Collars & Calluses: Episode 57 - "Own It"

Sermon given by Pastor Bill Smith at the Iron Sharpens Iron conference at Grace Covenant Presbyterian Church in Nacogdoches, Texas. 10-18-26

Bill and Rich continue their series on intersexual dynamics by defining “frame” in relation to the masculine mission of bringing God’s order to chaos. They describe frame as the mental, emotional, and psychological fortitude to pursue a God-given mission, closely aligning it with biblical headship, boundaries, self-control, and leadership under pressure. They argue someone always sets the frame in relationships and criticize modern feminist culture for defaulting to a female-controlled frame that encourages male vulnerability without solutions, which they say undermines polarity, attraction, and security. Using examples from Scripture (John 6, John 13, 1 Samuel 30) they discuss women testing men, the “weaker vessel,” and the need for men to remain calm, decisive, competent, and responsible. Contact: [email protected]; Bill: @wrs2_; Rich: @Vicar1973.

Bill and Rich discuss the cultural “frame” feminism has set over the past 150 years, shaping definitions of men, women, relationships, sexuality, and institutions. They distinguish “retail” vs. “radical” feminism, arguing sexual morality, marriage, children, and family life have been sacrificed for the “strong independent woman,” with the state acting as a substitute patriarch through benefits, courts, education, and no-fault divorce. They critique manosphere responses like MGTOW as adopting feminism’s frame, warn against victimhood and “black pill” nihilism, and describe a feminist legal and social climate that enables false accusations and removes consequences. They argue feminism has influenced church interpretations (e.g., David and Bathsheba), promoted “servant leadership” as authority without rule, and fostered feminized piety and worship. They conclude feminism is anti-creational, urge men to reject shame, reclaim duties, and seek godly, feminine women. Contact info: [email protected], Bill on X @wrs2_, Rich on X @Vicar1973. David’s Fall and Restoration: The Anointed King Becomes an Adulterer and Murderer – Pastor Rich Lusk https://trinitypresbham.com/sermons/   -   August 30, 2026

The hosts introduce Collars and Calluses as a “working theology” podcast for young men and launch a series on intersexual dynamics—male/female differences, roles, and relationships—offering a biblically grounded alternative to secular manosphere teaching. They begin by defining feminism not as equality but as an effort to overthrow patriarchy and God’s created order, describing it as pervasive, misandrist, anti-femininity, and often requiring statist force because it is “unnatural.” They distinguish creational patriarchy from cultural forms, argue feminism contributes to social ills (fatherlessness, sexual chaos, abortion, Obergefell, transgenderism), and trace four “waves” from suffrage through fourth-wave gender denial, linking feminism with the sexual revolution and transhumanism. They claim feminism originated in Genesis 3’s inverted hierarchy, criticize complementarianism as an accommodation, and conclude that diagnosing feminism’s influence is strategy and a call to repentance, not whining.

Bill and Rich discuss the legitimacy of denominations, noting they are not the ideal visible unity of the church but are often a providential, pragmatic reality after historic splits and doctrinal disagreements; they emphasize humility, cooperation across orthodox traditions, and “Reformed Catholicity” as a long-term unity project. They explain the CREC’s origins in the mid-to-late 1990s as independent Reformed churches banding together, its pan-Reformed confessional breadth (including 1689 Baptists), and distinctives such as paedo-communion, liturgical covenant-renewal worship, emphasis on covenant family and Christian education, postmillennial optimism, and cultural engagement. They describe CREC polity (presbyteries, triennial council, memorials as gatekeeping statements), COVID-era stances, international growth, a Memorial on Nations addressing both globalism and extreme ethnonationalism. Contact [email protected]; Bill is @wrs2_ and Rich is @Vicar1973. Communion of Reformed Evangelical Churches https://crechurches.org/ “Paedofaith” by Rich Lusk https://me-l.co/g23ajrrs “A Covenant Primer” by Bill Smith https://me-l.co/0ds5ovrv “The Lord’s Service” by Jeff Meyers https://me-l.co/o87v7aws

A sermon by Rich Lusk.

Bill and Rich discuss the debate over women wearing head coverings in worship, focusing on 1 Corinthians 11:2–16 and its interpretive, pastoral, and historical challenges. They argue the passage is complex, connected to broader Corinthian issues like slogans, worship order, and gender confusion, and they question whether “praying and prophesying” refers to leading in worship, especially in light of 1 Corinthians 14. Both state they do not believe an additional fabric covering is compulsory, emphasizing that 1 Corinthians 11:15 presents a woman’s long hair as her God-given covering and that Paul grounds his reasoning in creation and “nature,” not mere culture. They note practical problems with making coverings a liturgical mandate, including implications of sin, unity, and modesty, and they dispute claims of uniform historical practice. For questions, email [email protected]; Bill is @wrs2_ and Rich is @Vicar1973. Head Coverings: What are We Missing? by Jeff Meyers https://theopolisinstitute.com/head-coverings-what-are-we-missing/

Bill and Rich introduce Collars and Calluses, a “working theology for young men,” then conclude their series addressing Eastern Orthodoxy and Roman Catholicism by focusing on praying to Mary and the saints, which they say is drawing some Protestant young men online. They outline how these traditions venerate and petition canonized saints—especially Mary as “queen of heaven”—framing it as part of the communion of saints and citing Hebrews 12, Revelation, and the Transfiguration. Rich argues the practice is non-apostolic, lacks biblical warrant, is forbidden as contacting the dead, and implies divine attributes like omniscience/omnipresence, making it idolatrous; Christians should pray directly to God through Christ. They discuss Marian doctrines (sinlessness, Immaculate Conception distinctions, perpetual virginity, Assumption), affirm “Theotokos,” warn against excessive Marian prayers, note typology (Mary as Ark/new Eve) with limits, and emphasize honoring Mary rightly and the virgin birth’s gospel meaning. Contact: [email protected]. X: @wrs2_ and @Vicar1973.

A series of sermons by Pastor Bill Smith contrasting the Protestant position with Roman Catholicism and Eastern Orthodoxy.

Bill and Rich of Collars and Calluses continue a Protestant critique of Eastern Orthodoxy and Roman Catholicism, focusing on icons and images and their online appeal to young men as “masculine” churches. They describe how icons are prominent in Orthodox worship and treated as essential dogma, with Second Nicaea and the “Triumph of Orthodoxy” condemning iconoclasts, and argue the early church lacked icon veneration for the first 300 years and was historically divided. They contend veneration is an extra-biblical requirement added to the gospel and that distinctions like latria vs. proskynesis/dulia fail because the Second Commandment forbids the bodily act of bowing or kissing images regardless of intent. They emphasize seeking God where He promises to be found—Word and Sacraments—not icons, and warn listeners to think carefully before leaving Protestantism; next episode will address Mariology. Contact: [email protected]; On X - Bill: @wrs2_; Rich: @Vicar1973.