Ep. 81 I Almost Left My Husband

How do you make a marriage work after nine years, especially when becoming parents changes so damn much? I brought my husband, Sam, on No B.S. Babe to talk about what’s helped us stay close through some of the hardest years of our marriage.We get into communication in marriage, how lonely I felt after becoming a mom, and why Sam sometimes needs a minute to find the words for what he’s feeling. He tells me his favorite part of being married to me (after taking his sweet-ass time 😂), and somehow a sandwich becomes one of my favorite examples of what it feels like to be thought of by your partner.If you’ve ever wondered how to tell your partner what’s really bothering you or how to stay friends when life gets heavy, come hang out with us. And if you want Sam back on the podcast, leave a comment on Spotify or DM me on Instagram. 😂Work with me​$30 Relationship Voice Note — Send me the one relationship question you keep going back and forth on. I’ll help you pinpoint what’s bothering you and find the words to say it. https://calendly.com/leadingladyoflove/ask-ale-private-relationship-advice​Clear As Day Session — Get one-on-one support to talk through what’s happening in your relationship and figure out what you want to say or do next. https://calendly.com/leadingladyoflove/clear-as-dayFollow me on Instagram @all_in_ale

After 8 years of marriage, I was ready to leave my husband.I was overwhelmed, unhappy, and tired of feeling alone in a marriage where I was supposed to have a partner.Now, as we celebrate 9 years of marriage, I’m sharing what happened when I finally told my husband the truth: something needed to change, or I was leaving.In this episode of No B.S. Babe, we’re talking about marriage struggles, resentment, emotional exhaustion, communication, and what it actually looks like when your husband is willing to do the work to save your marriage.Because loving someone doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice yourself to stay with them.And sometimes, a struggling marriage can become a healthy marriage, but only when BOTH people are willing to show up.If you’re questioning your marriage, feeling unsupported, or wondering whether your relationship can improve, this conversation is for you.🤎 Leave a brown heart in the Spotify comments if this episode resonated with you. Need clarity about your own relationship? Book a private relationship clarity session with me. Details below.https://calendly.com/leadingladyoflove/clear-as-dayInstagram: @all_in_ale

You’ve told him what matters to you—but are you still planning every date and managing every detail?In this episode, I share personal stories about the difference between chasing someone’s attention and being with a partner who takes initiative, pays attention, and makes you feel loved and chosen.Have a relationship question? Submit one for $30 and receive a private voice-note response within 48 hours.Submit your question here: https://calendly.com/leadingladyoflove/ask-ale-private-relationship-advice

Are your standards too high, or have you gotten so comfortable protecting your peace that you’re afraid to let someone in?In the first Ask Alé episode, we’re talking about relationships, emotional maturity, communication, and giving people the opportunity to show you who they are.💌 Have a relationship question? Submit it anonymously for a chance to be featured on the podcast.Submit your question: https://forms.gle/cbsxVNbdA8d78Hdh9✨ Need a different perspective on your situation? Book a 45-minute Clear as Day private session for $97.Book your session: https://calendly.com/leadingladyoflove/clear-as-day

Episode 78: Life Is All Just an ExperimentWhat if you stopped trying to figure out the “right” way to live your life and started treating it like an experiment?After taking some time away from the podcast, I’m back with a different perspective. I’ve spent the last year learning, unlearning, reflecting, and realizing that so much of life is simply figuring out what works for you.In this episode, I’m talking about stepping outside of society’s expectations, learning what you want through experience, allowing yourself to be a beginner, and following the things that bring you joy.I’m also in the middle of my own experiment.I’ve built so much of the life I once dreamed about: love, marriage, motherhood, our home, and the ability to stay home with my daughter. And now I’m asking myself a new question:What do I want next?I don’t have the answer yet.So instead of forcing one, I’m focusing on myself, taking care of my body and mind, exposing myself to new ideas, and seeing where it leads.Because maybe we don’t need to have life figured out.Maybe we just need to be willing to experiment.

It’s been since September 10th since my last episode, and I’m finally ready to share what’s been unfolding behind the scenes. From postpartum healing and nervous system burnout to discovering my calcium shell, this season of life has been all about slowing down, softening, and rebuilding safety within myself. If you’ve been feeling disconnected from your body or simply tired of carrying it all,this one’s for you. 💛

This is the rawest episode I’ve ever recorded. I didn’t expect to cry, but the truth is, healing the mother wound and breaking toxic family cycles isn’t easy.In this episode, I share what happened when I sat down with my mom after 2.5 years of no contact. From setting boundaries to confronting disrespect, I open up about what it looks like to protect your peace, even when it’s family.✨ Lessons I Took From This Conversation: • You can’t force accountability. Some people will never see their role, and waiting for them keeps you stuck. • Boundaries aren’t punishment. They’re self-respect, even when they’re uncomfortable. • Clarity breaks cycles. Seeing the pattern is the first step to interrupting it. • Love requires mutual respect. Even family relationships can’t thrive without it.If you’re navigating toxic family dynamics, struggling to set boundaries with your mom, or healing generational trauma, this episode will speak to you.At the end, I share about Bloodline Breaker, my 3-month program for women ready to stop repeating painful family patterns and finally receive the love they’re worthy of.Bloodline Breakerhttps://forms.gle/wZXrpu9J3yfdauBK6

I’m in the thick of it—navigating marriage, motherhood, and the deep questions no one wants to ask out loud. Do I stay? Do I go? Can love survive survival mode?This episode is raw, real, and straight from my heart. If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying it all and still questioning everything, you’re not alone.Book a 30-minute tarot session ($33) to get clarity in your own chaos. Limited spots available.https://calendly.com/leadingladyoflove/33-mini-reading-real-time-tarot-truths-30-min-zoom

Ever wonder what your life could look like if you made one different choice? In this raw and powerful episode, I break down the concept of timeline jumping—how every decision you make creates a new reality, and how you can consciously choose a higher one. I share my personal story of calling in love, rewriting generational patterns, and co-creating with the universe to live a magical, supported life. From healing after toxic relationships to finally choosing myself (and Sam), this episode is your reminder that you’re not stuck. You’re just one aligned decision away from everything changing.If you’re done settling, this is for you.Links to Love on You Lounge + mentorship below 💋Love On Youhttps://www.paypal.com/webapps/billing/plans/subscribe?plan_id=P-5WD97035XE919990ANAVF2KA

did you forget who the fuck you are? this episode is your wake-up call. i go deep into the stories that shaped me—the heartbreaks, the father wounds, the fertility miracles, the business leaps, the love i manifested, and the moments that reminded me i am the magic. this one’s a full-blown stream of consciousness transmission… if you’ve been spiraling, doubting, settling for crumbs—press play. light one up or grab your journal and let’s remember how powerful you really are. and if you want me in your corner for real, the love on you lounge is waiting.Deep End Immersionhttps://calendly.com/leadingladyoflove/new-meetingEmail me to get inside the Love On You [email protected]