185. Future Identity

The fastest way to create your future is to start becoming that version of yourself NOW.Most people spend too much time looking at their past to determine what they’re capable of.They replay old experiences, failures, relationships, and decisions, allowing their past identity to dictate their future.But your past doesn’t determine what’s possible for you. Your future identity does.In this episode, I’m sharing the process I used to make some of the biggest transitions in my life. From banking to ICU nursing, to becoming a Flight Nurse, and eventually retiring from Flight to become a full time Life Coach.I didn’t wait until I had the experience or evidence that I could do it.I started believing in the person I wanted to become BEFORE I became her.And that changed everything.I’m walking you through how to create your future identity ahead of time so you can stop second guessing yourself, build confidence before you have the evidence, and take action toward the life you actually want.You can start becoming your future self TODAY and accelerate how quickly you get there.Because time is our most valuable resource, and we only get ONE life to create exactly what we want.Ready to stop looking to your past and start creating your future?Book a consult below. Let’s build your customized plan to strengthen your self trust, accelerate your results, and get your time and energy back.Book a ConsultJoin The Shift

Every time you try to prove yourself to someone else, you’re giving your POWER away.And most of the time, you don’t even realize you’re doing it.You start a new job and feel like you have to prove you’re capable.You step into a leadership role and worry about whether people trust you.You hold back from speaking up because you don’t want to look stupid.You say what you think people want to hear instead of showing up as YOU.THAT is people pleasing.And it’s exhausting.Because you’re spending so much energy trying to control what other people think about you instead of trusting yourself.You can do EVERYTHING to earn someone’s approval, and they still might not give it to you.Your confidence cannot depend on someone else’s opinion of you.In Ep. 184: Stop People Pleasing, I’m walking you through 4 simple steps to get out of proving energy and take your power BACK.You’ll learn how to show up authentically, stop giving other people’s opinions so much power, recognize your own strengths, and generate confidence and self-trust from within.Imagine walking into a new job, a new role, or a challenging situation and knowing…I trust myself.I can handle the pressure.I will figure it out.Not because everyone believes in you.Because YOU believe in you.That’s the kind of confidence that allows you to play bigger, lead stronger, and stop wasting your time and energy trying to prove yourself.If you’re tired of overthinking what everyone else thinks about you, GO LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE NOW.And if you’re ready to stop people pleasing and start creating your own confidence, book a consult below.Let’s get you out of proving energy and back into your POWER.Book a 1:1 Consult Here Join The Shift

This is a replay of most listened to episode. One of the most common questions I coach people through is:How do I show up confidently in something I've never done before when I don't have the time or experience yet?In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of a real coaching session and show you exactly how I help someone build confidence before they have the evidence.You'll hear how we move from self doubt to a clear plan, how confidence is created ahead of time, and what it's really like to have a coach helping you navigate uncertainty.You no longer have to struggle alone. Having a coach can help you get out of spinning and overwhelm, create a clear plan, and move forward with clarity instead of staying stuck.If you've ever felt held back by inexperience, this episode will change the way you think.It's also a glimpse inside The Shift, where we build confidence, create momentum, and learn how to show up as our highest selves both at work and at home.Join us inside The Shift HereBook a Consult for 1:1 Coaching

It’s time for Vulnerability.I wanted to share with you in this Podcast Episode My Biggest Shift that I have made yet and how I am personally navigating it.I think there is great opportunity to get to know yourself in big shifts and transitions in your life, and as a person who has made 4 career shifts and many other personal shifts my whole life…I have learned the steps that help me navigate them more honestly.On this episode, I walk you through the 4 steps I am currently using and teach, to navigate a really big change in your life and how to trust and love yourself all the way through it.I also share with you the two thoughts right now that are on repeat in my brain and that are carrying me through some really tough moments.If you are in the middle of Shift and want more clarity of how to do it Confidently…Book a Consult Here.Let’s chat about where you are now, and where you want to be.Because, Shifts are your opportunity to learn more about yourself and get clearer about what you really want.

Being Overwhelmed is not a problem. It’s our cue to know it’s time to tap into more capability. As a doer and overachiever, we will constantly be feeling the need to do this as we stretch, learn, and grow. This will continually be asked of us, so when we can start to think of our capability as infinite versus hitting a ceiling, that’s how things can start to become easier and more doable. On this episode, I walk you through 3 simple steps to tap into more capability and why these steps will help you expand yourself during hard moments.  When you can learn to do this, then you’ll realize how much CONTROL you have over your life, especially when hard things are thrown your way. You will always feel like you have POWER over them versus them having power of you. When you feel empowered then you realize YOU can make the change to FEEL better, versus waiting for things to get easier or for others to change.  This is life changing to have this much control over your life and happiness. If you are ready to grow your capability and confidence to handle the hard and have control over your life again, book a consult for 1:1 Coaching. On this call, we talk about where you are at, where you want to be, create a plan, and see if Life Coaching is a good fit for you. Stop waiting for life to change, start empowering yourself to take back control of it.  I’ll help you do just that.  Book a 1:1 Consult Here     

I’m seeing a lot of my clients and people struggling with hard things in their life and I am watching them want to pull back, instead of leaning in powerfully. I watch a lot of them pull back and wait to finish going through the hard, instead of leaning into the hard powerfully.  I believe if we can learn to do this, this is the moment when we can make the most impact in our lives and world.  This is where we learn to grow our capability to handle the hard and become the person who shows up powerfully to their own life. Because, life will always be hard, so WHO do we have to become to always be able to navigate it. This is where I believe having a managed mind can change your life.  In this episode, I talk about the 3 simple steps to Manage your Mind, especially through hard moments AND the results being able to do this can give you. One result includes becoming the person who no longer has to hustle or overwork for growth and who learns to go for really big goals because you can be in flow and momentum longer. You have more control over your life. You LEAD your life.  Listen into this powerful episode on Apple Podcast or Spotify, or click on bio now. And, if you are ready to learn to manage your mind to show up powerfully in your life, to navigate the hard, and make more of an impact powerfully… Book a Consult for 1:1 Here  I have a few spots opening up and I’d love to teach you how to show up more confidently to your life and your Big Goals.  Stop waiting for it life to become easier… Become the person who can handle the hard.  

This Week’s Podcast Episode is a replay of the last Webinar: How To Set Big Goals AND Follow Through. I talk about why setting BIG goals matters and the 4 simple steps to help you not only make them, but see them through to the finish line. Setting Big Goals is the pre-requisite to living your dream life. Come find out how to have more Fun in goals setting, and the tools used to create momentum in the last 90 days of the year. This is how you grow your capacity to become the version of yourself that can do ANYTHING. Come join us inside The Shift, we are doing a 30 Day Challenge in the month of October to help you finish out this year strong and step into possibility of creating your dream life.  Click below for info to join. We start our first call October 1st. Become Unstoppable.  I’ll show you HOW.Join The Shift & October Challenge!Book a 1:1 Consult  

Join me on this replay of an IG Live, as I talk about exactly why setting BIG Goals matter right now in the last 90 days of year and how it can help you finish the year with more Confidence. I go through exactly what we will be covering in our 1 hour together on: Free Webinar: How To Set BIG Goals AND FollowThrough on Wednesday, 9/30 @ 10am PST over zoom. You will get a chance to create your goal, get clear about the plan, and have an opportunity to get coached live on obstacles that might come up for you. If you are feeling comfortable, bored, or ready to challenge yourself to have FUN again by setting a BIG goal, this is the Webinar you want to be on. We are born for growth and learning for a reason, and I’m going to teach you HOW to have the energy and FUN with it again, to create the momentum to finish this year with so much Confidence in yourself.  I’ll meet you there. Let’s go get it.  Sign up here for WebinarP.S. There are two ways to work with me. Inside The Shift Life Coaching Program Here, or you can book a Consult to work with me 1:1 Here.

Have you ever wanted someone to shake you and remind you of WHO you really are? This week’s episode you’ll get first hand access to the Pep Talk I gave myself this week, to awaken myself back to my dream life and my goals this year, AND the one I want to give you to shake you back into going after what you really want. If you have found yourself spinning in overwhelm, indulging in confusion about your life, or asking yourself if you have been doing enough, then this episode is for you. If you want that dream life and BIG results then it’s about becoming that person WHO is powerful enough to overcome all your brain’s nonsense. I talk about the signs of being stuck in your head, and HOW to get yourself out of it NOW, instead of spending the next couple of months continuing to waste time and energy.  When you can overcome this then you can MOVE. And, sometimes the first step is the hardest. Then, come join us inside The Shift. In the month of October we are doing a 30 day challenge towards a personal & and professional goal. We will be making a plan, working through obstacles, and powerfully coaching you through the finish line. Click below to join us inside the Community and the Weekly Calls.  And, let’s go get it. Join The Shift Book a Consult for 1:1

In this Week’s Podcast Episode, I get really personal and let you in on some Identity Shifts I am currently making, and all my feelings surrounding them.I think a lot of people talk about how great it feels after they have made one, and they skip over the terrible feelings that they experience in the in between.I walk you through real time emotions that I am feeling and the 6 steps I take myself through each time I make an Identity, professional, or personal Shift in my life.Come find out what I am navigating real-time and how I have learned to support myself through them.And, if you are navigating an Identity Shift and want support to confidently become that person, I have got you.Click below to find out more about working together.Join The ShiftBook a Consult for 1:1 Coaching