EP 352: Finding Joy Again After Unthinkable Tragedy with Scarlett Lewis

In this episode, I'm joined by the fabulous Hannah Gould, Melbourne University lecturer and author of How to Die in the 21st Century. Together, we explore a topic that many of us avoid, but in a way that feels gentle, grounded, and even a little bit light. We talk about what happens when we actually turn toward the idea of death instead of pushing it away, and how doing so can bring a surprising sense of calm. This conversation is an invitation to look at something often seen as heavy or uncomfortable and discover that it can actually create more peace, perspective, and presence in your life. If you've ever felt uneasy thinking about death, avoided the topic altogether, or struggled with loss and not knowing how to process it, this episode will support you in a really beautiful way. We talk about: Why talking about death can actually reduce anxiety, not increase it What "death neutral" means, and why it can feel like relief The hidden ways death avoidance shows up in high-functioning women How to talk about death and grieving when no one knows how Where to find Hannah: Website: https://www.hannahgould.com/ Instagram: @hrhgould 💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Apply for a free Anxiety Relief call to chat to Georgie about joining The Calm Woman Collective: Click here 🎥 Watch my FREE Becoming A Calm Woman In 2026 Masterclass for women with high-functioning anxiety: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here

In this episode, Georgie explores what so many of us are feeling right now: the relentless weight of the news cycle, the uncertainty, the noise, and the low-grade anxiety that comes from trying to make sense of a world that feels increasingly unpredictable. Rather than offering false reassurance, Georgie gets honest about why this moment feels so intense, and then walks you through four grounding practices to help you reclaim your sense of self when everything outside of you feels unstable. From setting intentional boundaries around what you consume, to returning to the certainty that already lives within you, to questioning the narratives being handed to you and choosing where you direct your attention, this episode is a reminder that while you can't control the world, you are never without agency.   💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Apply for a free Anxiety Relief call to chat to Georgie about joining The Calm Woman Collective: Click here 🎥 Watch my FREE Becoming A Calm Woman In 2026 Masterclass for women with high-functioning anxiety: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here    

In this episode, I'm joined by the incredibly inspiring Scarlett Lewis, founder of the Choose Love Movement. Scarlett is the mother of Jesse, who was tragically killed in the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting in 2012. When I first heard her speak about forgiving the shooter, I was deeply moved and I knew we had to have this conversation on the podcast. This episode explores how we navigate unimaginable shock and grief, and the profound choice we all have when faced with tragedy: to live from fear and anger, or to choose love. Scarlett shares how she found her way through the darkest moment of her life and how that journey became the foundation for a global movement teaching children and communities how to respond to challenges with courage, compassion, and connection. If you've ever experienced loss, supported someone through heartbreak, or wondered how healing and forgiveness are even possible after tragedy, this conversation will touch your heart and leave you feeling deeply inspired. We talk about: Moving through shock and grief, and finding your way back to real moments of joy How the Choose Love Movement is shaping the next generation of children Forgiveness as a practice that can give you your power back (without bypassing the pain) How to create meaning after loss, and let love become something you live and pass on Where to find Scarlett: Website: chooselovemovement.org Instagram: @chooselovemovement 💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Apply for a free Anxiety Relief call to chat to Georgie about joining The Calm Woman Collective: Click here 🎥 Get instant access to The Nervous System Reset Workshop: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here

In this episode, Georgie shares an honest take on the nervous system regulation world, and why it can sometimes become so jargon-heavy that it pulls you further into your mind instead of back into your body. She explores the recent criticism and debate around Polyvagal Theory as a reminder to hold any framework lightly, and to stay connected to what actually helps you feel safer, steadier, and more like yourself. This conversation is about simplifying, trusting your instincts, and remembering that your body already has a deep intelligence for soothing and settling. You'll leave feeling less pressure to "do regulation right", and more confidence in listening to what works for you. 💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Apply for a free Anxiety Relief call to chat to Georgie about joining The Calm Woman Collective: Click here 🎥 Watch my FREE The Nervous System Reset Workshop for women with high-functioning anxiety: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here    

In this episode, Georgie speaks to the experience of being in the in-between season, when the old way of life no longer fits but the next chapter hasn't fully arrived. She explores how to stay connected to yourself during the uncertainty, and why pushing for answers can sometimes create more friction in your system. You'll be guided into a more nervous-system-aware way of moving with life rather than against it, so this time becomes less frightening and more meaningful. It's an invitation to trust the unfolding, soften the inner pressure, and let this "void" shape you into more of who you're here to become.     💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Apply for a free Anxiety Relief call to chat to Georgie about joining The Calm Woman Collective: Click here 🎥 Watch my FREE Becoming A Calm Woman In 2026 Masterclass for women with high-functioning anxiety: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here

In this episode, I'm joined by our resident Inner Voice Facilitator, Georgie Bryant. She leads our monthly Inner Voice classes inside the Calm Woman Collective, and she's also a dear friend of mine - we regularly meet to connect with each other's inner voices. If you've been feeling the pull to connect more deeply with your intuition, stop outsourcing your answers, and finally untangle the knots of an anxious mind, this episode is for you. There's never been a more important time to come back to your own inner knowing because anxiety softens when you start listening to the part of you that already knows. We talk about: What your inner voice actually is (and why it's not the same as anxious thoughts) How to tell the difference between intuition and fear How reconnecting to your inner voice builds instant self-trust Simple practices to hear yourself clearly again (even on busy days) Where to find Georgie Bryant: Instagram: @georgiebryantcoaching Website: georgiebryant.com.au --- 💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Apply for a free Anxiety Relief call to chat to Georgie about joining The Calm Woman Collective: Click here 🎥 Watch my FREE Becoming A Calm Woman In 2026 Masterclass for women with high-functioning anxiety: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here

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In this episode, I'm joined once again by the wonderful Erin Claire Jones, a world-renowned Human Design coach and educator. Erin has just released her new book, How Do You Choose? — a guide to what's best for you at work, in love, and in life and it couldn't be more relevant if you've been battling indecision, overthinking, or anxiety about your next step. We explore how understanding your Human Design can give you a personalised blueprint for making decisions that actually work for you — not what society says you should do, not what other people expect, but what feels genuinely aligned with your true self. When you start choosing in this way, anxiety no longer has to shout to get your attention because you're already listening to your inner guidance. If you've ever felt disconnected from what you really want, confused about which direction to go, or stuck in your head looping through options, this episode will bring you so much clarity and self-trust. We talk about: How each Human Design type is meant to make decisions Understanding how your "authority" in your chart influences decision-making Letting go of overthinking and choosing in alignment with your design How aligned choices create more ease, flow and self-trust in life Where to find Erin: Instagram: @erinclairejones Instagram: @humandesignblueprint Community: https://humandesigngenius.circle.so/ Book: How Do You Choose?: A Human Design Guide to What's Best for You at Work, in Love, and in Life (in bookstores everywhere)   ----- 💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Sign up for The Calm Woman Collective: Click here 🎥 Watch my FREE Anxiety Reset Masterclass for women with high-functioning anxiety: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here

In this episode, Georgie shares the perfect morning routine for anxiety - especially if your anxiety hits hardest first thing in the day. She explains why anxiety often shows up in the mornings, what's happening in your nervous system and hormones, and why pushing yourself to "power through" can actually make it worse. Georgie then walks you through the exact steps to take when you wake up feeling anxious, offering a calm, practical approach that helps you feel safe in your body, clear in your mind, and grounded as you start your day. 💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Apply for a free Anxiety Relief call to chat to Georgie about joining The Calm Woman Collective: Click here 🎥 Register for my FREE Becoming A Calm Woman In 2026 Masterclass for women with high-functioning anxiety: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here

In this episode, I'm joined once again by the wonderful Cory Ruth — the women's dietitian you know and love for her fun, relatable content on hormones and PCOS. She's just released her brand-new book, PCOS Is My Power, and we dive into what every woman needs to know if hormones, cycles, or PCOS symptoms have been impacting your mood or anxiety. Cory and I explore the real signs of PCOS (many you might not realise are connected), why it varies so much woman to woman, and the simple nutrition shifts that genuinely make a difference — without the overwhelm, stress, or strict rules the internet often throws at us. If you've ever felt confused, frustrated, or unsure where to begin with your hormones, this episode will leave you feeling informed, empowered, and back in the driver's seat. We talk about: Why women with PCOS need to obsess less over protein (and what matters more) Common PCOS nutrition myths that create unnecessary stress and anxiety How to support hormones with simple, evidence-based nutrition (without restriction) Cory's own journey from confusion and weight gain to balance Where to find Cory: Website: thewomensdietitian.com Instagram: @thewomensdietitian   💫 Ready for a deeper transformation? Sign up for The Calm Woman Collective in full: Click here 🎥 Watch my FREE Anxiety Reset Masterclass for women with high-functioning anxiety: Click here 📚 Get my books The Anxiety Reset Method and Master Your Relationship Anxiety: Click here