Relationship OCD or just overthinking?

In this episode we explore a hodgepodge of different issues and dilemmas that popped up in the last week. From the near miss of a homicidal maniac to the frustration of not being able to get even.

In this episode I explore: what to do with a Mariska tooth, my trip to Paris, how I deal with health anxiety, the terrible feeling of not handling a session as well as I would like, and supporting clients who have valid issues to express, but the way they express them might not make them healthier.

In this episode we honor Mariska's contributions to the podcast as she has moved on to a new stage of existence. Her spirit will remain with the podcast. We also explore some listener questions about supporting those who have made the decision to be unfaithful and how we help them to explore their motives and identity.

Mr. Jay comes on to teach us about betrayal trauma and how healing from it is different from other types of trauma. He speaks directly to his approach and techniques for helping individuals and couples as they navigate their healing process. Check out his website if you are interested in learning more: Mr Jay Relationship Coach – Relationship Coach, Personal Development CoachP.S. Mariska did not participate because she was at home and I was on the road.

In this episode Mariska and I talk about my horrible voice from having a cold, as well as the state of her super gross tumor, and when and how you decide if it is time to put a dog down. We also talk about the challenges of having a crush on your therapist and how to deal with it.

In this episode Mariska and I talk about the challenges of helping people who are struggling with chronic depression and other mental health challenges. Does there ever come a time when they should be "allowed" to die? When do we give up on them? We explore how I handle resistant clients and tips on calling 988 when in doubt.

In this episode we explore how to draw useful insight out of tarot readings, dreams etc...

In this episode we discuss the state of Mariska's health, how to prepare for the eventual death of a loved companion animal, and Relationship OCD and how that is different from typical overthinking in relationships.

The inspiring Amanda Hill joins Mariska and me to discuss so many things, but what I most enjoyed picking her brain about is the challenge of creating a private practice and expanding it beyond a few clinicians. I learned a lot and I hope you will too.

What do you do if your partner has a crush on a fictional character and it is getting in the way of your relationship?