Episode 5: "Manhood" (Part 1)

I've done it, you've done it... we've all probably done it. One thing about  being born in the 90s, you grow up being told not to cry, not to "let them see you in your moment of weakness". To celebrate a return overdue by a year, we pick up where we left off , and tackle some of the harder issues we deal with as a generation. Don't forget to reach out if you want to take a moment and deep dive into my head.  Find me on Twitter and Instagram: @whois__ap  Follow the show on Twitter @overthinking_za for live updates on the glits and glam of how it all comes together. Music By: Musa Keys - Samareian Boys

Join us this week as we talk about what happens after varsity, the L's we take in the working world, and we share some tips on how to navigate your finances post your luxurious uni-days (and yes uni is a luxury).  Follow us on twitter @overthinking_za, @iamtherealap_ Music by: Rick Ross - Sixteen (feat. Andre 3000)

This week we introduce the newest member of the team and welcome a new guest as we chat about everything we do when we should be studying for that last exam. The discussion takes some interesting twists and turns and promises to be an episode unlike any other. Tune in, sit back, and relax while you listen to some of the L's that we've taken as 90's babies when it comes to this life thing. Make sure to hit us up on our social media if you'd like to be on the show, or if you'd just like to tell us your story, or share your thoughts. IG & Twitter: @iamtherealap_ Music by: Elhae - Love a N*gga

Join us today as we stroll down memory lane and we look at what some of our favourite childhood cartoons are and how they have, in some way,  shaped the kind of people we are today. Remember to reach out on twitter or IG if you would like to be a part of the show or if you wish to share your stories/comments. Twitter & IG : @iamtherealap_  Music by: Drake - Up All Night (Feat. Nicki Minaj)

This week sees the end of the three-part "manhood" series as we invite the hosts of The Alpha Show to share their thoughts on what manhood is and how it is experienced in the South African context. This week's episode both touches on topics that we will be exploring in later episodes, and wraps up this aspect of my journey as your host. It definitely sits on the 100 side of the spectrum, and will surely leave you wanting more.  If you would like to be a part of the show, be sure to reach out on twitter and instagram so we can keep the conversation alive  Twitter & IG: @iamtherealap_ Music: Roots - Zakwe (Feat. Stogie T & Jay Claude) Check out The Alpha Show @  https://anchor.fm/alphashow 

This week we welcome another guest onto the show who shares her experiences as we unpack oppression and how it manifests itself within the female species. We take a deep dive into the culture of woman-woman violence and we share our thoughts on where it may come from. twitter: @iamtherealap_ music by: Kelly Khumalo - Dance Comingo

It's been a minute since our last episode, but we're back and we're here to stay. This week we've tried to revamp the show. I share a little about myself and we talk about the direction the show is going.  twitter: @iamtherealap_ music: FXZ - Just The Way You Are

On this episode of OVERthinking, we talk about creativity, what it is, how one can be creative, and a little more. Be sure to reach out on Twitter if you'd like to come on the show and have a little chat. Twitter: @iamtherealap_ Music by: M.L.G x Warra Prince - Sgubhu (Ft. Phil-Air & S'touch) https://soundcloud.com/mlg654/sgubhu-ft-phil-air-stouch Also check out Ballads by Sphumelele Zondi https://www.lavibras.com/ballads

Today we welcome our first guest and we have an interesting chat about toxic relation/situation-ships and how to maneuver your way around them. Be sure to reach out to me on twitter so we can keep the dialogue going. Twitter handle: @iamtherealap_ Guest: @Prince_Fezile Music by: FXZ - Cruising

Welcome back to OVERthinking. This week is a bit more tense as we talk about university dropouts and what that means for the 90's baby. We're blessed with some words by a fellow listener as we reevaluate what it means to be educated. Music by: Suli Breaks - Why I Hate School But Love Education