I'm Not Drowning Anymore

Today I want to introduce you to Ren, I met Ren in Australia a little less than a year ago when I was walking in Sydney, something about her gentle smile and the way she chose to match a strangers glance gave me a taste of who I have found her to beWe are having today’s chat in Mexico where I’ve had the pleasure of sharing this week with her and getting to confirm what that first encounter showed me, that she is truly one who holds softness, sincerity, and a kind honesty in a way I deeply admire We chat about what it means to find purpose in impacting others positively, how respect and the ability for friends to speak how they feel matters, and the challenge in embracing community and being self reliant She shares what she’s loved in becoming a circus performer, the pride in starting life over in a new country, and the gratitude she feels for what she does in her work Ren is someone that will remind you to be real, be kind, to see others and let yourself be seen in sincerity So tune in today and meet Ren, a joyous and genuine human And to you Ren thank you, thank you for smiling back when I first met you, for taking a chance and joining me in Mexico, and for sharing more of your heart, you are such a gem and I’m so so grateful to have had this time with you

When was the last time you were truly alone?Today I want to introduce you to Ignacio, Ignacio is a human that looks on the life he is living with eyes to learn in ways so many of us, can learn from. He is one that shares openly of how life has been changing him and one that listens and invests his time in showing up in ways a appreciate and admireWe chat about how who we have been, what those that have been in our lives teach us, and the gift it is to get to learn, evolve, and become who we are; how being believed in can change everything, but how believing in ourselves is always enough.He shares how time with others wasn’t always something he put first, but how he deeply values remembering that those times are what the hard work is all for. He shares what it is to be defined by something we do, and how that being our foundation risks being taken from us if we stop, and how who we are is something so much deeper. We chat about time spent alone, how routine and discipline are the greatest factors in succeeding in this life, and how not missing out on yourself matters more than pushing yourself when you need to restIgnacio is one that holds a lot of wisdom, not just for his age, but as a human, as someone who has chosen to let life be felt, to look to who is, has been, and who he is becoming with a heart to see that person and honor what it means to be him; he is someone I respect and admire, and one I’m honored to share with you today So tune in and meet Ignacio, a human that will remind you of the joy and warmth that exists in this world, the treasure of being present and how it changes us, and teach you some fun facts about the mystical things that happen where he grew upAnd to you Ignacio thank you, thank you for the way you fix your attention on who sits in front of you, for how you chose to show up and share time with me, for how you made me feel valued in our time, for the gentle and kind way you are with who you are becoming and the reminder for me to do the same. You are what this world needs more of, and I look forward to seeing you again soon my friend 

What if it all worked out? What if you took a chance and it was better than you imagined?Today I want to introduce you to Ornella a human that chooses to hold on to her sweet side. I’ve found parts of society tries to hold back and at times even criticize women who lead with gentleness; truth is it is a strength to show someone a softness, a smile, and the sweetness in us first, and I’m so grateful for women like Ornella who do just thatOrnella is one that will see you, make you feel welcome, but do so with a genuine and gentle spirit, giving you space to be yourself but letting you know “you are welcome here” in how she interacts with youWe chat about what it means to be a mix of an introvert and an extrovert, how maybe it isn’t all so black and white as we used to be told. We talk about how the presence of one person in her life can calm her and the value of health to know those she loves, and herself can continue to pursue whatever life puts in front of herShe shares how being bullied as a kid impacted her as an adult, how it led her to question and learn to accept parts of herself, and how it causes her to seek to see another with intention We chat about the joy in time spent with others, how opening up our home and what it means to have that space to share with others, how seeing someone’s needs and what will bring them joy beyond a moment allows others to feel cared for, and how accepting the right to our own happiness is enough to pursue the life you dream of Ornella is one that I could sit and chat with all day, someone who reminds me it’s ok to just be myself, someone who will ask with a desire to know, and someone who will remind you It’s ok to be soft and sweet So tune in and meet Ornella, and be reminded that who you are is worth all the happiness in the world, that it’s ok to not have it all figured out, and to give grace to those who love youAnd to you Ornella thank you, thank you for taking the time to share a blanket in the sand, for seeing me, for reminding me the joy it brings you to have friends in your home, for the way you honestly shared about your life, and the honor it is to get to know you. Can’t wait to see you again soon my friend and don’t ever lose your sweet spirit 

What if you just picked up the phone and called someone?Today I want to introduce you to Dylan, I had the pleasure of meeting Dylan while in Barcelona and what stood out immediately was the way he reads others, how someones sincerity causes him to press in and share his own, and how that creates space for connections to be made We chat about how curiosity causes growth, how it can at times be motivated by fear, and how seeking ways to learn and grow reminds us how precious life is. We chat about something we both fear, how my response is at times to simply sleep and ignore it and how superstition plays a role for him We chat about how reciprocation impacts connection, how those that show in action and effort that relationships matter, how it impacts the way we hold on to those relationships in our lives. How there have been times when not being invited was hard, but how knowing yourself and not needing to be present in places we aren’t thought of is not just ok, but important for our own selfHe shares the joy he has in building something, both business and life with his girlfriend, how he is excited for what lies ahead, and how their creating home in different parts of the world has changed them for the betterDylan is a sincere, gentle, and fun soul, one that will remind you to show up for yourself, to create consistency in your own life in ways that go beyond any career or relationship, and one that will inspire you to look to what you want to do in this life and know just how possible it isSo tune in today and meet Dylan, a human living life in a way that reminds us all just how possible joy, fulfillment, and an ability to be present with those close to us truly isAnd to you Dylan thank you, thank you for taking the time to sit with me and share part of your journey, for the chance to know more of how life has impacted you, for your curiosity about humanity and the person in front of you, for you joy and heart to share life with others. It says something powerful when we make time and show up to connect with others, and I am honored to have had the time to share such a space with you.

Imagine this is your last breath on earth? Would it change what you are doing right now? Would it change how you approach what you are doing right now?Today I want to introduce you to Carles, a human that I think has found what it is to know joy in every day, someone who on a bit of a mission if you will to connect and learn from whatever is different in this world, and someone that I believe is using dating apps in the only way I would ever consider using them myselfWe chat about what it means to invest in your health and growth, how you are your greatest asset and how nothing you pour into in this life will matter more, how loss in all its sadness must point us towards the reality that we are still here with a life to live and purpose to fulfill He shares what its like to focus over the last 6 months and shift his thinking in ways that have allowed him to be intentionally more present, how the noise of overthinking can often get in the way of truly living the life we have, and how everything other than death is not a real problem cause we get to go onWe chat about what it means for money to be a consequence of our work and not the goal. He shares what it means to find peace with what claims our attention and also demands nothing all at once, and how we get to impact the world by paying attention to who is in front of us Carles is one that I have had the pleasure of connecting with over the years, but up until this weekend, I hadn’t had a chance to truly sit down with him, I believe we can know someones character within minutes, but I believe it is not just based on our own ability to read someone, but also their ability and willingness to be known. Carles is one that I admire, respect, have learned from, and who truly allows me to be present when spending time with himSo tune in today and meet Carles, I promise you will walk away from this conversation with a perspective both on yourself and connection that will allow you to know joy and another human in a deeper wayAnd to you Carles thank you, thank you for the way you are in conversation, on a walk, or even in a crowd, you are one that holds space well and allowed me the honor of knowing I was not competing for your attention when I spoke, and for allowing me the same in return as you have shared parts of your life. You are an incredible soul that I am truly grateful to call a friend may you continue to say no to anything that does not deserve a yes in your life

This has been a year filled with more change and trials then I care to experience, but life isn't always easy, and I wonder how we might care for each other if we were more honest about the hard times?Sharing a bit of a major life update, and how healing has looked for me as change continues.

What if you didn’t get what you wanted yesterday, what if you became who you were meant to be in your own timing?Today I want to introduce you to Gus, a human with what I can only describe as a gravitational pull, a tangible presence of light, and one that holds space for others to find their potential. Gus is one that might describe himself as a “hooligan” and he is one you are sure to have a good time around, but more than anything he is one that intentionally chooses to use his own life experiences to give back to others He shares what it means to be a free diver, how it healed him from violence and aggression, how he attributes it to saving his life, and how it has given him the tools to express his emotions. How diving has brought different cultures, personalities, and people into his life; and how they have impacted him for the better.We chat about the work we need to be willing to put into a healthy relationship, the honesty we need to give to another for a chance at real connection, and what it means to be real and honest with your own emotions, how a lie is sometimes simply not expressing what you feel in totalityHe shares how he can know when he has pushed himself to capacity, when feelings of darkness, or a lack of tolerance begin to form; what it means to care for ourselves so we have capacity to see things like a dog barking or someone needing help as things that we can come alongside without frustration because we have cared for our well being Gus is someone that shares wisdom, wisdom that comes from a place of humility, wisdom that speaks with a tone of gentle love, a voice that knows what it is to be lost at times, a heart that desires sincerely for others to be whole. So tune in today and meet Gus, a human I admire, for his humility, honesty, joy, and the way he intentionally shares all he is with others, from a meal to a conversation about loss or joy, Gus is one that is a man choosing to be a better man each day and one that is doing all he can to support those around him to do the sameAnd to you Gus thank you, thank you for sharing space with me, for your light, for the way you genuinely speak of all life has taught you, and for your open heart in allowing others to see how life has shaped you. I have the utmost respect for how you show up in this world and it is an honor to know you. May life return to you all the love you continue to give, both to yourself and to those that get to know you. 

Today I want to introduce you to Wahba, I had the pleasure of meeting this human a few years ago on one of my many trips to Egypt and he quickly became someone I could connect with, someone who’s energy and passion for what he does is almost tangible in how he speaks, and someone who not only makes time for those close to him but has welcomed me into those spaces and shared those friends with me as well We chat about what it means to pursue what you love and life overall with a passion that does not wait on others to understand or agree, and what it looks like to value the memories made in the small moments when we get to disconnect and be fully present with those closest to us.He shares how Egypt’s culture is such a combination of its people, its chaos, its food, the religion, and how all of it comes together to be something he missed when living in LA. He shares how being known for his work is one thing, but being valued alongside those closest to him means more than what it is to be recognized for his work alone.We talk about how men and women respond to struggles and how we respond in support to each other, how overthinking can come for all of us, and letting go of perfectionism can allow for more in the end.Wahba is one that shares advice that I believe we all need to hear, in both how we pursue our dreams and how we allow the voices of others to impact those dreams, he is one that speaks with gentleness and kindness, one that is inspiring in how he lives, and one that I admire for how he shows up in this world as a humanSo tune in today and meet Wahba, learn why your life is worth chasing, why Egypt is worth visiting, and what we all can do to leave humanity better than we found itAnd to you Wahba thank you, thank you for always receiving me with such warmth, for making the time to stay connected, for sharing with me the projects that excite you, and inviting me along even if I can’t come just yet. You are a spirit filled with passion and heart and it is a pleasure of mine to know you and share time and space with you always, see you soon my friend 

What have you chosen in life that changed you?I like to think that everyone on this earth is someone who can change us for the better, someone we can learn from, share life with, and celebrate who they are.People like Marco are why I continue to believe that to be true. I spent the past week in Sardinia, and being greeted by Marco in the mornings and sitting and talking in the afternoons quickly became a highlight of my time thereMarco shared with me what it has been in life to make choices, to step towards big changes and step away from parts of life he knew he didn’t want. He shares what it means to listen to someone, to make them feel seen, and why putting yourself in places you are not known allows us to know ourselves and othersWe chat about focus and the determination it takes to complete what you’re are dreaming of, how focus can be a gift, but one if we aren’t careful, can take away from what matters most, and how lack of confidence can keep us from knowing others if we let it.Marco is someone that is thoughtful and kind, someone that presses in to connecting with others and learning how they have experienced life, he is someone that I witnessed care and communicate with others in a way that says “I see you and you matter” I don’t think it takes much in this life to value another, and I agree with Marco that this world would be a better place if we listened more to learn and assumed a little less. If we weren’t afraid, or even if we were, if we took the time to share moments with others.So tune in today and meet Marco, someone that reminded how softness, morning greetings, and simple questions can lead to connections that remind us the value in knowing another And to you Marco thank you, thank you for sharing time with me, for the way you made me feel a sense of ease around you, for the conversations and the chance to know you more. For the way you allowed me to know a part of your life and the intentionality in which you show up in this world. I wish you all the best as you continue to pursue whatever this life brings you my friend 

Sometimes someone asking about who we are and wanting to know can change our life, I know the way people have allowed me to do that over the years has changed mine, and today I want to tell you why this matters to you