First Meet

In this eye-opening episode of The Romantic Truth Podcast, we dive into the murky waters of catfishing—the digital deception that’s left countless hearts tangled in lies. From fake profiles and stolen photos to emotional manipulation and financial scams, we explore how and why people create false identities online and the devastating impact it has on those they lure in.Host Jausan Adams breaks down the red flags of a catfish, the psychology behind the act, and the emotional toll it takes on both victims and deceivers. You'll hear candid stories from people who’ve been duped—and from former catfishers themselves—about the motives, guilt, and realizations that eventually brought them to the truth.Whether you’ve been catfished, suspected someone wasn’t who they claimed to be, or just want to understand this modern dating epidemic, this episode will equip you with the insight to stay grounded, ask the right questions, and protect your heart in a digital world full of illusions.Trigger warning: Emotional manipulation and identity deception discussed. Listener discretion is advised.

Jaußan & Guest co-host Gretchen Matthews explore the concept of the First Meet which consists of an informal 90 minute face to face introduction and meeting with someone you met online at a coffee shop, ice cream parlor, pizza parlor, or fast food venue within a $40 price range. The goal is to verify three things, confirming that is the person so you're not catfished, establishing clarification of any questions or discrepancies discusseed prior and finally to look for consistency in respect to that person adhering to the things they told you to avoid cognitive dissonance. Also, in this episode, we hear from a person who voted against the best interest and respect to potential complications involving pregnancy and how a misunderstanding of the legislation they put her and other women at risk during pregnancy. Gretchen also expresses some of her experiences and shares a glimpse of her past, including some escapades with the host.

Jaußan examines one of the most challenging situations when it comes to retaining a platonic friendship with someone when sexual and emotional needs come to bare. The discussion centers around the needs and desires of one or both of them seeking fulfillment.The challenge because evident when your friend expresses a desire to be with you intimately, but maybe concerned about expressing these feelings because of the perception of being desperate and vulnerable.The biggest fear it's a compromise of mystery, the integrity of the relationship as platonic friends, and a potential perceived weakness. Also. you may feel uncomfortable in the sense that person already knows things about you that you would feel as knowing too much. Rejection is one of the biggest fears along with embarrassment and the perspective of the other party not having an interest or seeing you differently such as a family member in order to exempt you from consideration. in this episode, we do a deep dive to examine with a man and women can your friends and have sex while still retaining the friendship and some capacity. One given outcome is that the relationship will change and there are some that are afraid of this change.

Welcome to The Romantic Truth, the podcast where your hosts, Jaußan and Jillian, prove that sometimes, the best co-hosts are the ones who almost made it! Back in the 1990s, they were an item, and today they're diving deep into the complexities of modern love and life.In this episode, Jaußan and Jillian are tackling one of the biggest challenges facing modern relationships: navigating a politically divided America. Can romance truly thrive when views are so far apart? They'll share their perspectives on keeping the peace, finding common ground, and when it might be time to draw a line in the sand.But that's not all! The duo opens up the mailbag to respond to some truly insightful and sometimes hilarious listener messages. Get ready for their candid advice and trademark witty banter as they weigh in on your relationship dilemmas.And finally, Jaußan is dropping some new music! He'll be sharing a sneak peek at a few of his latest tracks. What other surprises are in store? You'll have to tune in to find out!Press play now to hear all this and much more on the latest episode of The Romantic Truth!Follow Jaußan on [Social Media Link] and Jillian on [Social Media Link]!

This week on Romantic Truth, we're diving into the complex world of modern dating with Sarah, a single mom of three. Sarah's looking for love, but her partner checklist is… a little ambitious. She's searching for a man with a six-figure salary, two vehicles (one that seats eight!), a six-bedroom house, and plans to buy another property. Join us as we explore the fine line between having standards and being unrealistic. Is Sarah protecting her family or setting herself up for disappointment? We'll get to the heart of her desires and question whether true love can ever be found on a spreadsheet.Tune in to "Romantic Truth" and find out!

Friends With Benefits (FWB) Relationships are defined in this episode along with the reasons for them and how Women Benefit more than Men in them. We also examine their purpose for Women in efforts to honest certain skill-sets without the obligation of a committed relationship.

Ever feel like you're dating someone who sees you as their project instead of their partner? In this episode of Romantic Truth, we're tackling the thorny issue of dating someone with a superiority complex.Join us as we explore what it's like to be in a relationship where one person constantly feels they're "above" the other, whether it's intellectually, financially, or socially. We'll dive into the subtle signs—the condescending comments, the backhanded compliments, and the way they always seem to "know better."We'll also discuss the impact on your own self-worth and offer advice on how to navigate these tricky dynamics. Is it possible to build a healthy, balanced relationship with someone who believes they're always right? Tune in and find out.

​This week on The Romantic Truth, host Jaußan delves into the messy aftermath of betrayal. We tackle the heartbreaking story of a man who strayed, only to discover the grass wasn't greener, but an illusion. He's desperate to win his wife back, but she has reached her emotional limit and is ready to walk away, seeking a divorce. To make matters worse, his infidelity wasn't just a betrayal of trust, but a physical violation of their shared space—he brought his affair into their bed. Join us as we explore the complex emotions of a cheating heart's regret and the painful, yet powerful, journey of a woman finding her resolve. We'll examine why some relationships can't be rebuilt and the stark reality that some damage is permanent.

In this powerful episode of "Romantic Truth," we tackle the complex intersection of identity, race, and politics in modern relationships. We kick things off with a deep dive into a question many have but few dare to ask: How can you tell if someone from a different racial background is interested in you as an individual, or if they're pursuing a fantasy based on racial tropes? We offer actionable insights and red flags to help you navigate this delicate and often painful dynamic.Next, we shift our focus to the political sphere, examining the growing struggles faced by men whose political views, particularly through a process called identity fusion, are becoming a major roadblock in their dating lives. We explore how this fusion can lead to rigid mindsets and social isolation, and what it might take to overcome these challenges.Finally, we explore the powerful and often destructive dynamics of a cult of personality in a relationship. We discuss how being in a relationship with someone who is enthralled by a charismatic leader can impact everything from communication to shared values, and what to do when your partner's loyalty to a figurehead eclipses their commitment to you.Join us for a frank and necessary conversation about love, truth, and the unseen forces that shape our romantic lives.

Sure! Here's a compelling podcast episode description for yourtIn this episode of The Romantic Truth Podcast, we explore the emotional, relational, and often invisible toll of being part of the sandwich generation—those in their late 20s to mid-50s who are caught between aging parents and their own adult or young children.Many in this group find themselves juggling caregiving duties, financial obligations, and emotional support across two generations—often with little time left for themselves, let alone a romantic relationship. We’ll unpack how these responsibilities impact dating, marriage, intimacy, and personal freedom. From navigating burnout and guilt to dealing with partners who don’t understand the pressure, we’ll shed light on why love can feel like a luxury instead of a priority.Whether you're deep in the struggle or love someone who is, this episode will give insight into the complex dynamics shaping modern relationships in an age of extended dependency and limited.