Our First Chat About Getting Everything You Both Want in Marriage

In this episode Mark and Matilde discuss their intense marriage breakdown or breakthrough conversation that led to this podcast coming to life. TakeawaysVulnerability is the key to crossing the bridge of intimacy.Intense conversations and deep inner work are transformative. Devotional dependency and surrender are essential for a fulfilling marriage.Reclaiming libido for life and radical hope are key to a successful and joyful married life.Chapters00:00 The Bridge of Intimacy10:26 Metaphor of the Bridge17:24 Intense Conversations and Vulnerability24:14 Deep Inner Work and Self-Mastery29:44 Letting Go of Resentment37:12 Deserving Happiness and Glass Ceiling45:12 Spirituality and Devotional Dependence54:44 Vision and Surrender01:03:46 Reclaiming Libido for Life in Marriage

SummaryIn this episode, Mark Usher discusses how to silence your inner critic and create a transformative year in your marriage for 2026. He emphasizes the importance of identifying cognitive distortions that hinder personal growth and relationship fulfilment. Mark introduces the concept of a 'North Star' vision, encouraging listeners to manifest their deepest desires and set meaningful goals for their marriage. He highlights the need for commitment, courage, and ongoing conversations with your partner to achieve a fulfilling and joyful married life.The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:1. You’ll eliminate your inner critics capacity to self-sabotage your freedom and fulfilment in 20262. You’ll have a simple tool to help you discover what exactly you want to manifest beyond your deepest fears.3. You create something infinitely more powerful long-term than setting a random new years resolution that’s statistically doomed for failure.Don't Miss Out on €15000 of Savings on your path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship: 4 days left and only 2 spaces available!!!Coaching - Heroic Husbands

The 3 benefits you'll gain from listening to the end of this episode are:1. You'll have a truly surprising gift she actually loves2. It's a free gift BUT STILL holds more value than even the most expensive gift you purchase her.3. It shows you inarguably love and passionately want ALL of her.FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship (and SAVE €15000)?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.Send Mark voice message Now

Summary In this episode, Mark Usher discusses how to silence your inner critic and create a transformative year in your marriage for 2026. He emphasizes the importance of identifying cognitive distortions that hinder personal growth and relationship fulfilment. Mark introduces the concept of a 'North Star' vision, encouraging listeners to manifest their deepest desires and set meaningful goals for their marriage. He highlights the need for commitment, courage, and ongoing conversations with your partner to achieve a fulfilling and joyful married life. The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll eliminate your inner critics capacity to self-sabotage your freedom and fulfilment in 2026 2. You’ll have a simple tool to help you discover what exactly you want to manifest beyond your deepest fears. 3. You create something infinitely more powerful long-term than setting a random new years resolution that’s statistically doomed for failure. Don't Miss Out on €15000 of Savings on your path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship: 4 days left and only 2 spaces available!!! Coaching - Heroic Husbands

The 3 benefits you'll gain from listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You'll have a truly surprising gift she actually loves 2. It's a free gift BUT STILL holds more value than even the most expensive gift you purchase her. 3. It shows you inarguably love and passionately want ALL of her. FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship (and SAVE €15000)? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic Husbands I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll know the two highest leverage 30secs periods in each day to practice being a great husband for maximum effect. 2. You’ll know how to tap into peak human memory research to make a great impression that lasts in your wife’s mind for hours. 3. You will be able to set two daily 30-second habits that will transform your marriage. FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic Husbands I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand the root cause behind all your marriage troubles. 2. You’ll have a simple everyday practice to help build your capacity for welcoming happiness and joy into your marriage and life experience. 3. You’ll be able to set a rock solid foundation in your core to support you rebuild the married life of your dreams. FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic Husbands I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now

The 3 benefits you'll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1.You'll eliminate self-doubt and fears of rejection that haunt most husbands in initiating sex. 2.You'll be able to access a space where you feel more fearless in leading your wife sexually. 3.You'll stop being a Mr Nice Guy feeling you need to land your sexual invitation like a waiter asks if you'd like to see the wine menu. FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic Husbands I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll start remembering how natural it is to simply express “What it is that you want.” 2. You’ll understand the easiest path to getting what you want is clearly expressing what you do NOT want. 3. You’ll hear about the biggest transformation in the podcast since I began. FREE Presence, Progress + Protection Marriage Self-Assessment questionnaire and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic Husbands I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now

The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are: 1. You’ll understand how to master your emotions in seconds, no matter what pressure you’re experiencing. 2. You’ll have a practice used by Olympians, military commanders, CEOs and other peak performing men, ready at hand for the most challenging leadership position on the planet. Being a husband. 3. You’ll be able to direct every conversation to the runway of connection and trust by using this. Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship? Coaching - Heroic Husbands Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform: Community Platform - Heroic Husbands Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment: Home - Heroic Husbands I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message Now To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast