How To Stop Negative Self Talk

Join our 6000+ members at Charisma University!https://bit.ly/3U5DRQKSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn this video, we’ll break down some clips of Robert Downey Jr and Charlie Hunnam to highlight 4 different personality traits you may have that are psychologically attractive to a lot of women. We’ll also go through how you can show you have these traits in a way that feels natural, rather than try hard or braggy. You don’t need every single trait in order to attract someone, this video is meant to give you a menu to choose from. Some come through in the stories you tell, others only require one sentence for you to establish.And yes, both these guys are handsome, but the techniques in this video will help anyone to be more attractive regardless of how you look. Also it’s worth noting, these are far from the only ways to be attractive. There are many other traits we can cover in future videos if this turns out to be a topic you’re interested in. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:40 - Use the story baiting method3:02 - Show that you're a protector4:11 - Be the first to be playful in serious situations4:17 - Make yourself the director of any situation4:44 - Give the spotlight to someone who hasn't had it6:01 - Be a successful risk taker8:47 - Be playfully cocky9:26 - Go over the top with your cocky persona9:54 - Follow cocky statements up with a joke10:31 - Be quick to compliment others11:58 - Tell the story in an attractive way--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#RobertDowneyJR #CharlieHunnam #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get our best tip to turning on confidence in just 60 seconds: http://bit.ly/COC-ConfidenceYTDSo I made an early resolution that I hope you'll like: more YouTube videos!!Specifically I am going to create and release a video at least once a week. Let me know in the comments if there is something specifically you'd like me to cover.Happy 2016 - excited to make these videos a serious priority :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How to approach and flirt with women that you like without being creepy.Get The 3 Ways To Start A Conversation: https://goo.gl/YcTueWThe first ever study of creepiness was done just a few weeks ago, and it had a really interesting result that men and women think of creepiness differently. Men think of creepiness as taxidermy, scary movies and clowns. Women have those same associations plus one more... Women also associate creepiness with men. Somewhere in the course of every mans life while he was flirting he has done something creepy. The reason is that men don't have the same understanding of creepy that women do when flirting.How to Flirt Time-Stamp Guide:0:47 The Goldilocks rule of eye contact when flirting and approaching2:04 Warm Up to social interaction (start making brief eye contact with everyone)2:44 Add a smile, wave or high five and speak to the women who smile back 3:50 When flirting combine your compliments with jokes to release tension5:05 1-3 Second touches on the arm are enough to indicate interest without being creepy 6:25 Pay attention to how receptive she is to physical contact and respond accordingly8:05 Critical Flirting tip avoid making her feel trapped by positioning your own back to the wallLink to Russell Brand Flirting Breakdown:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kaR6-MIV8kSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How Conor McGregor Can KO Floyd MayweatherConor McGregor's unshakeable confidence and extremely powerful visualization rituals make him almost unstoppable.Every boxing analyst is saying Conor McGregor doesn’t stand a chance against Floyd Mayweather. And maybe they’re right - but I have a different perspective because while I don’t know much about boxing, I AM a student of human psychology. And I’ve never seen anyone with a better mental game than Conor McGregor. He is insanely confident, which creates the optimal emotional state for dominating a fight. And a big part of that confidence is how Conor uses visualization to see his victories before they happen.00:30 Three Conor McGregor predictions tmt01:11 Visualize the pregame like in the coming Floyd Mayweather fight03:07 The details: what Conor chooses to visualize04:21 Creating physical manifestations of your vision in the world 06:52 Grounding what you visualize into reality which is pop in Vegas and sports09:10 Time of Visualization like back in UFC as in boxing on Showtime12:00 One also needs to speak as shown in this McGregor VS Mayweather fightSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see our personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupert and @IAmBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 13,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3wYo2SRSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeJohnny Depp’s relaxed confidence on the stand has helped make public perception around his trial with Amber Heard pretty one sided. But as many other witnesses have shown, staying calm and confident is not easy under that kind of pressure. Which is why in this video we’ll be covering 5 things Johnny has done and that you can do to radiate extreme confidence that makes others trust and like you even in high pressure situations. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:32 - #1: Control the cadence of the conversation1:01 - #2: Maintain non reaction seeking body language3:28 - #3: Catch and refuse frames you do not agree with7:03 - #4: Confident people are able to control the emotional tone of an interaction8:39 - #5: Confidence is easier to feel when you have positive reference experiences--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JohnnyDepp #AmberHeard #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2simGTtHow To Influence People (And What Not to Do)Want to know how to influence people? Well, first it is helpful to know what NOT to do. This clip breaks down two different persuasive strategies used on The Voice by Ricky Martin and Joel Madden. You'll learn how self-esteem plays a role in convincing people to do the things you'd like them to do and how to frame your reasons so that people are more influenced by what you have to say.Make sure to implement these charismatic tips in your own life so that people respond to you positively when you make requests of them.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma BreakdownGet the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2CPeople like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all down in this video so that you learn exactly how to make people like you. Use these charisma tips in your own life to make friends quickly and connect with the people you'd like to get to know.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fastest way I know to build your social confidence:https://bit.ly/003-26Dr K is about to win over this chaotic room in 13 minutes, going from the ignored outsider to the person everyone loves.He does it using five techniques most people get wrong, but anyone can learn.0:00 - Intro1:11 - Find out what people respond to1:58 - Join the chaos3:37 - Make the agreement explicit6:03 - Change HOW you talk about it8:12 - Take them somewhere new11:24 - The fastest way to build your social confidenceConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandCredits:Written by Visko MatichEdited by Akash Rajpurohit Directed by Andre Ringkjoeb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

BEST FRIEND BRAINDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EaYfJoSo this is going to be one of those times where I share something I am just getting started on. In fact, I stumbled across this idea this week.I was reading this book recommended by a friend and one of the lines stuck out to me, it was “I’m trying to be a best friend to myself”And I thought hmmmm - so many of the times when i have been upset in my life come from times when I’ve not been a best friend to myself. I want to invite you to spend one week changing your thinking to be more of a best friend towards yourself. I'll be trying the same thing :-)2:49 Feel isolated mentally3:56 Your best friend brain is solution-oriented5:13 Best friend brain has high standards and gives you tough love 6:03 Your best friend brain is flattering Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-FriendshipsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWe are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem.Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day. On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are.So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People0:42 - Proximity1:06 - Join A Flock1:41 - Become A Beacon2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends2:40 - Focus On The Process3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class4:36 - A Shared North Star6:04 - Being A Lifeline7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades9:37 - Constructive Conflict11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change15:02 - Do you want great new friendships?How To Be Happier For The Rest Of Your Life:https://youtu.be/VTOO_9_ECA8?si=U_G6rMULINOQcEd_How To Make A Great Impression:https://youtu.be/NzVrmGjsGWo?si=qCLL0JRa4gT_MMjb https://youtu.be/zDEfjg6ylFA?si=-y5NNf_CskVrS4ZCConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices