The Urge

Jaußan discusses the Aesthetics of dating and how it impacts many things and respect to a potential relationship. The superficial nature of dating using this methodology and some of the things such as being responsible and seeking attention outweighs to benefit of knowing the person.

This episode takes a look at the measure some people will go to in order to retain their relationship through third-party intervention, but not in the conventional sense.

Examining the urge or the temptation to accept conditions based on a desire that outweighs the consequences.

In this episode we address the reality of being lonely during Thanksgiving and the benefits and drawbacks of being alone during this period.

🎧 Relationship Sabbatical: A Break to Make it BetterAre you and your partner feeling the weight of routine? Does your relationship need a breath of fresh air, or perhaps... a complete reset?In this week's deeply honest episode of Romantic Truth, we're diving into the controversial, yet increasingly popular, concept of the Relationship Sabbatical.We sit down with listeners who have taken this bold step—a structured, temporary separation designed not to end a relationship, but to revitalize it. We explore the tough questions:* What is a Relationship Sabbatical, and how is it different from a "break" or simply moving out? We discuss establishing clear rules, boundaries, and a finite timeline for re-evaluation.* The 'Why' and 'When': When is this tool most effective? We examine situations where a sabbatical can help couples recover their individual identities, address codependency, or gain clarity before making a lifelong commitment.* Dating Others: Is it ever okay? We tackle this highly sensitive topic and discuss the importance of pre-agreed-upon rules for sexual and romantic exclusivity during the time apart.* The Re-Entry: How do you actually come back together and integrate the lessons learned during your time alone?Tune in for an eye-opening discussion on how a temporary pause might be the key to a stronger, more sustainable 'happily ever after.'✨ Featured Topics in This Episode:* Setting clear expectations and rules for a structured separation.* Identifying the root cause of burnout in a long-term partnership.* Navigating the emotional challenges of solo time and individual growth.* The difference between a sabbatical and a slow breakup.Click to listen now and decide: Could a relationship sabbatical save your love story?Would you like me to draft a short social media post to promote this episode?

🎧 The Holiday Blues: Navigating Loneliness, Infidelity, and CausationThe festive season can be a pressure cooker for emotions. In this heartfelt episode of The Romantic Truth, we tackle the less-than-merry side of the holidays, diving deep into the complexities of loneliness and how it can be acutely amplified by seasonal expectations. We also address the difficult reality of infidelity—exploring why this time of year often sees a spike in emotional and physical betrayals, and the unique stressors that contribute to it. Finally, we analyze the causation behind these "holiday blues," examining the interplay of financial strain, family dynamics, and the pursuit of a "perfect" holiday as catalysts for relationship turmoil. Tune in for an honest, vulnerable conversation on surviving—and strengthening—your relationship during the most wonderful, and sometimes most challenging, time of the year.If this episode resonated with you, please share the link with a friend who might need to hear it this holiday season!Would you like me to draft a social media post to promote this episode?

Dive deep into the messy, often ridiculous, world of modern dating on this revealing episode of The Romantic Truth!Your host pulls back the curtain on the complex dynamics between friends, lovers, and side-pieces, sharing candid confessions and unconventional wisdom. We kick things off by dissecting some of the subtle (and not-so-subtle) tactics women use within their friend groups. Ever heard of "friend-sourcing?" He admits to the reality of sleeping with platonic female friends and lays bare the ridiculous nature of the modern dating game.What to Expect:Roundabout Approaches: Decoding the cryptic ways women signal interest and the different types of approaches they use when they want to be with a guy.Teasers and Time-Wasters: A warning about the guys who love your attention and time but avoid making a move.The Side-Piece Reality: Straight talk about navigating the tricky territory of side-pieces.The "First Touch" Rule: A breakdown of how a woman's initial touch can signal green light—or not.Jealous Girlfriends: Addressing the mindset of a girlfriend who believes she's inherently better than the woman her partner is pursuing.Avoiding the Off-Limits: Why staying away from married women is crucial.The Friends-as-Scouts Strategy: When an early parental introduction might just be a sign you're strictly friends, giving her "extra eyes" on you.This is the episode for anyone who's tried to decipher a confusing text, been friend-zoned, or just wants an honest look at the unspoken rules of romance. Press play and face the truth!

In this episode, Jaußan explores the impact and importance of identity in dating. We examine the critical boundary between genuine connection and capitulation—making compromises that benefit a partner but chip away at your authentic self. The discussion looks at how these changes affect a relationship's long-term integrity and quality.​We also break down the Warm Body Effect, where people choose any partner just to avoid being alone, regardless of their caliber. Finally, we discuss how a relationship’s dynamic often hinges on the amount of control a partner exerts using criticism, shame, and guilt.​The core takeaways are identity, control, and self-expression in relationships.

In this exciting episode of the romantic truth podcast, host Jaußan and a panel of three women consisting of Jolene, Gretchen, and Katie May address the topics of listener messages. A woman deals with making a decision after a first date to consider pursuing a relationship with a guy that may have to do jail time for stalking and ex in the past. A woman is given an ultimatum by her boyfriend to move in together, but she does not love him enough to go through with it and likes her autonomy, but still wants to have him in her life and she prepares to go on a date with a new gentleman.A woman's heart gets the best of her by allowing her ex-boyfriend and his girlfriend and her ex-husband and his new wife to move into part three bedroom house. She experiences difficulty in dating because of her living situation. A Man shows up on a date and sees a woman that is not the person he saw online and walks past her and exits to his car. A woman that was supposed to be married in December of this year finds out why her fiance canceled the wedding in September due to his indiscretions and lies.Panel also addresses other topics and respect to a quality and dating and relationships and questions about two of the panelists that had dated the host at one time in history.

This week on Romantic Truth, host Jaußan dives deep into a chaotic collection of listener confessions that prove reality is often stranger than fiction when it comes to love and dating. Prepare yourself for some truly unbelievable tales!Featured Listener Stories:The Aunt-i-Betrayal: A heartbroken listener shares the ultimate shock: discovering her boyfriend's affair with... her 60-year-old aunt! Jaußan offers advice on navigating this bizarre family and relationship fallout.The Stolen Date Car: A first date turns into a police stop when a listener is out with a married man who lied about his marital status. Turns out, the man's wife reported the car stolen mid-date!Child Support Date Funds: A gentleman writes in asking if it’s okay to continue seeing his 'baby mama' while in a relationship with a new listener, especially after he stopped by his ex’s house... to borrow child support money to pay for their date!Closet Confessions: We hear from a woman whose date took a truly humiliating turn when her borrowed purse flipped over at a restaurant, spilling its contents, including a very noticeable adult toy!The Group Text Mistake: A listener is scrambling for damage control after sending inappropriate pictures to a group text instead of the intended individual. Jaußan discusses how to recover from this mortifying digital blunder.Plus, Jaußan tackles many more listener messages covering everything from disastrous first impressions to ethical dilemmas in modern romance. Tune in for the truth—it might hurt, but it’s always entertaining!