Divorcing a Narcissist? Family Law Attorney Explains What Happens Next: Erin Schaden

"Love your kid more than you hate your ex."In this comprehensive, deep-dive interview, Robert sits down with 30-year family law veteran and divorce coach Erin Schaden to pull back the curtain on the "wasteland" of family court. This isn't just a conversation about law—it's a survival guide for parents dealing with high-conflict personalities, narcissistic exes, and a legal system that often feels irretrievably broken.What we cover in this full session:The High-Conflict Playground: Why the courtroom is a "magnet" for narcissists and how they use litigation to stay connected to you through chaos.The 80/20 Attorney Rule: Why 20% of lawyers thrive on conflict, and how high-conflict people "find their own" in the legal pool.The Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) Crisis: The danger of under-trained "neutrals" and the "Great Delay" that keeps families in limbo.The "Kitten & Blanket" Analogy: A powerful look at how childhood trauma creates adults who are addicted to conflict.Radical Solutions: Erin’s proposal for a pilot program to bypass traditional evidence rules and give judges the power to be "Deciders."The "Dads in the Middle" Debate: A raw discussion on judicial bias,  and why men often suffer in silence during divorce.The Success Roadmap: Erin’s "Awareness, Acceptance, Action" framework for finding stillness before filing.Connect with Erin Schaden:Website: ErinSchaden.comInstagram: @DivorceCoachErinFree Resource: Message "GUIDE" to Erin on social media for the Divorce Survival Guide.#divorce #highconflictdivorce #narcissisticabuse #familycourt #childcustody #divorcinganarcissist #coparenting #custodybattle #familylaw #divorceadvice #singleparent #parentingafterdivorce #toxicrelationships #DivorceStrategy #fatherhoodSend us Fan Mail

In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, country music hit songwriter and artist Drew Parker opens up about fatherhood, faith, and the life-changing moment that led him to transition into Christian music after years of success in the country music industry.Drew Parker has written chart-topping hits for artists like Luke Combs, Blake Shelton, Jake Owen, and Zac Brown—including the Grammy-nominated song “Doing This” and the 5x Platinum hit “Forever After All.” He’s toured stadiums across the country and performed at the legendary Grand Ole Opry.But at the height of his career—touring with Luke Combs and playing sold-out stadiums—Drew felt something wasn’t right.After praying for direction, his non-believing manager called him days later with a dream that would ultimately change the course of his life and music career forever.In this powerful conversation, Drew shares:The moment he knew he was called to something moreHis transition from country music to Christian musicHow success impacted his identityWhat it means to be a “Girl Dad”The struggles of balancing work and familyWhy obedience changed everythingThe story behind his new song “Blame Jesus”This is a must-watch episode for dads navigating purpose, faith, career pressure, and what it really means to lead your family well.🎧 Subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, faith, and personal growth.Drew Parker https://www.drewparkermusic.com/Drew Parker on Instagram @drewparkerplaysSend us Fan Mail

Divorce doesn’t end parenting — it changes it.In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, family lawyer and author Gabriella Pomare shares powerful insights on collaborative co-parenting, high conflict divorce, healthy communication, and protecting your children after separation.If you’re struggling with:Co-parenting with a difficult exHigh conflict custody situationsParallel parenting vs collaborative parentingCommunication breakdown after divorceSetting boundaries with your exBlended family dynamicsHelping kids cope with divorce…this episode is for you.Gabriella explains the 4 pillars of effective co-parent communication:ListenPauseReflectRespondShe also shares:What most divorced parents get wrongHow kids internalize conflict (even when you think they don’t)What to do when the other parent won’t cooperateHow to model maturity for your childrenWhy some adult children cut off their parents later in lifeHow to navigate holidays and blended family stressThis conversation is practical, honest, and deeply important for any parent navigating separation or divorce.Remember: It’s not about winning. It’s about your children.🎙 Guest: Gabriella Pomare 📘 Author of The Collaborative Co-Parent 🌎 Website: https://www.thecollaborativeco-parent.com 📱 Instagram: @thegabriellapomareSubscribe for more conversations about fatherhood, divorce, parenting, and becoming the dad your kids need.Send us Fan Mail

What if one week away could transform your relationship with your child—and your relationship with God?In this episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, host Robert sits down with Rob Hinkle, Guest Engagement & Generosity Advisor at JH Ranch, to unpack what makes this legendary Christian guest ranch one of the most life-changing experiences for fathers, families, and men.From its humble beginnings in Northern California to its global impact, Rob shares the powerful story behind JH Ranch, a faith-based guest ranch focused on restoring hearts, strengthening families, and creating generational transformation. This conversation dives deep into father-child relationships, biblical leadership, men’s spiritual growth, and why intentional, distraction-free environments matter more than ever.You’ll hear about:The mission and history of JH RanchWhy they say “We’re not a camp—we’re a guest ranch”Father-son and father-daughter experiences that change livesMen’s retreats focused on healing, purpose, and masculinityFaith, vulnerability, and community among menTeen anxiety, technology, and why unplugging mattersHow every activity—from zip lines to wilderness solos—has purposeGlobal impact through JH Outback and leadership programs worldwideWhether you’re a dad, husband, or man searching for deeper purpose, this episode will challenge and inspire you to invest intentionally in your faith, your family, and the legacy you’re building.🔗 Learn more about JH Ranch: jhranch.comDad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodads🎧 Subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, faith, leadership, and personal growth.Send us Fan Mail

What happens when the one thing you’ve built your entire life around—your identity as an athlete—disappears overnight?The Summary: In this episode, Robert Poirier sits down with TJ Void: author, TEDx speaker, and basketball coach. TJ shares his raw and honest journey from being a standout player in Texas to the heartbreaking moment he walked away from Division 1 basketball, leading to a period of depression and a complete loss of self.TJ opens up about the "superpower" of his competitive nature, the "Rudy" comment that broke him, and the terrifying night that changed his life forever. Whether you are a parent, an athlete, or someone currently navigating a massive life transition, TJ’s insights on "humanizing yourself" and finding value outside of your achievements are essential listening.How to Find TJ Voidhttps://tjvoid.net/on IG https://www.instagram.com/tjvoid/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

Why do so many men struggle in marriage, faith and leadership - despite doing everything right?In this raw conversation, Kyle Carnohan breaks down ego, masculinity, marriage and what it truly means to lead as a man.In this powerful episode of the Dad to Dad Podcast, Robert sits down with Kyle Carnohan, founder of Superhuman Fathers, to explore the hidden battles men face in marriage, fatherhood, faith, and identity.Kyle speaks openly about ego, submission, leadership in marriage, sexless relationships, spiritual awakening, and why so many men feel lost- even when they’re successful. This conversation goes deep into what it really means to be a man of faith, how ego sabotages relationships, and why true leadership starts with humility.Topics covered include:Why ego is the biggest threat to men and marriagesThe real reason many marriages become sexlessWhat “dying to self” actually looks like in daily lifeFaith, masculinity, and hearing God’s voiceWhy men confuse vulnerability with weaknessLeadership, submission, and restoring connection with your wifeFatherhood, discipline, and preparing children for lifeSend us Fan Mail

Many parents love each other deeply - yet quietly struggle with intimacy after kids, stress, and years of responsibility take over.In this powerful episode of the Dad to Dads Podcast, intimacy coach Dan Purcell shares how sexual connection, communication, and emotional safety directly impact marriage, parenting, and overall family health.Dan opens up about his own journey from a conservative upbringing where sex wasn’t discussed, to helping couples rebuild intimacy without shame, pressure, or obligation. This conversation goes far beyond the bedroom — touching on trust, communication, stress, parenting, and what it really takes to maintain a strong marriage in midlife.If you’re a parent feeling disconnected, exhausted, or unsure how to talk about intimacy in your marriage, this episode offers practical insights, relatable stories, and a healthier framework for rebuilding connection.In this episode, we discuss:Why intimacy problems are extremely common among parentsHow obligation and “duty-based” sex damages connectionThe role of communication and emotional safety in marriageHow stress, kids, work, and aging affect intimacyWhy “good enough” intimacy is often the goal for busy parentsPractical ways couples can reconnect without pressure or shameThis episode is educational, honest, and designed for parents who want stronger marriages — not perfection.👇 Let us know in the comments: What has been the biggest challenge to intimacy in your marriage since becoming parents?🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with another parent who may need to hear it.RESOURCES MENTIONEDDan Purcell’s App: Intimately UsFree Resources for Parents: https://getyourmarriageon.com/dad2dadsPodcast: Get Your Marriage OnSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, Jeannie Elbing - The Gen Z Anxiety Therapist - discusses one of the biggest concerns parents face today: Why are teens so anxious?Jeannie works with teens and young adults and shares what she sees every day in her practice:Why anxiety is rising faster than everThe impact of social media, comparison culture, and 24/7 visibilityHow sports pressure and academic expectations fuel stressWhy self-esteem struggles are nearly universal todayHow parental modeling (good or bad) shapes a child’s emotional worldWhen anxiety is “normal” vs. when it’s a clinical concernWarning signs parents should never ignoreWhat to do - and NOT do - when your teen has a bad game, bad test, or bad dayHow to actually validate your child instead of accidentally dismissing themHow to know when it’s time to seek professional helpWhat to look for in a therapist for your teenThis conversation is packed with practical tools for parents who want to better understand and support their Gen Z kids.If you’re a parent of a teen or preteen, this episode is a must-watch.How to find Jeannie ElbingIG https://www.instagram.com/genzanxietytherapist/Dad to Dads Podcast on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, Robert and Chelle Theobald dive deep into one of the hardest questions parents face in relationships: Can you really move forward after betrayal?They unpack why trust takes so long to rebuild, what’s really happening when a partner keeps bringing up old pain, and how couples can stop repeating the same painful patterns.From trauma responses and nervous system repair to learning how to rebuild safety, this conversation gives dads (and all parents) a grounded, compassionate look at what healing actually looks like — not the movie version.If you’ve ever wondered why forgiveness doesn’t seem to “fix” things, or how to start rebuilding real trust after it’s been broken, this one’s for you.How to find Chelle TheobaldIG https://www.instagram.com/completecounselor/ https://www.thecompletecounselor.com/  Dad to Dads Podcast on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail

In this episode, Robert speaks with Dustin Hogan, a specialist in men's mental health. They discuss the common struggles men face, including the search for purpose, the impact of social media, and the importance of vulnerability. Dustin shares insights on how childhood trauma affects adult relationships and emphasizes the need for men to connect and support each other. The conversation highlights the significance of therapy and actionable strategies for improving mental health, encouraging men to reach out for help and build meaningful connections.TakeawaysMen often struggle with finding their purpose and direction.Vulnerability is a crucial aspect of mental health for men.Social media can exacerbate feelings of inadequacy and anxiety.Childhood trauma can have lasting effects on mental health and relationships.Building connections with other men is essential for emotional support.Therapy should include actionable strategies for improvement.Men are often fixers, which can hinder their willingness to seek help.The importance of emotional awareness and communication skills is paramount.Younger generations are more proactive in seeking mental health support.It's vital to find the right fit in therapy for effective support.How to find Dustin HoganIG https://www.instagram.com/iamdustinhogan/https://therapyfordudes.com/Dustin's Ted Talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nWcEtUV4doDad to Dads Podcast on IG https://www.instagram.com/dadtodadsSend us Fan Mail