as a sex worker, and the personal and professional aftermath, including losing her teaching job. She also shares insights on overcoming shame and finding empowerment through writing and community support. The episode delves into topics like the stigma around sex work, the pressure of societal expectations, and resilience in the face of public humiliation. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how Petro transformed her experiences into advocacy and her ongoing mission to help others through their own shame resilience journeys.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Media Backlash and Career Impact⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Navigating Public Scrutiny🫦 Public Shaming and Its Impact🫦 Research on Shame and Resilience🫦 Legal Battles and Free Speech⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3sHoney Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkIntimacy Concierge for Couples (15% off): http://arya.fyi/strCONNECT WITH MELISSA💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissa.petroCONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode, seasoned BDSM community member Venus Cuffs discusses her decade-long journey in the New York kink scene, shedding light on the abusive behaviors she has witnessed and the importance of consent and boundaries. Venus shares her transition into mainstream nightlife producing, highlighting her profound experiences from owning a large dungeon in Brooklyn to curating unique events like her kink-horror show 'House of Screams.' The conversation touches on the challenges faced by women, especially those of color, in the adult industry and nightlife, along with the stigmas and systemic racism they encounter. Venus also reflects on her recent shift away from pro-dom work and the subsequent opportunities that have opened up, underlining the importance of authenticity and following one's spirit. Listeners are invited to learn from her extensive experiences and insights into entrepreneurship, community building, and the power of resilience.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 New York Nightlife and Ballroom Culture⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Experiencing Homelessness and Finding Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Challenges for Women Entrepreneurs⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Gender Dynamics in Business⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Abuse in BDSM and Adult Industry⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3sHoney Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkIntimacy Concierge for Couples (15% off): http://arya.fyi/strCONNECT WITH VENUS CUFFS 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/venuscuffsCONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Mia Lee shares her journey from a career in finance to becoming a high-end escort and later a stripper. Mia talks about her background as a Chinese political refugee, her time in foster care, and her introduction to the corporate world. She discusses the stigma associated with sex work, her strategies for marketing and success, and how her business ventures aim to provide financial services tailored for sex workers. Mia also touches on personal topics like polyamory, mental health, and the challenges and benefits of her unique career path.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Navigating Dating as a Sex Worker⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Exploring Bisexuality and Polyamory⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Natural Beauty and Plastic Surgery⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges and Misconceptions in Sex Work⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Stripping and Mentorship⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkDownload the Stardust App Free https://stardust.app/CONNECT WITH MIA 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mialee_nycCONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea interviews Ali Weiss and they share a candid conversation about their experiences living with ADHD and the profound effects it has had on their lives and self-esteem. They delve into the pressure and impacts of having a social media presence, the values of establishing boundaries, and the complexities around being perceived by audiences. They discuss their personal journeys into sex work, including ethical non-monogamy, high-end escorting, sugar dating, and the societal stigma surrounding these professions. The episode further touches on the compatibility and expectations of romantic relationships, particularly focusing on honesty, balance, and finding partners that genuinely match their realities. As the discussion unfolds, they reveal the therapeutic value of exploring dominant and submissive power dynamics, both in life and the bedroom, and share practical dating tips. Additionally, they reflect on their ADHD diagnoses, treatment with medication, and lifestyle adjustments needed to manage symptoms, aiming to debunk common misconceptions about living authentically while managing ADHD.EPISODE THEMES📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Mental Health and Social Media Boundaries⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦ADHD and Anxiety Struggles⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Dating with Intention⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Exploring Dominance and Submission⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦The Impact of Early Sexualization⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off) https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalkDownload the Stardust App Free https://stardust.app/CONNECT WITH ALI 💌Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aliweissworld/CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea welcomes Norma Buster, Chief of Staff at CA Goldberg, a victim's rights law firm in New York. Norma shares her journey from being a victim of stalking and image-based sexual abuse to becoming an advocate and podcast host of 'Oral Arguments'. The conversation explores her work at the law firm, society’s view on sex work, and her personal journey of empowerment through starting an OnlyFans account. Norma discusses the challenges she faced in the legal system, the importance of supporting and including sex worker rights, and her efforts in pushing for legislative changes to protect victims from tech-facilitated harms. The episode also delves into the intricacies and future potentials of tech companies’ accountability and the importance of sex positivity and reclaiming one's narrative.EPISODE THEMES 📝⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Starting OnlyFans and Workplace Support🫦Legal Battles and Seeking Justice🫦Supporting Sex Workers' Rights🫦Decriminalization and Global Perspectives🫦Challenges with Tech Companies and Legal Battles⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️Peepshow Toys (SEGGS for 10% off)https://tinyurl.com/538eaj3s⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app):https://hudapp.com/seggstalkDownload the Stardust App Freehttps://stardust.app/CONNECT WITH NORMA BUSTER 💌Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/normabuster_/CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠:https://www.seggstalkradio.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradioYoutube:https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadio