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Get your first audiobook and full access to the Plus Catalog for free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit https://www.audible.com/charisma or text to “charisma” 500 500!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeWhy does anyone confess to the police?  While a plea bargain in court might lower your punishment, confessing to police can only hurt you.  Yet people do it all the time.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:15 - #1: They pretend that they're your ally.1:00 - #2: The positive confrontation.3:44 - #3: Interrogators shut down denials immediately.4:36 - #4: They give you a way out with minimization.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #PoliceInterrogations #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Check out JCS - Criminal Psychology:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYwVxWpjeKFWwu8TML-Te9AJoin our 5000+ members over at Charisma University !https://bit.ly/2IKTsplConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3IP43ZHSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn 5 steps that will help you connect with, and then impress, anyone. No matter how unreachable they may seem. We’ll do this by breaking down some tricks used by MrBeast, Tim Ferriss, and Yes Theory to connect with people like Will Smith, Justin Trudeau, Elon Musk, and more. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:16 - #1: Find a low traffic connection1:35 - #2: Be a beacon2:55 - #3: Lead with value6:55 - #4: Abandon first-instinct questions7:15 - #5: Stop hero worshippingConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University: https://bit.ly/COC-009-25Zelensky’s negotiation with Trump went off the rails. In this video, we break down the key mistakes, what he could have done differently, and how you can win high-stakes negotiations.0:00 - Intro0:35 - Caveat1:04 - Who makes the first offer?2:08 - Zelenskyy fumbled this essential point3:55 - Do not beg to get your needs met4:30 - Employ the "friendly f***k no"5:32 - Don't push back in other ways7:16 - The part where things break down8:07 - The Karen Technique8:24 - Zelenskyy gets into it with Vance9:26 - How to recover from these moments10:45 - Unprocessed contempt12:15 - Always have a second option13:27 - Zelenskyy's Fox interview14:09 - Remember that you can walk out14:46 - Learn to master your soft power skillsSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Click here to donate to Charlie & Ben's birthday fundraiser:https://www.charitywater.org/charismaClick here to donate your own birthday: http://bit.ly/2x9sAU1Thank you guys so much! This decade is going to be the best yet :-)- - - - - -An attractive, confident voice can totally change your life, making you more appealing to whoever you're dating, impacting how much people respect your ideas and follow your leadership, even determining how funny people think you are. It completely shapes how people respond to you.And there are a LOT of ways to do it wrong.I absolutely trashed my vocal chords by following some bad advice, which I’ll touch on during this video. It actually got so bad that I needed surgery. I was completely mute for a month recovering, it was a bad time.For the last 8 months I’ve spent many many hours and thousands of dollars working with multiple speech therapists, singing coaches, and Alexander Technique trainers. And I want to share some of the biggest takeaways that can help you have an attractive, confident, healthy voice.1:01 How to have an attractive voice pitch and timbre and the wrong way of doing it1:49 How to have a deeper voice and how to get a deeper voice2:45 How to have a strong, resonant voice that projects and carries 3:25 A common misconception about how to breath into your diaphragm 3:57 Tips to have confidence for public speaking and be more attractive 6:00 Some exercises in how to sound confident and how to speak confidently7:36 How to have a better voice and how to have a confident voice that's more expressive8:55 A special announcement for Charlie's birthday. Happy 30th big guy!And here's the Elliot Hulse video How To Create A DEEPER Voice that I referenced!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The best way I know to quickly improve your confidence: https://bit.ly/CU-2525It’s a scary truth that the most powerful psychological tricks cult leaders use to brainwash their followers can just as effectively be used by toxic partners, manipulative friends, and predatory organizations against people like you and me.That’s why in this video, we’re breaking down each of those tricks - so hopefully you can spot the red flags and avoid falling victim to them too. 0:00 - Intro1:06 - They impersonate the family unit3:02 - They isolate you from your real family unit4:31 - They twist language to disguise what's happening5:52 - They demonize asking questions7:24 - They reward blind obedience9:21 - They use fake reciprocitySubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Easiest Way To Make The Best Friends (Vlogbrothers)Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Eshgu0Hank and John Green of the vlogbrothers are some of the most influential people on YouTube. Collectively, they’re responsible multiple huge channels (including vlogbrothers and Crash Course, which just came out with Sociology) bestselling books and movies like the Fault in our Stars, Harry Potter inspired music and the YouTube conference - Vidcon.In his video we'll cover the Vlogbrothers' (Hank and John Green) unique style of education as well as the genius way they build communities.Link to John's video on depression: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ooCeoh6608&t=5s1:49 Attention first when you communicate as CrashCourse sample4:58 Hank and John Green built a community they are part of5:27 The vlogbrothers talk about what they believe5:57 Nerdfighters share the same beliefs as Hank and John Green9:39 The vlogbrothers keep their focus on other peopleSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma Universityhttps://bit.ly/3FJK40cSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribePeople can be hostile with a fake friendly demeanor. It becomes tricky to know whether to confront them or just smile through it.That’s why In today’s video we’re covering a 4 step method you can use to stand up to rude, passive-aggressive behavior without being a jerk. We’ll be using a tense Robert Downey JR interview we covered in one of our first videos, but we thought an update with more concrete advice and visuals would be useful.  ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:21 - N: Nonverbally warn them to stop2:21 - I: The indirect warning shot3:31 - C: The callout4:48 - E: Exit the situation--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#RobertDowneyJR #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Arnold Schwarzenegger's bodybuilding, political and acting successes were no coincidence.Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2EOIdWyArnold Schwarzenegger is one of the most impressive success stories of our era. He won Mr. Olympia 7 times and put bodybuilding on the map, then he became the highest payed actor of his time, then without any elected experience Schwarzenegger became the governor of California.This kind of success tends to alienate people, yet Arnold has almost always inspired love from the masses. Today we are going to talk about what Arnold did that made his success something people were inspired by despite the fact that he was never particularly modest.Watch how Arnold moves from Admiration to actually being charismatic:2:20 Arnold Schwarzenegger never takes himself too seriously3:17 Arnold turns a bragging story into a likeable one using humor6:14 Schwarzenegger is almost endlessly positive 7:08 An insight into how Arnold cultivates positivity in his life10:00 The powerful "You and I" SwitcharooSubscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover The 4 Necessary Emotions To A Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2EvEGPrWhy Tyrion Will Win The Game Of ThronesGame of Thrones is extremely violent. Yet despite all the bloodiness, most of the power that you see characters like Tywin Lannister or Daenerys Targaryen wield is not through physical force. Rather it comes from mini-conflicts of body language, eye contact, and tonality. Specifically, there is a battle to control the 4 W's.I believe the person to win the Game of Thrones will be the one that best takes control of these 4W's. And one of the best candidates to win is Tyrion Lannister. He may never sit the Iron Throne himself, but I believe that given his incredible command of power, he will be by the ruler's side. Here are the four W's that make Tyrion so special1) When: In this scene Daenerys completely controls the when as Tyrion and Jorah are there at her leisure. She also takes command of the silence.2) Who: Tyrion is great at making himself appear more important. Tywin Lannister is also great at this as he snatches the power from Joffrey, despite the fact that Joffrey Baratheon is king.3) What: Tyrion does an excellent job of controlling what Dany focuses on4) Where: Daenerys' power is completely dependant on where she is - when she finds herself in front of Khal Moro in season 6, it's basically at zeroSo those are the four W's that I believe will win to Tyrion winning the Game of Thrones. Hope you enjoy!Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3oP46xbSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeTommy Shelby was our most requested video ever. So today we’re doing a breakdown that’s long overdue: his frenemy, Alfie Solomons.While you don’t want to be like Alfie in every way, there are 4 habits you can learn from him to instantly command more respect from the people around you. And even though Peaky Blinders is a scripted TV show, all the psychology covered in today’s video will apply to your actual life.How To Be Fearless Under Pressure (Thomas Shelby):https://youtu.be/Hbj4tfokhYc⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:41 - #1: Be calm in situations where most people 2:12 - #2: Hold eye contact during conflict3:30 - #3: Don't let other people dictate where your attention goes5:02 - #4: Be honest even when it goes against your best interests-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #AlfieSolomons #PeakyBlinders #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices