5 Steps To Stop Caring What People Think

Join Our 5000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3T5MrOxSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSmall talk can be a drag - but it’s possible to turn those boring everyday conversations into a meaningful ones where you learn about and really connect with people.That’s why in this video we’ll explore what you can learn from some of the best conversationalists of our era about moving from small talk to deep connection so you never worry about being boring. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro.0:17 - #1: Let people know that you're happy to speak with them.1:59 - #2: Steer towards deeper conversational contexts.3:01 - #3: Use "parroting".3:59 - #4: Advocate for things people are ashamed to have felt or done.5:25 - #5: Pause to acknowledge vulnerability and courage.6:14 - #6: Reveal your own vulnerabilities and unflattering truths.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------#JoeRogan #HowardStern #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 17,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoCBradPittSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeIn today’s video, you’ll learn how to be extremely likable, whether you’re an energetic extrovert or a soft spoken introvert.We’ll cover how to make an amazing first impression AND how to turn that first impression into deep relationships with people that love and admire you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:11 - #1: Charismatic body language- Listening With Warm, Soft Eye Contact.- A Duchenne Smile.- Speaking Through A Smile.- Expansive Gestures.1:34 - #2: Capture attention- A Pre-Story Laugh.- A One Line Hook.2:54 - #3: Making someone feel good around you- Laugh When Someone Makes A Joke.- Adding A Light Platonic Touch And Compliment.- Be Universally Kind.- Playful Teasing.6:31 - #4: Be a shield in their shield wall-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #BradPitt--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join over 21,000 members at Charisma University:https://bit.ly/CoC-004-25This video explores the archetype of the king, its defining traits, and how embodying that mature king energy can boost your self-confidence.0:00 - Intro0:39 - #1) The King has little interest in changing other people's minds1:55 - #2 ) King Energy inspires people around to feel confidence4:18 - #3) Kings define themselves by what they love7:16 - The Burden Test 8:18 - How to offer support8:36 - You must be committed to clear seeing12:07 - Want more?Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandEdited by:Ryan D'SouzaAndre Ringkjøb Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thanks to our sponsor Blue Apron the first 100 people to sign up will get three meals off their Blue Apron order free! Click here: http://cook.ba/2upczfvEveryone in the world is given the same amount of time. Yet some people are able to run multiple startups simultaneously, some people are able to learn amazing skills, and some people don’t seem to be doing much besides treading water. What's the difference between these people? PRODUCTIVITY.So in this video, Ben goes through 6 ways to massively increase your productivity so that you can get twice as much done every day. Or get the same stuff done in half the time, so that you have more time to do what you love doing :-)The goal of productivity is not to get as much random stuff done as possible. These productivity tips are geared towards completing your highest leverage, highest impact tasks.0:54 Killing Bob and getting things done to avoid procrastination2:11 Make work an escape room and improve productivity3:17 Say no to time vampires as one of productivity hacks5:25 Avoid brain-draining activities to help with productivity6:06 Wake up your body to wake up your mind6:50 Time arbitrage is another of many productivity hacks Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Conan O'Brien: How To Be WittyDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2BNrmF6Comedy Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLefV978fp07dqsgcxRNQITnahKaSFgp96Conan O'Brien has an extremely fast sense of humor and wit. When we watch him interact on Conan on TBS or the Team Coco channel, he can seem impossibly conversationally clever, which is why he has had no problem entertaining millions of people for nearly 20 years in interviews and now his Clueless Gamer series.But the truth is that there are principles behind the kind of sharp wit that Conan uses so often. And while his years of comedy training have made him a master, simply understanding the principles and using them in your own life can make people find you much much funnier. So let’s take a look at those principles. 0:48 Out of context analysis with Clueless Gamer as one example3:39 Be specific like how Conan teases Kevin Hart as one example4:36 See the doubling down here by Conan O'Brien and on TBSSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonVideo Editor, Andre: http://www.goandre.comOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Charisma University today!https://bit.ly/017-25My original Jordan Peterson video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nS9W-wlJHPAJordan Peterson has delivered some of the internet’s most iconic debate moments. But his Surrounded video doesn’t quite reach that same level.Many will dissect the substance of the debate—the semantic haze, the definitions, the back-and-forth. That’s not where I want to focus.What matters most in a debate, if your goal is to actually change someone’s mind, isn’t clever semantics, gotcha moments, or even airtight logic. It’s the emotional connection you build through rapport and charisma. That human link is what opens the door to real persuasion.0:00 - Intro1:04 - Focus on amusement3:06 - Use a receptive style of listening6:41 - The Anti NBA Rule10:11 - This makes everything easierSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandEdited by:Andre RingkjoebChristopher Lazzeri Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 18,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/47f6mBuSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThe number one regret of people who are dying is "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."So let’s spend this video going through how you can do just that.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro1:00 - #1: Find your fire2:25 - #2: Create an inner circle3:10 - #3: Decide your core values4:47 - #4: Leave the validation casino7:09 - #5: Self acceptanceConnect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thank you to Audible for sponsoring this video! New Audible members get a 30-day free trial. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text “charisma” to 500 500 to try Audible today!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeElon Musk seems to have a formula for taking an impossible dream and making it a reality.So in this video we’ll go through 6 tricks you can steal from Elon to achieve your most ambitious dreams.  Specifically by learning to think like a genius and find solutions that no one else sees.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:20 - #1: Create a very specific picture of the future.2:08 - #2: Use first principles thinking.3:57 - #3: Focus on delivering value.4:46 - #4: Define your top priority.6:00 - #5: Be willing to polarize.7:31 - #6 Celebrate small victories.-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #ElonMusk #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

5 Steps To Win Any ArgumentJoin our online training course Charisma University: https://www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university/ In this video I’m going to tell you how to win any argument. And I have years of training as a logician as a philosopher here, I can mangle people in debates and we are not going to use ANY of that here. I wasted so much time and damaged relationships with the "right” logical correct argument that SHOULD win. And I can make a video on that if you want, but the truth it would be next to useless when it comes to getting what you truly want.Because we are dealing with people. And throwing the right facts at people without catering to the psychology required to open them up, is destructive to your relationship and to getting what you want. Plus it destroys your ability to be compassionate and truly see things from someone else’s point of view. 0:54 How to win any argument is to edefine what winning means1:54 How to win any argument is to know what they want2:47 Empathizing via statements can help build social skills and mindsets4:01 Aim for self improvement and recognize their positive intent5:21 Build your confidence and make your case Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2EPUGcpWhy Donald Trump Will SMASH Hillary ClintonDonald Trump is going to beat Hillary Clinton and be the next President of the United States.Let me be clear. This isn’t a pro-Trump video. I’m not voting for Trump. But after watching hours of footage of both Trump and Hillary, I have seen an incredible pattern that convinced me to bet $1000 of my own money that Trump would be president. Even though I am not voting for him. That’s how confident I am.Not because I want him to, but because he is head and shoulder above Hillary when it comes to campaigning and you may not have realized why it’s working so well.So let’s rewind one year to see how Trump got to where he is and how that can show us where he’s going. Because as soon as Trump announced, a lot of people thought it was a joke.First he was seen as a joke....Then he started making outlandish statements, dominating the news cycle....Then he took down his republican rivals one by one, naming them Weak Jeb, Little Marco, and Lyin' Ted...And now he has set his sights on Hillary Clinton.Hillary, in the meantime, has demonstrated an ineffective strategy. Her slogan, "Love trumps hate," has Trump's name in it. Her talking points typically come back to the fact that she is a woman, which Trump has labeled "playing the woman card."It has caused her to slip to the point where she and Trump are at a dead heat in the polls. Some even have him up.If this continues, it won't even be close come Election Day in November.Check out Scott Adams' blog: http://blog.dilbert.com/Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices