26 - Leann Borneman, LCSW CST: ADHD in the Bedroom: Unpacking Neurospicy Intimacy and Connection

In this compelling episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea engages in a profound conversation with Cindy Gallop, the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn.com. The discussion delves into the platform's origins, driven by the need for an inclusive and educational approach to real-world sexual experiences versus mainstream porn. Cindy shares her vision for MakeLoveNotPorn Academy, addressing challenges in sex education, and tackling the monopolistic dominance of the porn industry.  The episode emphasizes the importance of communication, consent, and equitable treatment in adult entertainment, alongside innovative projects like a fintech product for secure payments and an AI consent algorithm. Highlighting user testimonials, societal norms, and personal anecdotes, Cindy encourages investment in their equity crowdfunding campaign, aiming to transform the landscape of sexual education and advocacy. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off): https://butterwellness.com/  Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenging Societal Norms and Misogyny ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Understanding Consent in Intimacy ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Innovative Solutions for the Adult Industry ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦The Importance of Sexual Values 🫦Challenges in the Porn Industry CONNECT WITH CINDY GALLOP 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cindygallop Website: https://www.makelovenotporn.com  CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Dr. Cynthia Graham, a senior scientist at the Kinsey Institute and a professor in gender studies at Indiana University, Bloomington, discusses her extensive research on sexual health, including the impacts of hormonal contraceptives on women's sexuality and various aspects of condom use. Dr. Graham shares insights from her studies on the menstrual cycle, oral contraceptives, and sex therapy, as well as her recent work on improving the condom usage experience, particularly through the Kinsey Institute Condom Use Research Team (CURT).  She also covers her collaborative research on a sexual health chatbot aimed at improving clinic services for racially minoritized populations in London. The episode delves into the often under-researched area of older adults' sexuality, revealing findings from surveys and studies conducted on women over 60. Dr. Graham emphasizes the importance of comprehensive sex education and expresses her desire to return to studying contraceptives, despite challenges in securing funding. The conversation highlights the critical need for better communication, empathy, and innovation in sexual health research and education. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off): https://butterwellness.com/  Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges in Seggsual Health Research ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Seggsual Health Chatbot Collaboration ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Contraceptives and Women's Health ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Condom Use and Research 🫦Research on Hormones and Seggsuality CONNECT WITH DR. CYNTHIA GRAHAM 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cyagraham/  CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast

In this engaging episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea meets with WeezyWTF and Mandii to discuss a wide range of topics related to sex, relationships, and personal experiences. They share their encounters on dating apps, navigating kink communities, and the quest for compatible partners.  We cover a LOT: dating dynamics with younger men, and the role of religious values in relationships. WeezyWTF also provides insights into the business side of sex work and related industries through her show 'Sex Sells.' Furthermore, they delve into managing finances as sex workers, the challenges of digital censorship, and the complexities of sex work transactions, including the use of Bitcoin. This episode offers a frank and insightful look into personal boundaries, sexual preferences, financial realities, and professional endeavors in the world of sex. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off): https://butterwellness.com/ Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Religious and cultural differences in dating ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Vegas adventures and k!nk ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Shaving and p3gging stories ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Bisexuality and masculinity in k!nk 🫦Business of s*x work CONNECT WITH WHOREIBLE DECISIONS 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whoreible_decisions CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.com Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Thea meets with Dr. Evan Goldstein, a prominent proctologist and the founder of Bespoke Surgical. Dr. Goldstein recounts his transition from aspiring heart surgeon to a passionate advocate for inclusive anal health care. The discussion covers the broader impacts of anal health on overall well-being, relationships, and self-esteem, while emphasizing the critical need for education and de-stigmatization around anal sex. Dr. Goldstein introduces his book 'But Seriously' and his product line Future Method, both dedicated to promoting scientifically backed sexual health products. He explicates a six-week anal training protocol for safe practices and enjoyment, discusses the importance of individualized anal anatomy knowledge, and dispels myths surrounding anal pleasure. They also highlight the essential role of safe practices, the use of PrEP and DoxyPep to reduce STI risks, proper anal hygiene techniques, and the relevance of fluid sexual identities. The episode concludes with practical advice for maintaining anal health and stresses the importance of continuous education and open conversations about sexual wellness. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off): https://butterwellness.com/  Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦De-stigmatization of an@l health and s*xual pleasure ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Inadequate physician training in gay s*xual health ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Development of inclusive medical practicals  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Importance of proper an@l stimulation 🫦Practical hygiene tips CONNECT WITH EVAN 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, host Thea sits down with Dasha Bond, a professional dominatrix and sex worker, to discuss her journey from Ukraine to New York's sex work community, the significance of authenticity and diversity in kink, and the production of realistic adult content. They delve into key topics such as negotiation, aftercare, and the challenges sex workers face regarding payment processing and internet privacy.  Further, Dasha explores the critical issues surrounding the decriminalization and legalization of sex work, drawing comparisons to the cannabis industry, and emphasizes the need for expert involvement from marginalized communities in legislative reforms. She also shares practical advice for aspiring dominants, underlining the importance of professional guidance. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off): https://butterwellness.com/  Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Authenticity and Emotional Depth in S*x Work ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Importance of Creating Educational Resources  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦BD$M Dynamics ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Creating Community in NYC for Escorts ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Decriminalization and Legalization of S*x Work 🫦Practical Advice, Negotiation, and Aftercare CONNECT WITH DASHA 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dashbonda  CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.comPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, Leann Borneman shares her journey of being diagnosed with ADHD and her focus on ADHD and sexuality. The conversation explores the link between ADHD and sexual behavior, highlighting the challenges and sensory issues that arise in intimate relationships. Leann and the host discuss strategies for setting up a successful relationship environment, the importance of communication, and the use of behavioral therapy.  They also address the impact of hormonal cycles like PMDD and menopause on ADHD, emphasizing the need for awareness, creativity, and adaptability in enhancing sexual experiences and connection. This episode offers valuable advice on navigating ADHD in intimacy, fostering understanding, and improving sexual fulfillment. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off): https://butterwellness.com/  Mochi Melt Lube (THEA for 15%off) mochimelt.com Honey Play Box Sex Toys (SEGGS for 20% off) https://honeyplaybox.com Splash Blankets (SEGGS for 15% off) https://splashblanket.us/ ⁠HUD app (Kinky dating app): https://hudapp.com/seggstalk EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦ADHD in Media and Gender Discrepancies ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Behavioral Therapy and Environment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦BDSM and ADHD ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Energy Management and Spoon Theory ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Importance of Reputable ADHD Information 🫦The Role of Communication in ADHD Relationships CONNECT WITH LEANN 💌 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bornemanpsychotherapy CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠Podcast Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: https://www.seggstalkradio.com Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast

In this episode, Thea and Kaylee discuss the importance of self-awareness, and healthy relationships, and dive into healthy BDSM vs the abuse of power. They differentiate between baby doms and fake doms, delve into altered head spaces, and examine how trauma and attachment styles affect dynamics. The conversation highlights the differences between BDSM and abuse, emphasizing consent, respect, and aftercare, and concludes with advice on vetting partners and the importance of open communication and self-compassion. EPISODE THEMES 📝 03:27 Vetting Partners in the BDSM Community 18:58 Understanding Altered Head Spaces in BDSM 25:46 Cognitive Dissonance in Relationships 35:13 Attachment Styles and the Role of Trauma 45:28 Understanding Narcissism  48:51 The Role of Power Exchange in Healing Attachment Styles 56:22 The Importance of Communication and Self-Reflection 01:04:49 Differentiating Between BDSM and Abuse 01:09:25 Vetting Questions in BDSM CONNECT WITH KAYLEE 💌 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦https://www.instagram.com/kayleerose.life/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦https://kayleerose.nor.by/Home CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 ⁠https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadioPodcast/videos⁠ 🫦 ⁠https://seggstalkradio.com/

In this episode of Seggs Talk Radio, we engage in a candid conversation with Natasha Miller about sexual wellness, relationships, and intimacy. Natasha discusses her transition from finance to becoming an entrepreneur in the sexual wellness industry, and her experiences with sex clubs and the BDSM community. We explore societal taboos, the importance of communication in long-term relationships, and practical advice on enhancing sexual experiences. Emphasizing mental health, we address how to handle societal pressures around sex, the significance of self-awareness, and the value of trust-based intimacy in healthy relationships. Tune in for insights on building stronger connections and prioritizing personal fulfillment. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ 🫦https://butterwellness.com (SEGGS for 20% off) ⁠🫦https://hudapp.com/seggstalk (Kinky dating app) 🫦https://afterglow.ubpages.com/xothea (Free week of 🌽) 🫦https://www.sensuali.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=seggstalkradio&utm_campaign=seggstalkradio&utm_id=seggstalkradio (Free to sign up!) EPISODE THEMES 📝 🫦Navigating Intimacy in Relationships ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Sexual Education and Awareness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Societal and Cultural Impacts on Sexuality ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Challenges in Sexual Health ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Importance of Physical and Emotional Health 🫦Sexual Techniques and Practices CONNECT WITH NATASSIA 💌 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦https://www.instagram.com/natassiamiller CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 https://www.instagram.com/seggstalkradiopodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 https://www.youtube.com/@SeggsTalkRadioPodcast/videos 🫦 https://seggstalkradio.com/

In this episode, I sit down with Allison Crosby to discuss the intersections of ADHD, autism, and borderline personality disorder (BPD) with sexuality and mental health. We explore the impact of neurodivergence on sexual experiences, the use of sensory toolkits, and the role of kink and BDSM within neurodivergent communities. Allison shares insights from her professional background, emphasizing the importance of addressing childhood trauma, unmet emotional needs, and individualized therapy. Additionally, we delve into overcoming stigmas and misconceptions surrounding BPD, including hypersexuality and impulsivity, and address strategies for advocating safe and satisfying sexual interactions. The conversation underscores the need for communication, aftercare, and finding the right mental health provider to improve relationship dynamics and sexual well-being. EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNTS 🛍️ 🫦Butter Wellness Perineum Massager⁠ (SEGGS for 20% off) ⁠🫦HUD app (Kinky dating app) 🫦afterglow⁠ (Free week of 🌽) 🫦Sensuali (Free to sign up!) EPISODE THEMES 📝 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Childhood Trauma and Its Impact ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦ADHD and Its Relationship to Sex ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Autism and BDSM ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Sensory Toolkits ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) 🫦Sensory and Neurological Connections to Sex CONNECT WITH ALLISON 💌 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦Instagram CONNECT WITH SEGGS TALK RADIO 🎙️ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠🫦 Youtube🫦 Website

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