
Episode 297-Cynthia Miller-Idriss, Author of Man Up: The New Misogyny and the Rise of Violent Extremism, and Skilled Chronicler of Misogyny and Hate, and Crafter of Reasonable, Data-Driven Remedies
Notes and Links to Cynthia Miller-Idriss’ Work
Cynthia Miller-Idriss is the author of Hate in the Homeland: The New Global Far Right and Man Up: The New Misogyny and the Rise of Violent Extremism. She is an opinion columnist for MSNBC and writes for The New York Times, The Atlantic, Foreign Affairs, The Washington Post, Politico, USA Today, The Boston Globe, and more.
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At about 1:25, Cynthia talks about the run-up to Pub Day, and how it’s different than for her previous books
At about 3:00, Pete asks Cynthia about the unfortunate “timeliness” of her work, especially the book
At about 5:45, the two discuss seeds for the book, as Cynthia expands on the Turning Point Suffragist Museum and its history and importance
At about 7:35, the two discuss the not-so-distant history of misogyny and Simone de Beauvoir, and rising "hostile sexism and misogyny” in the social media and outside world
At about 9:55, Cynthia talks about the silence that often is pervasive regarding “gender policing” how misogyny must be central in more explorations of violence
At about 12:05, Cynthia shares some insightful and profound quotes from young people regarding gender norms and expectations
At about 16:35, Pete and Cynthia discuss Eliot Rodger and a recent school shooter and the ways in which the “warning signs” were so numerous for a long period of time, but resources are often hard to tap into, even from well-meaning parents and adults and friends
At about 21:25, the two discuss The Death of Expertise and ideas of “alternative facts” and a pervasive lack of trust in “experts” and government
At about 23:00, Cynthia responds to Pete’s noting that she purposely avoids naming past shooters
At about 25:00, the two lay out the book’s structure
At about 24:25, Pete reports some eye-popping stats of misogynist violence
At about 26:05 Cynthia and Pete reflect on the profound quote from the book that contemporary girls have “more freedom but less power, and boys less freedom and more power”
At about 24:40, Cynthia discusses masculinity/sexuality paradigm shifts
At about 29:35, Cynthia and Pete laugh and almost cry regarding fitness as being claimed by the masculine right, such as with jeans-clad RFK
At about 30:35, the two reflect on the moral arc of the universe and disturbing trends with Gen Z men
At about 32:20, Cynthia responds to Pete reflecting on Trump voters and his misogyny and fixed and demanding gender rigidity and policing
At about 34:15, Pete notes the “intersectionality” of Christian nationalism and masculinity, and Cynthia expands on the adherents’ beliefs
At about 36:15, the two discuss ideas of “containment” and visceral hatred and misogyny in hate email and chants and lashing out at women
At about 37:20, Cynthia talks about the data that charts female elected officials and hateful attacks, including from online vitriol and memes
At about 39:35, Cynthia talks about people downplaying and excusing male behavior
At about 40:55, More discussion of women needing to be in the home/domestic sphere and women as a “safety net” in parts of the West, especially in the US, even up to Taylor Swift
At about 42:30, Cynthia uses an anecdote from Sonia Sotomayor’s confirmation to illustrate racist/sexist policing of women and women of color
At about 44:50, “bonding through slurs” and online gaming’s influence on misogyny and young men is discussed
At about 48:30, The two discuss some stunning (or not) numbers about the way Andrew Tate is viewed
At about 49:35, Cynthia responds to Pete’s question about what sets Andrew Tate apart
At about 52:10, Scapegoating of sexual and racial minorities is discussed, and the “spiral” of keeping children safe and QAnon, anti-vax, etc.
At about 54:40, Cynthia responds to Pete asking about possible remedies in her book, and how one avoids “preaching” in talking to those who have been radicalized online and off
At about 57:00, Cynthia talks about multifaceted remedies for a multifaceted issue
At about 58:00, Cynthia puts a puzzling and "hilarious" and telling interaction with a young man into perspective
At about 1:02:05, Cynthia shouts out resources provided in the book’s appendix, and how proceeds from the book often benefit and highlight local gender-based violence organizations
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