21 - Lumi Ray: From Cooking Crepes to Being a Famous Porn Star (VIDEO)

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, host Thea sits down with Dasha Bond, a professional dominatrix and sex worker, to discuss her journey from Ukraine to New York's sex work community, the significance of authenticity and diversity in kink, and the production of realistic adult content. They delve into key topics such as negotiation, aftercare, and the challenges sex workers face regarding payment processing and internet privacy.  Further, Dasha explores the critical issues surrounding the decriminalization and legalization of sex work, drawing comparisons to the cannabis industry, and emphasizes the need for expert involvement from marginalized communities in legislative reforms. She also shares practical advice for aspiring dominants, underlining the importance of professional guidance. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off): https://butterwellness.com/  Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Authenticity and Emotional Depth in S*x Work ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Importance of Creating Educational Resources  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦BD$M Dynamics ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Creating Community in NYC for Escorts ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Decriminalization and Legalization of S*x Work 🫦Practical Advice, Negotiation, and Aftercare CONNECT WITH DASHA 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dashbonda  CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Leann Borneman shares her journey of being diagnosed with ADHD and her focus on ADHD and sexuality. The conversation explores the link between ADHD and sexual behavior, highlighting the challenges and sensory issues that arise in intimate relationships. Leann and the host discuss strategies for setting up a successful relationship environment, the importance of communication, and the use of behavioral therapy.  They also address the impact of hormonal cycles like PMDD and menopause on ADHD, emphasizing the need for awareness, creativity, and adaptability in enhancing sexual experiences and connection. This episode offers valuable advice on navigating ADHD in intimacy, fostering understanding, and improving sexual fulfillment. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off): https://butterwellness.com/  Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦ADHD in Media and Gender Discrepancies ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Behavioral Therapy and Environment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦BDSM and ADHD ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Energy Management and Spoon Theory ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Importance of Reputable ADHD Information 🫦The Role of Communication in ADHD Relationships CONNECT WITH LEANN 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bornemanpsychotherapy CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.com Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast

In this episode, Thea and Kaylee discuss the importance of self-awareness, and healthy relationships, and dive into healthy BDSM vs the abuse of power. They differentiate between baby doms and fake doms, delve into altered head spaces, and examine how trauma and attachment styles affect dynamics. The conversation highlights the differences between BDSM and abuse, emphasizing consent, respect, and aftercare, and concludes with advice on vetting partners and the importance of open communication and self-compassion. EPISODE THEMES 📝 03:27 Vetting Partners in the BDSM Community 18:58 Understanding Altered Head Spaces in BDSM 25:46 Cognitive Dissonance in Relationships 35:13 Attachment Styles and the Role of Trauma 45:28 Understanding Narcissism  48:51 The Role of Power Exchange in Healing Attachment Styles 56:22 The Importance of Communication and Self-Reflection 01:04:49 Differentiating Between BDSM and Abuse 01:09:25 Vetting Questions in BDSM CONNECT WITH KAYLEE 💌 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦https://www.instagram.com/kayleerose.life/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦https://kayleerose.nor.by/Home CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 ⁠https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadioPodcast/videos⁠ 🫦 ⁠https://seggstalkradio.com/

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, we engage in a candid conversation with Natasha Miller about sexual wellness, relationships, and intimacy. Natasha discusses her transition from finance to becoming an entrepreneur in the sexual wellness industry, and her experiences with sex clubs and the BDSM community. We explore societal taboos, the importance of communication in long-term relationships, and practical advice on enhancing sexual experiences. Emphasizing mental health, we address how to handle societal pressures around sex, the significance of self-awareness, and the value of trust-based intimacy in healthy relationships. Tune in for insights on building stronger connections and prioritizing personal fulfillment. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ 🫦https://butterwellness.com (SEGGS for 20% off) ⁠🫦https://hudapp.com/seggstalk (Kinky dating app) 🫦https://afterglow.ubpages.com/xothea (Free week of 🌽) 🫦https://www.sensuali.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=seggstalkradio&utm_campaign=seggstalkradio&utm_id=seggstalkradio (Free to sign up!) EPISODE THEMES 📝 🫦Navigating Intimacy in Relationships ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Sexual Education and Awareness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Societal and Cultural Impacts on Sexuality ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges in Sexual Health ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Importance of Physical and Emotional Health 🫦Sexual Techniques and Practices CONNECT WITH NATASSIA 💌 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦https://www.instagram.com/natassiamiller CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadioPodcast/videos 🫦 https://seggstalkradio.com/

In this episode, I sit down with Allison Crosby to discuss the intersections of ADHD, autism, and borderline personality disorder (BPD) with sexuality and mental health. We explore the impact of neurodivergence on sexual experiences, the use of sensory toolkits, and the role of kink and BDSM within neurodivergent communities. Allison shares insights from her professional background, emphasizing the importance of addressing childhood trauma, unmet emotional needs, and individualized therapy. Additionally, we delve into overcoming stigmas and misconceptions surrounding BPD, including hypersexuality and impulsivity, and address strategies for advocating safe and satisfying sexual interactions. The conversation underscores the need for communication, aftercare, and finding the right mental health provider to improve relationship dynamics and sexual well-being. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ 🫦Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off) ⁠🫦HUD app (Kinky dating app) 🫦afterglow⁠ (Free week of 🌽) 🫦Sensuali (Free to sign up!) EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Childhood Trauma and Its Impact ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦ADHD and Its Relationship to Sex ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Autism and BDSM ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Sensory Toolkits ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) 🫦Sensory and Neurological Connections to Sex CONNECT WITH ALLISON 💌 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Instagram CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Youtube🫦 Website

@itsthearose @milli.mayhem @jessetugas

In this episode, I sit down with Nikole Mitchell and share her transformative journey from a conservative religious upbringing to becoming a prominent figure in the sex work industry. She discusses the therapeutic aspects of sex work, handling fame, and maintaining authenticity while addressing societal stigmas. The conversation covers her experiences with OnlyFans, sugar dating, BDSM, and kink dynamics, emphasizing ethical consumption of adult content. Nicole also explores financial empowerment, discussing practices like carrying cash and affirmations, and highlights her upcoming projects to support single moms and those seeking financial independence. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ 🫦Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off) ⁠🫦HUD app (Kinky dating app) 🫦afterglow⁠ (Free week of 🌽) EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Balancing Sex Work and Motherhood ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Breaking Taboos: Money and Sex ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges of Being Open About Adult Work ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Realizing Queerness and Leaving the Church ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Exploring the World of Sugar Dating CONNECT WITH NIKOLE 💌 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Youtube CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Youtube🫦Website

In this episode, I sit down with Bek Antonucci, and we dive into sexual wellness, STI stigmas, and self-love. Bek shares her HSV2 diagnosis journey and how she has helped support thousands of women in reclaiming their power and sexuality after an STI diagnosis. We also discuss how to have hard conversations with partners and the importance of advocating for your desires and pleasure. EPISODE SPONSORS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Butter Wellness (SEGGS for 20% off) 🫦HUD app ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Afterglow EPISODE THEMES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Finding out you have HSV2 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Bek’s four-part disclose series ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦The stigma of STIs ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Healing from an STI diagnosis ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦HSV1 & HSV1 CONNECT WITH BEK: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Website CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Website

Thea (⁠⁠@itsthearose⁠⁠) and Hannah (⁠⁠@thelibidofairy)⁠⁠ give their sex life updates and then answer listener questions. SEGGS TALK RADIO: 🫦 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🫦 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🫦 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this episode, I chat with Lumi Ray, a chef turned adult actress and content creator, now working as an intimacy coordinator and hosting the No Substitutes Podcast. We dive into life in Humboldt County, where we both lived for many years, her motivations for starting OnlyFans, her first porn shoot, her experiences shooting for Kink.com, and much more. Lumi is a delightful and laid-back person, and I'm so glad we got the chance to talk. EPISODE SPONSORS: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦HUD app ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Afterglow EPISODE THEMES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Humboldt County ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Starting an OnlyFans 🫦Kink.com 🫦Cooking and food 🫦Being an intimacy coordinator CONNECT WITH LUMI: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Podcast CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Website