Do You Compare Yourself or Your Relationship to Others? 5 Surprising Ways to Stop Letting Comparison Steal Your Happiness

How are smartphones linked to anxiety? What mental health issues are linked to excessive social media use? Today, let's welcome Jonathan Haidt is a renowned social psychologist, professor at New York University’s Stern School of Business, and a widely published author. He is known for his research on morality, culture, and the psychology of happiness. Jonathan's influential books include "The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion" and "The Coddling of the American Mind." His latest work, "The Anxious Generation," examines the profound impact of social media on young people's mental health. Jonathan highlights the unprecedented global collapse of mental health among youth, describing it as more significant than the COVID-19 pandemic, with girls being particularly affected by anxiety and depression, and boys showing significant social development issues. The conversation also addresses the academic debate regarding the root causes of this mental health crisis, with Jonathan presenting compelling data and experimental evidence to support his view that social media is a primary driver. He offers actionable solutions, including delaying smartphone and social media use until later ages, implementing phone-free school policies, increasing outdoor play, and advocating for collective action by parents and communities.  In this interview, you'll learn: How to create a healthier digital environment for kids How to implement age-appropriate tech usage How to encourage outdoor play and physical activities How to talk to children about the risks of social media How to foster resilience and emotional strength in kids How to create a supportive community for parents Together, let's take a comprehensive look into the mental health crisis the youth is facing today and take note of the practical strategies for creating a healthier environment that supports their well-being. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:55 Global Synchronized Collapse of Mental Health 08:12 Social Media is for Adults to Network 10:20 The Science Behind Anxiety 14:51 Variation of Emotions is Necessary for Kids 17:45 Play Helps Kids Learn 19:12 How to Make Playtime More Effective? 22:59 The Effects of Technology on Different Genders 29:24 Going Through Puberty on Social Media 32:08 How Parenting Has Changed with Technology 34:27 Efforts to Regulate Smartphones Use for Children 44:21 Women Are Always Judged for Their Looks 49:26 Verified Social Media Account 56:58 Why Tap Into Our Spirituality 01:03:56 What is Happening to Us? 01:11:31 The Greatest Distraction of Human Value 01:16:23 Jonathan on Final Five Episode Resources: Jonathan Haidt | Website Jonathan Haidt | Instagram Jonathan Haidt | Facebook Jonathan Haidt | X Jonathan Haidt | YouTube Jonathan Haidt | LinkedIn See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you often feel exhausted or burnt out? Are you struggling to manage your stress levels? Today, Jay talks about exhaustion, burnout, and stress, highlighting their prevalence with statistics showing that a significant portion of young adults and women report feeling drained. He introduces a practical approach to tackle these challenges, encapsulated in the "triple A" formula—Accept, Action, Attention—which encourages acknowledging negative feelings, taking actionable steps to address them, and paying mindful attention to one's mental state Jay also introduces the concept of "reset periods," whether it's an hour, half-day, or full day, to allow for complete mental and physical rejuvenation. The importance of self-compassion is also emphasized, encouraging individuals to replace inner criticism with supportive self-talk, which can significantly improve overall well-being. In this episode, you'll learn: How to break negative thought cycle How to manage your energy levels How to use stress strategically How to practice self-compassion How to get out of stressful situation Don’t let exhaustion control your life—take action today and start feeling refreshed and empowered. Listen now and share with someone who needs a boost! With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:06 Do You Feel Drained? 03:10 #1: Learn to Break Repetitive Thoughts 06:27 #2: You Don’t Need to Be on Full Energy All the Time 10:20 #3: Learn to Say NO 14:05 #4: Be Strategic with Your Time 17:02 #5: Have a Reset Day 18:35 #6: Be Kind to Yourself 19:59 #7: Allow Yourself to Vent and Let It Out 21:24 #8: Get a Restful Sleep  23:00 #9: Wash Your Mind the Night BeforeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How does gratitude aid during emotional struggles? How does focusing on positives improve our emotional well-being? Today, let's welcome supermodel, content creator, actor, and philanthropist Taylor Hill. Discovered at the age of 14, Taylor has worked with fashion houses and luxury brands around the globe and has graced the covers of prestigious fashion magazines, including Vogue. Beyond her modeling career, Taylor is the founder of Tate and Taylor, a media content platform and community inspired by her late Labradoodle, Tate.  Taylor speaks candidly about her emotional journey with her late Labradoodle, Tate and the profound bond she shared with him,  describing how he was more than just a pet – he was a soulmate and a source of unwavering support. She also opens up about the challenges and triumphs of starting her modeling career as a teenager, highlighting the pressures and responsibilities that came with her rapid rise to fame. Inspired by her journey with Tate, Taylor founded Tate and Taylor, a media content platform and community for pets and their humans. She explains the mission behind this venture, which aims to support pet owners and raise awareness about animal welfare. In this interview, you'll learn: How to handle emotional challenges How to manage early career success How to stay fit mentally and physically How to manage grief and loss How to pursue your purpose How to find joy and gratitude everyday Taylor's story is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the healing power of unconditional love, an inspiring message for anyone facing their own struggles and searching for meaning in their experiences.  With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:50 Earliest Childhood Memory 09:30 Modeling at 14  12:52 Going to School Wasn’t For Me 15:26 Victoria Secret Model 18:18 Audition Process for Models 20:20 Having the Right Team 24:52 Discipline of a VS Model 33:32 VS Comeback 38:55 Experiencing Burnout 42:12 Losing Tate 51:33 The Signs and Symptoms 01:13:01 Healing From Losing Your Pet 01:19:40 Pregnancy and Miscarriage  01:44:52 Alone Time While Grieving 01:53:02 Emotional Support From Your Partner 02:04:01 Everyone’s Journey is Different 02:10:39 Building the Tate and Taylor Brand 02:20:52 A Brand for a Cause 02:24:48 Taylor on Final Five Episode Resources: Taylor Hill | Instagram Taylor Hill | Facebook Taylor Hill | TikTok Tate & Taylor See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you compare your relationship to others? How can you identify and manage your triggers for comparison? Today, Jay introduces the concept of social comparison theory, explaining the differences between upward - where we compare ourselves to those we perceive as better off, can lead to feelings of inadequacy if done with envy rather than a mindset of learning, and downward comparisons which involves comparing ourselves to those worse off, which can provide a temporary boost in self-esteem but is ultimately unproductive and unkind. He shares practical strategies for reducing comparison, such as being mindful of social media usage, identifying personal triggers, and investing in self-improvement. Jay also stresses the importance of understanding the deeper, often hidden aspects of people's lives and why we usually compare our internal struggles with others' external successes, leading to a distorted and unfair self-assessment. In the episode, you'll learn: How to identify your goals How to set mutual goals How to be mindful of your triggers How to invest in self-improvement By seeking deeper connections and understanding the full context of others' lives, we can develop more empathy and reduce the impulse to compare and shift our focus from external comparisons to internal growth and relational strength, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and authentic life. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:28 Comparing Ourselves to Other People 04:32 Social Media Makes Unhealthy Comparison 05:27 The Two Social Comparison Theory 12:53 Everyone Has Different Values 14:26 Focus More on the Good You’re Doing 16:11 Focus on What It Take For You to Get There 17:39 Get to Know People Deeply 19:33 Be Conscious of Your Own TriggersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you want to be able to detect the early warning signs of disease?  Do you want to learn how to manage your stress effectively?  Today, Jay welcomes Dr. Casey Means, a Stanford-trained physician, a leading voice in the field of metabolic health, and the co-founder of Levels, a company dedicated to improving health through continuous glucose monitoring. She is also an author, with her latest book, "Good Energy," focusing on metabolic health and its impact on overall well-being. Dr. Means has been featured in prominent publications such as The New York Times, The New Yorker, The Wall Street Journal, and Forbes.  Dr. Casey Means highlights the alarming rise of chronic diseases, including diabetes, heart disease, and obesity, which she attributes to the modern lifestyle and its impact on our metabolic systems. She emphasizes the importance of understanding metabolic health, which she describes as the body's ability to efficiently convert food into energy at the cellular level and encourages us to take control of our health by becoming more attuned to our bodies and the signals it sends.  Jay and Dr. Means focus on the importance of a balanced diet, adequate sleep, regular physical activity, stress management, and reducing exposure to environmental toxins. And the inspiring stories and scientific evidence to illustrate how simple lifestyle changes can lead to significant improvements in health.  In this interview, you'll learn: How to improve metabolic health How to manage stress effectively How to make dietary changes How to optimize sleep How to trust your own body How to stay physically active This compelling vision for a future where individuals are empowered with the knowledge and tools to take charge of their health, leading to happier, healthier, and more fulfilled lives is attainable.  With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:55 Who Do We Trust with Our Health? 12:12 Become the Healthiest Version of You 18:27 What is Metabolic Health? 25:39 2 Ways Your Body Communicates with You 34:56 The Concept of Inflammation within the Body 40:15 How Does the Health System Work? 51:33 Why Ban Pharmaceutical Company Ads? 56:42 How Banning Pharma Ads Will Affect the Economy 01:02:47 Academic Research Funded by Pharma 01:05:35 Eliminate Added Sugar in School Lunch 01:11:05 The 5 Essential Biomarkers 01:23:10 How You’re Eating Matters 01:24:37 The Benefits of 7000 Steps 01:29:37 What is Social Jetlag? 01:34:51 We Are a Process Not an Entity 01:44:57 Casey on Final Five Episode Resources: Casey Means | Website Casey Means | Instagram Casey Means | Twitter Casey Means | Facebook Casey Means | YouTube Casey Means | TikTok Casey Means | LinkedIn Good Energy: The Surprising Connection Between Metabolism and Limitless Health Levels See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Do you often feel unappreciated by your partner? Do you avoid addressing issues to keep the peace? Today, Jay tackles a common yet often overlooked issue in relationships: subtle settling. He begins by acknowledging the pervasive uncertainty many people face about their partners and the fear of being alone that often drives them to stay in unfulfilling relationships. Is it true that the lack of current excitement or passion necessarily indicates settling. One of the key questions Jay poses is whether individuals feel they can be their true selves with their partners. He highlights the importance of authenticity in relationships, sharing anecdotes about how people often hide or underplay parts of themselves to be more likable, which ultimately leads to losing their true identity. In this episode, you'll learn: How to foster emotional availability How to deal with unrealistic expectations How to ensure mutual respect in your relationship How to discuss important issues in a healthy way Healthy communication is another crucial aspect in all relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to ensure they are not compromising their happiness and well-being in their relationships. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:24 Subtle Settling 02:26 #1: Do You Feel Like You Can Truly Be Yourself? 07:18 #2: Do You Discuss Important Things In A Healthy Way? 13:19 #3: Do You Feel A Sense Of Respect? 15:36 #4: Are You Scared Of Being Lonely? 20:58 #5: Do You Compare Your Partner To Other People? 22:23 #6: Do They Understand Why You Are The Way You Are? 23:53 #7: Can They Tolerate Your Weaknesses And Can You Tolerate Theirs? 24:53 #8: You're Subtle Settling If It's A Financial DecisionSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does healing your inner child mean? How can you heal from past trauma? Today, let's welcome Grammy-nominated global superstar, Anitta, who has become a leading artist of a new generation of Latin American music. Her album "Versions of Me" surpassed 1 billion streams on Spotify, and she earned a Grammy nomination for Best New Artist in 2023. Known for her energetic performances and bold personality, Anitta is also deeply spiritual, integrating various practices to maintain her well-being and authenticity. A significant part of the episode focuses on the duality of Anitta's identity. She explains how she balances her stage persona with her true self, Larissa, and the importance of nurturing both. Anitta shares the struggles she faced with comparisons, societal expectations, and the pressure to maintain a certain image. Her journey towards self-acceptance and self-love is a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit.  Jay and Anitta also talk about the importance of staying grounded amidst success, sharing her daily routines that include meditation, energy cleansing, and connecting with nature. Despite facing criticism and backlash, she remains committed to expressing and celebrating her culture through her music and public appearances. In this interview, you'll learn: How to stay grounded amidst success How to overcome comparisons How to heal from past trauma How to manage your health How to cultivate self-love How to handle criticisms Anitta's story is a reminder that true success is not just about external achievements but also about inner peace, self-love, and staying connected to one's roots. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:39 How Do You Prepare for a Performance? 05:05 Meditation Practice 08:17 How Elevate Your Energy 11:06 Comparison is Making Us Unhappy 16:04 Successful But Unhappy 29:24 Doing Things for Your Happiness 37:04 Health Scare 38:10 Healing Emotional Trauma 42:46 What Are You Here For? 45:19 Getting Off Birth Control 51:12 Two Energy in One Body 58:32 Society’s Double Standard in Dating 01:01:38 Different Religion and Faith 01:11:30 We All Have a Choice 01:16:10 Challenges and Hardships Along the Way  01:24:22 Dealing with Conflicts 01:29:14 Opportunities for Better Exposure 01:34:14 Finding Balance in Life 01:35:21 Anitta on Final Five Episode Resources: Anitta | Instagram Anitta | Twitter Anitta | Facebook Anitta | YouTube Anitta | TikTok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can you recognize when you need to slow down? And what are the benefits of slowing down in everyday life? Today, Jay addresses the growing concern about how to slow down in our fast-paced world. Many of us feel like time is flying by, and Jay offers practical tips to help us feel more present and in control.  Jay recommends connecting with ourselves, looking at our schedule, and reaching out to loved ones. By waking up 20 minutes earlier than needed, this small change can set a calm tone for the day. And there is power in silence and spending time in nature. Silence helps reduce our brain's cognitive load, and being in nature makes us feel more present and less rushed. Throughout the episode, Jay provides easy-to-follow advice to help us slow down and enjoy life more fully, reminding us that slowing down is about being more present, not doing less. In this episode, you'll learn: How to slow down time How to change your daily habits How to plan for your day These small changes can make a big difference in how you experience time. Remember, there's more to life than increasing its speed. Let's slow down together and savor every moment. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:31 Time Flies By So Fast 04:21 #1: Wake Up 20 Minutes Before You Actually Have To 08:40 #2: One Device At A Time 11:35 #3: Take 30 Seconds To Engage All Five Senses 13:44 #4: Obey Speed The Limit 16:32 #5: Being Present With Your Breath To Align Your Body And Mind 18:25 #6: Find And Create Moments Of Silence Everyday 21:19 #7: Observe And Be Present In NatureSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can changing your mindset help you learn from mistakes? And what are the benefits of viewing challenges as learning opportunities? Today, let's welcome Charles Leclerc. Charles is Formula One racing driver who competes for Scuderia Ferrari in the FIA Formula One World Championship. Charles gained attention for his impressive performances in junior categories, winning titles in series such as GP3 Series and FIA Formula 2 Championship. He made his Formula One debut with Alfa Romeo Sauber F1 Team in 2018 before joining Ferrari as their lead driver in 2019. Charles offers a behind-the-scenes glimpse into the life of a professional race car driver. He narrates through the twists and turns of the race track, uncovering the passion, dedication, and relentless drive that propel them forward. And the secrets behind preparing and training for the race, with sleep emerging as the ultimate priority for peak performance. Jay and Charles talk about the invaluable lessons learned from mistakes, emphasizing the importance of humility, gratitude, and resilience in the face of challenges. We gain insights into the profound impact of family, mentors, and teammates, and the pivotal role they play in navigating the highs and lows of the racing journey. From confronting fears to embracing growth, from channeling grief into fuel for success to staying grounded amidst soaring achievements, this conversation offers a masterclass in determination and perseverance.  In this interview, you'll learn: How to never lose focus How to become number one The importance of family time The strength of an efficient team How to practice teamwork Together, let's hear the untold stories and hidden truths behind the glitz and glamor of the race track. Tune in and prepare to be inspired by the unstoppable spirit of a true racing champion.  With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:12 Get to Know the Person Behind the Wheels 03:09 If You Weren’t a Race Car Driver, What Would You Have Been? 04:28 When Was the First Time You’ve Driven a Car? 06:23 How Do You Prepare and Train for a Race 09:21 Sleep is the Number One Priority 13:40 How You React to Mistakes is Super Important 14:47 Losing Focus Will Cost You a Lot 17:34 Gratitude for the Team You Work with 19:08 What Scares You Off Track? 20:25 Channeling Grief into Growth 22:19 “What Would My Father Want Me to Do?” 23:19 Keep Important People Close Especially in Difficult Moments 25:03 Always Stay Humble and Grateful 26:08 In the Midst of Success, How Do You Stay Humble? 28:23 What Criticism Hurts the Most? 31:39 Car Racing Remains a Dangerous Sport 32:55 Speed Isn’t the Only Important Part of F1 Racing 34:19 Training is Different for F1 Drivers 37:09 Have You Seen the Movie “The Rush”? 39:07 Different Driving Experiences 40:15 I Love Playing the Piano 42:52 How Much Time Do You Spend with Family? 44:47 The Incredible Racing Track of Ayrton Senna 46:10 The Pros and Cons of an F1 Simulator 48:19 On Lying About Signing the F1 Contract 51:37 Is Driving a Lonely Sport? 53:40 How Important Is It to Win the Championship? 55:02 What Would You Say to Your Future Self? 56:51 How Often Do You Work with Younger Drivers? 58:56 “I Love What I Do But I Want to Be the Best.” 01:00:27 Charles on Final Five  Episode Resources: Charles Leclerc | Website Charles Leclerc | Instagram Charles Leclerc | Twitter Charles Leclerc | Facebook Charles Leclerc | YouTube Charles Leclerc | TikTok See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you struggling with finding someone to talk to? What can you do during a mental health crisis? Today, Jay offers a wealth of practical advice aimed at enhancing mental health through simple, actionable changes. Drawing on his partnership with the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), Jay emphasizes the importance of recognizing Mental Health Awareness Month and the critical need for accessible mental health support. Jay provides a blend of personal anecdotes, research-backed insights, and practical advice, making it a must-listen for anyone looking to improve their mental well-being. He wraps up the episode with a heartfelt message of support, reminding listeners that he is always in their corner, rooting for their success and happiness. In this episode, you'll learn: How small changes create big impact How to improve at something you like to do How to take care of your mental health The simple practices to change your routine If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that there is help available. Let's work together to promote mental health awareness and support each other in our journey towards better mental well-being. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:20 #1: Practice A Good Evening Routine 09:24 #2: Plan Something For Yourself And Someone Else 14:31 #3: Get Better At The Things You’re Good At 17:13 #4: Coloring Books Helps Your Mind Relax 20:13 #5: Spending Time Outdoors Helps Reduce Stress 22:05 #6: Sugary Foods Weakens the Body’s Response to StressSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.